Selena, 'I Know What The Truth Is.'

Selena, 'I Know What The Truth Is.'

Selena Gomez became addicted to celebrity gossip sites by hanging out with one friend who was completely obsessed: She revealed to BOP!: 'Someone in my life checked them all the time.'

After seeing the embarrassing pictures and rumors, it started to hurt her self-esteem: 'I was taking everything to heart. It was like, I'm too this, I'm too that! It was so much drama.'

Selena finally turned to Mommy Mandy for help: 'She taught me to not taking everything so personally. I know what the truth is. As long as I know and let my fans know that more than half the stuff they read is not true, it's not going to control my life anymore.'

Clip under of Selena revealing what she does to feel like a princess!




158 comments:

Anonymous said:

fsdfds

emily ford said:

she acts as if she's been around for a long time. like "i used to look at all these blah blah blah" Selena, just not too long ago you STARTED to appear on sites.

Anonymous said:

great

Anonymous said:

then y does she keep reading them

victoria said:

oh mt gosh! poor selena! she has had .1 rumors spread about her in her entire life!
it must be really HARD being followed by a single pap once a month

Anonymous said:

cry me a river

Anonymous said:

love her
you haters need to shut the fuck up

Anonymous said:

she's not even that famous...
seriously, look at the hell miley's been through.

Kirsty said:

selena think about what a REAL celebrity has to go through your nothing...

Anonymous said:

shut the fuck up
she wasn't only talking about rumors, she was also talking about people criticizing her and stuff
and she IS constantly followed by paps, have you been living under a rock?

triciaaa :) said:

love selena Smile
haters have no life

Anonymous said:

I hate when celebs complain about this shit.
Build a bridge and get over it.

Anonymous said:

blah blah blah

NO ONE CARES

Sr. Asshole said:

I love her bbut it looks like she has a mustache in that picture

Anonymous said:

why does everybody constantly bring miley into selena posts? get a life
of course miley is gonna go through more, cause she took those slutty pictures
i am a miley fan but you people are just ridiculous with constantly criticizing selena for every little thing

Lacy said:

Aww, poor Selena.
She has such a hard life.
/sarcasm.

Anonymous said:

She needs to suck it up. These people are giving you attention and keeping you on these sites. Not everyone will always like you and you have to accept that.

Anonymous said:

Love that pic of Sel!!!

Anonymous said:

YOU'RE nothing
ha

Anonymous said:

cry me a river
SELENA
cry me a river

Anonymous said:

how would you know? EXACTLY, you don't.

Orls said:

Selena is so amazing.
It's great she doesnt let the jealous haters affect her life anymore (:

Anonymous said:

Yeah I know what the truth is too,she's a backstabbing 2 faced bitch.

emily ford said:

shut the fuck up
she wasn't only talking about rumors, she was also talking about people criticizing her and stuff
and she IS constantly followed by paps, have you been living under a rock?

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are you serious? when's the last time you saw paparazzi pictures/videos of her? plus she thinks she's wicked fucking famous and ignores the paps and her fans. where have YOU been living!?

Anonymous said:

BLAH BLAH BLAH

Anonymous said:

Shit, I said "you" waaay too much.
Oh well(:

Anonymous said:

Aw, I love her. Smile
She seems like a really positive person
who likes to see the good in others, but can be
really hard on herself. Know what I mean?

Oh, & I saw 'Future Harper'. I LOVVEE it.
Rachel Dratch is amazing. I'm so happy she was
in the episode.

AND I'm so excited Sel's gonna be in a movie
with Ginnifer Goodwin. I fucking love her. Walk The Line is one of my favorite movies and Big Love is one of my favorie TV shows.

Anonymous said:

wow 10 posts.....i thought they are gunna be ALOT of people on this post!
i guess no one is interested in selena anymore/.

Kirsty said:

why does everybody constantly bring miley into selena posts? get a life
of course miley is gonna go through more, cause she took those slutty pictures
i am a miley fan but you people are just ridiculous with constantly criticizing selena for every little thing

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she was comparing.. and a miley fan? ha since when are you a miley fan if you say she took slutty pictures? yes they were contreversial but not in anyway slutty look up the real meaning of that word. oh and selena fans also critisize miley for every stinking thing she does so what goes around comes around...

Anonymous said:

Shut the fuck up Selena!! We dont care about you! You are just a disney kid and will never be anything more! Run off to your hoe of a mom who had you at 16 and cry 'cos you aren't going to get any sympathy from us!

Anonymous said:

WTF? What embarassing pictures? And just when I started to feel bad for this chick. ENough with the pity party. Fuck Selena with something raw and sand-papery.

Anonymous said:

she acts as if she's been around for a long time. like "i used to look at all these blah blah blah" Selena, just not too long ago you STARTED to appear on sites.
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you know, oceanup hasn't been around that long either. it began maybe around 06 early 07. thats around the same time selena started, with wowp airing and all.

if she goes "i used to look at all these" that doesn't mean she acts like she's been around a long time. is it a crime to use the past tense? she used to, but now she doesn't. what's wrong with that?

Anonymous said:

Put mouse ears on her and she looks just like Mickey.

Anonymous said:

yeah cos she's sooooo famous.... bitch, please!

Anonymous said:

She needs to suck it up. These people are giving you attention and keeping you on these sites. Not everyone will always like you and you have to accept that.
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im pretty sure that was the moral of the story. stop acting like you just said some profound statement. its obviously something every new celeb is ggoing to have to go through and learn how to handle. stop acting like its something that should just roll off her back. you dont know her life so dont pretend you do.

Kirsty said:

YOU'RE nothing
ha

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HA! no... -_-

martha said:

ew

shes never even had any rumors spread about her she's the cause of almost every miley rumor so she should just bequiet.
gosh

Anonymous said:

yes i AM a miley fan, cause the pictures were SLUTTY but i still SUPPORTED her through it and never bashed her for it
shut up

Anonymous said:

selena you are an ass. get over it

Anonymous said:

I'm sick of her woe is me shit all she ever does is give cryptic little quotes where she's very vague or drops names or clues to whoever she's obsessing over at the moment or drool over demi or feel sorry for herself

Anonymous said:

omg she is so annoying i think she is a Diva
she is fake
i have been through more crap than her
she is so stupid and this is coming from an 18 year old ,every body knows what the truth about them is. Is so sad that she just figured it out

chrisydamnit. said:

grow up.

Anonymous said:

hah, i think we all do.
dating/dated a jonas brother.
eats pickles 24/7
do a DISNEY show.
make annoying youtube vids.
yadadada.
she isn't even a music artist to say that
she's been busy with concerts.

aww that poor thing.

Anonymous said:

if you don't care about her then why are you reading stuff about her? ...exactly

meggaa said:

shut the fuck up
she wasn't only talking about rumors, she was also talking about people criticizing her and stuff
and she IS constantly followed by paps, have you been living under a rock?

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are you serious? when's the last time you saw paparazzi pictures/videos of her? plus she thinks she's wicked fucking famous and ignores the paps and her fans. where have YOU been living!?
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probably up selena ass...

Anonymous said:

OMG!!!???? I don't even want to see that in my head even though I can't stand her,that was too graphic,lol!

Anonymous said:

how is she the cause of the rumors about miley? you're retarded

Anonymous said:

Well I mean even if you're not famous and people are criticizing you, it still hurts. She is probably talking about how people always compare her with Miley and how people hate on her. It still must hurt but she shouldn't complain to magazines because thats one of the negatives about being famous.

Anonymous said:

You don't know her life either. She already acts like she is the shit. & she has been here long enough to know that not everyone will like her. If she is going to be all sensitive and upset that a lot of people hate her then she shouldn't be in this business.

Anonymous said:

okay but you don't know her PRIVATE life

Anonymous said:

she's not even that famous...
seriously, look at the hell miley's been through.
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MILEY? She hasn't faced shit. Look at BRITNEY. Now that's tough.

Anonymous said:

LMFAO, I LOVE HOW YOU ALL SAY "oh no one cares about her no one makes fun of her ..." MEANWHILE, YOUR ALL SITTING HERE DOING IT.

Anonymous said:

are you serious? when's the last time you saw paparazzi pictures/videos of her? plus she thinks she's wicked fucking famous and ignores the paps and her fans. where have YOU been living!?

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the last time i saw a paparazzi video was of her and her dinner date with demi, miley and justin. then she went to PR. but even there we still get candids of her.

if she ignores her fans then why do we have fan meeting posts of her? why do a lot of fans have her autograph and pictures with her? if she ignores her fans then why does she respond to comments on her twitter? why does she comment youtube videos by fans? why does she leave bulletin post on myspace addressed to her fans to read? why does she do callbacks on her saynow?

i don't know where you've been living but i do know for sure that selena does not ignore her fans.

Anonymous said:

i really like her. she seems like a chill girl. i think she'll stay pretty grounded through all this. i'd rather have someone still feel emotion then be completely callus to certain things. keep your head up girl; the people that try to bring you down will bring nothing good to this world.

cry me a river. said:

LOL, she just love to complain. I remember when she said " rumours about me dating my cousin almost destroyed me , bla bla bla", well HELLO Selly belly, things aren't easy.

Anonymous said:

THANK YOU! haha

Anonymous said:

well she obv. gets shit said about her.
look at all these comments.

lol your all so dumb.
I like Selena(: and miley and jb and demi.

alright wow said:

How would you fucking feel, having EVERYTHING
you do be judged? Knowing so many people are
against you and you can't escape it. Most people
who are against you don't even know you. How would you
feel? You would hate it. I think EVERYONE would. She
isn't a diva? What has she done to get that title.
Miley isn't a slut either. Sluts have sex with numerous
people. Do we see Miley doing that? No. Miley did take
inappropriate pictures but the word SLUT is a little
strong. Don't judge them because you want to marry
there ex boyfriends or current ones. Who cares how old
there current boyfriends are. Let them live, and stop
calling them names or even telling them to DIE. Imagine
if you did that at school, and a teacher heard. You
would get in so much trouble. Expelled or AT LEAST
suspended. Just because you're on the internet not
showing your face doesn't mean you need to be bitches.
Does it make you feel better calling people names?
Just put yourself in there position. You'd hate it.
Leave them alone, and stop juding them before you've
ever even meet them. Seriously..

Anonymous said:

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emily ford said:

shut the fuck up
she wasn't only talking about rumors, she was also talking about people criticizing her and stuff
and she IS constantly followed by paps, have you been living under a rock?

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are you serious? when's the last time you saw paparazzi pictures/videos of her? plus she thinks she's wicked fucking famous and ignores the paps and her fans. where have YOU been living!?
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probably up selena ass...

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hahahaha, right!? jesus. from day 1 she has complained about being noticed. no gonna lie, i would LOVE it. it would really suck if some actually like mean rumor went around. but you're supposed to enjoy all the attention from EVERYONE including paps.

Anonymous said:

lol EXACTLY!
haters are PATHETIC

Anonymous said:

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Anonymous said:

oh mt gosh! poor selena! she has had .1 rumors spread about her in her entire life!
it must be really HARD being followed by a single pap once a month

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oh, i understand you!

it must be that the zero paps following you around makes you a genius on this subject. how many times have you been posted about on a gossip site? hmmm? oh... right... again, 0!

Anonymous said:

she's not even that famous...
seriously, look at the hell miley's been through.
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MILEY? She hasn't faced shit. Look at BRITNEY. Now that's tough.
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WTF!! Are you high or just stupid? Britney was having alot of problems and the media reported on them but the stuff was largely true because she really was out of control.Miley always gets beat up on no matter what she does or doesn't do every little thing is picked on mixed in with a whole lot of lies being told about her I'd say what they do to Miley is worse than Britney,Miley can't even goof around with friends and make faces without insane people wanting to sue her

Anonymous said:

You don't know her life either. She already acts like she is the shit. & she has been here long enough to know that not everyone will like her. If she is going to be all sensitive and upset that a lot of people hate her then she shouldn't be in this business.
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you are kidding me right. i dont have to know her life to know that people constantly talking to you might actually have an effect on you. you obviously can not prepare yourself for some of the backlash you are going to get. no matter who you are, you think you can, but i would imagine it isnt exactly the easiest thing in the world. its an obstacle that you have to overcome just like everyone else in this world. god forbid, she has to be human for a minute and deal with some rough patches. it has to nothing to do with being overly sensitive; it happens with every star, not just her.

Anonymous said:

no i saw on youtube a paparazzi vid of her shopping. and one where she's coming out of the hairdresser. and one where she is coming from some event. go do your fucking research u little miley teenie, before u come and talk your shit.

Anonymous said:

hahahaha, right!? jesus. from day 1 she has complained about being noticed. no gonna lie, i would LOVE it. it would really suck if some actually like mean rumor went around. but you're supposed to enjoy all the attention from EVERYONE including paps.
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um not everyone enjoys having grown ass men following you around everywhere you go. im sorry if you would like to whore out attention like that, but not everyone does.

emily ford said:

i hope you all know it's teeny not teenie.

Anonymous said:

yeah cos she's sooooo famous.... bitch, please!

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you guys sound like little bitches. you don't need to be ridiculously famous to have rumors and insults spread about you. you haters prove that point.

"she's not even that famous"... well then why are there people criticizing her by saying she has a big head, is ugly, is a wannabe, is a slut, is using demi, nick, etc. etc.? who cares if it doesn't amount to miley's or britney spear's, its still hurtful.

hate comments are a form of bullying. middle/high school students compared to selena are "nobodies" and yet the idea of having someone call you a name can be very very upsetting. so why shouldn't insulting comments by haters affect selena? its normal! so seriously, grow up and put yourself in their shoes before you leave retarded comments.

Anonymous said:

WTF!! Are you high or just stupid? Britney was having alot of problems and the media reported on them but the stuff was largely true because she really was out of control.Miley always gets beat up on no matter what she does or doesn't do every little thing is picked on mixed in with a whole lot of lies being told about her I'd say what they do to Miley is worse than Britney,Miley can't even goof around with friends and make faces without insane people wanting to sue her
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mileys cool and all but she was her own catalist to a lot of her media problems. granted, i think miley was dealing with a lot of thing emotionally and i am not saying she is a bad person but a lot of media attention resulted because of her own actions. im not going to play the victim card for everything that happens to her. i think even she realizes she had to take responsibilty for some of the stuff that happened.

Anonymous said:

you are kidding me right. i dont have to know her life to know that people constantly talking to you might actually have an effect on you. you obviously can not prepare yourself for some of the backlash you are going to get. no matter who you are, you think you can, but i would imagine it isnt exactly the easiest thing in the world. its an obstacle that you have to overcome just like everyone else in this world. god forbid, she has to be human for a minute and deal with some rough patches. it has to nothing to do with being overly sensitive; it happens with every star, not just her.
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I get that. But when she constantly complains about being followed by paps or all the rumors and mean things said about her. It just gets so fucking annoying. Just like you said, every star deals with this. She is no exception and nothing special. I have nothing against her, because I don't know her. But in my opinion she needs to suck it up. These people are making you famous.

emily ford said:

hahahaha, right!? jesus. from day 1 she has complained about being noticed. no gonna lie, i would LOVE it. it would really suck if some actually like mean rumor went around. but you're supposed to enjoy all the attention from EVERYONE including paps.
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um not everyone enjoys having grown ass men following you around everywhere you go. im sorry if you would like to whore out attention like that, but not everyone does.

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haha, whore out my attention!? are you kidding me!? if you're nice to them, they'll be nice to you. the more you ignore them the meaner they get. it's pretty fucking simple.

cry me a river. said:

No freaking one follow her anyway. And its not about the paps she is complaining about , its about the rumours. Seriosuly, she wanted the fame, so deal with the shit cause everybody can't love her.

Anonymous said:

hahahaha, right!? jesus. from day 1 she has complained about being noticed. no gonna lie, i would LOVE it. it would really suck if some actually like mean rumor went around. but you're supposed to enjoy all the attention from EVERYONE including paps.

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some of hollywood's biggest stars don't enjoy the paps, like george clooney (first star to cross my mind). would you believe that some people enter the hollywood indusry because they love to act/sing/whatever? just cause you're a star doesn't mean you HAVE to love the paps.

Ericka said:

Um.. Maybe she's talking about all the shit most of you ppl say about her! ever think of that?
Gosh ppl need to learn that when you say something mean/bad about someone it can really mess them up.
would you want ppl criticizing every little thing you do all the time!? i dont think so.

Why is it that ppl always bring up someone other then who this is actually about? its annoying!

TeamGomezLovatoCyrusHenri!
Lol. actually team everyone! lol

Anonymous said:

HA
HA
HA
HA
selena we see right through you.

anonymous said:

all you haters just need to stay the fuck off selenas post because of you she has to stay off of these sites.you dumb asses,gey a life of your ownand stop bashing her all the timeshe cant do anything right with you fucking haters.just go to hell and do us a big favor and stay there if thats all your going to do is put her down
shes done nothing wrong nothing at all
but you know how i see it ,is that your really all into her business because you just cant stop reading up on her,she really gets your attention and you just cant stand it

cry me a river. said:

hahahaha, right!? jesus. from day 1 she has complained about being noticed. no gonna lie, i would LOVE it. it would really suck if some actually like mean rumor went around. but you're supposed to enjoy all the attention from EVERYONE including paps.
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um not everyone enjoys having grown ass men following you around everywhere you go. im sorry if you would like to whore out attention like that, but not everyone does.

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haha, whore out my attention!? are you kidding me!? if you're nice to them, they'll be nice to you. the more you ignore them the meaner they get. it's pretty fucking simple.
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Exactly, she was like " if the paps are good to me, then I will be nice too". And then they ask her questions like : how are you?, is that bad? seriously. Watch the video of her, demi & Miley. Demi & Miley said : its good, thank you. And selena was playing all : Im 2 good to answer you.

Anonymous said:

LOL, she just love to complain. I remember when she said " rumours about me dating my cousin almost destroyed me , bla bla bla", well HELLO Selly belly, things aren't easy.

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of course things aren't easy. life isn't easy. that still doesn't mean you can't complain about it. tell me you never complained in your life, like school sucks, or there's too much hw, or chores are annoying.

just imagine yourself in her shoes, having a bunch of people spread rumors saying your dating your cousins. wouldn't you feel the least bit awkward or upset? when something is not true and a load of people are spreading around that it is, of course you're going to react. stop hating on something so natural!

Anonymous said:

Awhhh Selena, Poor thing. Do you need a pickle?(:

Anonymous said:

I get that. But when she constantly complains about being followed by paps or all the rumors and mean things said about her. It just gets so fucking annoying. Just like you said, every star deals with this. She is no exception and nothing special. I have nothing against her, because I don't know her. But in my opinion she needs to suck it up. These people are making you famous.
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girl please. she doesnt constantly complain. mags ask her how she deals with it or certain stories that effect her and she answers. if your only source of selena information is oceanup, then your only going to see the 'controversial' things she says. she talks about plenty more, her career, her future plans, her hobbies, etc. but you dont see that cause you choose not too. and as i said, the moral of the story is her trying to work through that. how dare you say 'she needs to suck it up' as if she should be able to not let it effect her at all with the snap of a finger. it is something every star has to work through, that doesn't mean they can just 'suck it up' because you told them too. that statement could not have been any more ignorant. if anything all she said was how she doesnt let it get to her like it did before, not futher 'complaining' about it.

Mandy said:

Omg! I love her so much!

janey said:

Selena is not talking about paparazzi, she's taking about some rude people talking crap about her in blogsites. It doesn't matter if Britney or Miley gets more hate than her, the point is that there are assholes (like you) who bashes her for every little thing and she's hurt by it. But guess what! She's not hurt by it anymore. She has learned not to take it personally and to keep living her dreams and doing what she loves to do. So all you haters who keeps saying "get over it Selena!" are really stupid, cause Selena is 100 times ahead of you cause the rumors and the insults don't bother her anymore!

Anonymous said:

haha, whore out my attention!? are you kidding me!? if you're nice to them, they'll be nice to you. the more you ignore them the meaner they get. it's pretty fucking simple.

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so in order for paps not to be mean to you, you HAVE to respond or pay attention to them?? no way in heck should the paps rule a celeb's life. selena, vanessa hudgens, george clooney, mel gibson, shia lebof, whoever have every right to ignore the paps if they wish to. its not being stuck up.

and i noticed that the more you give the paps attention the more they want from you. if you dont want to be bothered by paps then giving them excessive attention isn't the way to go. but selena has talked to the paps before, its not like she completely ignores them. she doesn't curse them off or talk bad about them, she was quiet that one time during the dinner date with demi and miley. the other pap videos i've seen of her she does talk to the paps.

Anonymous said:

all you haters just need to stay the fuck off selenas post because of you she has to stay off of these sites.you dumb asses,gey a life of your ownand stop bashing her all the timeshe cant do anything right with you fucking haters.just go to hell and do us a big favor and stay there if thats all your going to do is put her down
shes done nothing wrong nothing at all
but you know how i see it ,is that your really all into her business because you just cant stop reading up on her,she really gets your attention and you just cant stand it
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Lmfao. I put harsh criticism on her and people like you automatically assume I have no life. You are kind of meaner than we are don't you think? I mean "Go to hell and stay there" ? That is very evil. I would never say that to Selena. It's interesting.

janey said:

girl please. she doesnt constantly complain. mags ask her how she deals with it or certain stories that effect her and she answers. if your only source of selena information is oceanup, then your only going to see the 'controversial' things she says. she talks about plenty more, her career, her future plans, her hobbies, etc. but you dont see that cause you choose not too. and as i said, the moral of the story is her trying to work through that. how dare you say 'she needs to suck it up' as if she should be able to not let it effect her at all with the snap of a finger. it is something every star has to work through, that doesn't mean they can just 'suck it up' because you told them too. that statement could not have been any more ignorant. if anything all she said was how she doesnt let it get to her like it did before, not futher 'complaining' about it.
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Finally! Someone with a brain! I agree with you!

Anonymous said:

bla bla bla

Anonymous said:

haha, whore out my attention!? are you kidding me!? if you're nice to them, they'll be nice to you. the more you ignore them the meaner they get. it's pretty fucking simple.
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Exactly, she was like " if the paps are good to me, then I will be nice too". And then they ask her questions like : how are you?, is that bad? seriously. Watch the video of her, demi & Miley. Demi & Miley said : its good, thank you. And selena was playing all : Im 2 good to answer you.
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are you kidding me. you can be nice, you can ignore them; either way they are ALWAYS in your face and either way it is not going to be enjoyable. how many times have miley said the paps get on her nerves the most; countless. half the industry 'ignores' the paps. how does that equate to being 'to good' for them. some actually feel that is an extreme invasion of privacy and do not want to welcome it. why is that such an problem?

Anonymous said:

WTF!! Are you high or just stupid? Britney was having alot of problems and the media reported on them but the stuff was largely true because she really was out of control.Miley always gets beat up on no matter what she does or doesn't do every little thing is picked on mixed in with a whole lot of lies being told about her I'd say what they do to Miley is worse than Britney,Miley can't even goof around with friends and make faces without insane people wanting to sue her
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mileys cool and all but she was her own catalist to a lot of her media problems. granted, i think miley was dealing with a lot of thing emotionally and i am not saying she is a bad person but a lot of media attention resulted because of her own actions. im not going to play the victim card for everything that happens to her. i think even she realizes she had to take responsibilty for some of the stuff that happened.
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no way they try to tear Miley apart based on rumors and lies constantly

janey said:

It doesn't matter if Britney or Miley gets more hate than her, the point is that there are assholes (like you pathetic losers) who bashes her for every little thing she says or does and she's hurt by it. But guess what! She's not hurt by it anymore. She has learned not to take it personally and to keep living her dreams and doing what she loves to do. So all you haters who keeps saying "get over it Selena!" are really stupid, cause Selena is 100 times ahead of you cause the rumors and the insults doesn't bother her anymore!

chrisydamnit. said:

HA
HA
HA
HA
selena we see right through you.
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grow up.

you see what you want to see. thats about it.

emily ford said:

haha, whore out my attention!? are you kidding me!? if you're nice to them, they'll be nice to you. the more you ignore them the meaner they get. it's pretty fucking simple.

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so in order for paps not to be mean to you, you HAVE to respond or pay attention to them?? no way in heck should the paps rule a celeb's life. selena, vanessa hudgens, george clooney, mel gibson, shia lebof, whoever have every right to ignore the paps if they wish to. its not being stuck up.

and i noticed that the more you give the paps attention the more they want from you. if you dont want to be bothered by paps then giving them excessive attention isn't the way to go. but selena has talked to the paps before, its not like she completely ignores them. she doesn't curse them off or talk bad about them, she was quiet that one time during the dinner date with demi and miley. the other pap videos i've seen of her she does talk to the paps.

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i couldn't read any of that after Shia LaBEOUF. spell his name right. my god, he IS god. anyways....

cry me a river. said:

Awhhh Selena, Poor thing. Do you need a pickle?(:
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Yeah, and the book " He's just not that into you"

Anonymous said:

My opinion sweetheart, She needs to suck it up and deal with it. You just assumed a lot of things about me that is untrue. I actually listen to all of the things she has accomplished and the things she wants to pursue. I look at some gossip sites but I have more to do with my life then look at Disney Channel stars all day. That is all she is. She is a Disney Channel star. She hasn't even faced half of the criticism she will in the future. If she doesn't want people saying mean things about her and commenting on her every move, then she can go back to Texas. (:

Anonymous said:

Oh boo hoo. I'm not a fan of her OR Miley, but Miley's gone through a hell of a lot more and has actually been under scrutiny by parents and stuff. Selena needs to STFU.

cry me a river. said:

No, Miley's just stronger than her. You don't see her fucking complain about stuff like " rumours about me and my cousin dating almost destroyed me". She just don't give a fuck, and live her life. So shut the fuck up and join selena and eat some fucking pickles.

Ericka said:

Why is everyone freaking out! holy! she's probably talking about all the haters that talk shit about her! gosh if you guys (that talk shit) would just keep your comments to yourself then she wouldnt have to say that stuff!
Why do ppl find it fun to hate on others? its so stupid! why should you have to bring someone down? to make you feel better? thats bull.
seriously why do ppl find it 'fun' to hate others? it annoys me so much.

TeamEveryone!

Anonymous said:

mileys cool and all but she was her own catalist to a lot of her media problems. granted, i think miley was dealing with a lot of thing emotionally and i am not saying she is a bad person but a lot of media attention resulted because of her own actions. im not going to play the victim card for everything that happens to her. i think even she realizes she had to take responsibilty for some of the stuff that happened.
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no way they try to tear Miley apart based on rumors and lies constantly
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hmm your missing the point. i never said they didnt.

Anonymous said:

girl please. she doesnt constantly complain. mags ask her how she deals with it or certain stories that effect her and she answers. if your only source of selena information is oceanup, then your only going to see the 'controversial' things she says. she talks about plenty more, her career, her future plans, her hobbies, etc. but you dont see that cause you choose not too. and as i said, the moral of the story is her trying to work through that. how dare you say 'she needs to suck it up' as if she should be able to not let it effect her at all with the snap of a finger. it is something every star has to work through, that doesn't mean they can just 'suck it up' because you told them too. that statement could not have been any more ignorant. if anything all she said was how she doesnt let it get to her like it did before, not futher 'complaining' about it.

girl please. she doesnt constantly complain. mags ask her how she deals with it or certain stories that effect her and she answers. if your only source of selena information is oceanup, then your only going to see the 'controversial' things she says. she talks about plenty more, her career, her future plans, her hobbies, etc. but you dont see that cause you choose not too. and as i said, the moral of the story is her trying to work through that. how dare you say 'she needs to suck it up' as if she should be able to not let it effect her at all with the snap of a finger. it is something every star has to work through, that doesn't mean they can just 'suck it up' because you told them too. that statement could not have been any more ignorant. if anything all she said was how she doesnt let it get to her like it did before, not futher 'complaining' about it.

girl please. she doesnt constantly complain. mags ask her how she deals with it or certain stories that effect her and she answers. if your only source of selena information is oceanup, then your only going to see the 'controversial' things she says. she talks about plenty more, her career, her future plans, her hobbies, etc. but you dont see that cause you choose not too. and as i said, the moral of the story is her trying to work through that. how dare you say 'she needs to suck it up' as if she should be able to not let it effect her at all with the snap of a finger. it is something every star has to work through, that doesn't mean they can just 'suck it up' because you told them too. that statement could not have been any more ignorant. if anything all she said was how she doesnt let it get to her like it did before, not futher 'complaining' about it.

Anonymous said:

Freedom of Speech honey.

Anonymous said:

Agreed.

Anonymous said:

Lmfao.

Anonymous said:

"she's not even that famous...
seriously, look at the hell miley's been through."
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Are you kidding me?! Here on Oceanup, Selena is getting way more hate than Miley does now. Just look at all the comments from Selena's posts...most of them are haters.

janey said:

No, Miley's just stronger than her. You don't see her fucking complain about stuff like " rumours about me and my cousin dating almost destroyed me". She just don't give a fuck, and live her life. So shut the fuck up and join selena and eat some fucking pickles.
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please. she doesnt constantly complain. mags ask her how she deals with it or certain stories that effect her and she answers. if your only source of selena information is oceanup, then your only going to see the 'controversial' things she says. she talks about plenty more, her career, her future plans, her hobbies, etc. but you dont see that cause you choose not too. and as i said, the moral of the story is her trying to work through that. how dare you say 'she needs to suck it up' as if she should be able to not let it effect her at all with the snap of a finger. it is something every star has to work through, that doesn't mean they can just 'suck it up' because you told them too. that statement could not have been any more ignorant. if anything all she said was how she doesnt let it get to her like it did before, not futher 'complaining' about it.

emily ford said:

maybe if she wasn't all creepy, lovey dovey with her cousin, the rumor never would have started. i'm close with all my cousins and NONE of us are like that. plus, i would die laughing if that rumor came out about me and one of my cousins.

Anonymous said:

Fuck that. Miley has been through hell of a lot more than selena has. People are just starting to like her again. That was a stupid thing to say.

Anonymous said:

No freaking one follow her anyway. And its not about the paps she is complaining about , its about the rumours. Seriosuly, she wanted the fame, so deal with the shit cause everybody can't love her.

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she's not saying that every body should love her. she's saying hateful comments use to affect her, but now she doesn’t let it get to her anymore. i think you guys are completely missing the point here, she's not complaining, she's actually showing strong character by not letting haters affect her anymore.

mimi said:

yes i AM a miley fan, cause the pictures were SLUTTY but i still SUPPORTED her through it and never bashed her for it
shut up

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You do know you are not a miley supporter.Miley supporter dont expresses themselves about their artist is such a poor image! specially when miley pictures were not slutty the girl showed a lot less skin at her HOUSE than other disney stars at the beach. I personally dont like to put other disney star as an example but selena and demi pose in their bikinys with their belly showing a lot more than miley and nobody said such names to them why because miley,selena nor demi are slut or any of those pictures are slutty! So dont try to pass as a miley fans because you are clearly not one! none of the disney girls need all this bashing neither of them deserved them.

Anonymous said:

No, Miley's just stronger than her. You don't see her fucking complain about stuff like " rumours about me and my cousin dating almost destroyed me". She just don't give a fuck, and live her life. So shut the fuck up and join selena and eat some fucking pickles
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you are kidding right. miley has said countless times how certain rumors really effected her. dont even pull that card out.

Anonymous said:

Lmfao. You just took what the other chick said. And it makes no sense. Idiot.

Anonymous said:

Miley has a reason to complain. She is waaaay more famous then Selena and I still hear Selena talk about how hard it is more than Miley.

Anonymous said:

okay selena haters calm the f&%^ down, seriously. She does know what the truth is. Stop comparing her to miley they are freaken different. She's gone through a lot maybe not as much as miley but she has been bullied though by you guys calling her names and stuff. What's wrong with her speaking?

Anonymous said:

My opinion sweetheart, She needs to suck it up and deal with it. You just assumed a lot of things about me that is untrue. I actually listen to all of the things she has accomplished and the things she wants to pursue. I look at some gossip sites but I have more to do with my life then look at Disney Channel stars all day. That is all she is. She is a Disney Channel star. She hasn't even faced half of the criticism she will in the future. If she doesn't want people saying mean things about her and commenting on her every move, then she can go back to Texas. (:
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she didn't say she didn't want people commenting about her did she? no. but that doesn't mean she has to be thrilled about it. again. the point of what she said wasn't how much she doesn't like it. it WAS the fact that she doesn't let it get to her like it did before. or in your terms 'sucking it up.' i dont know why you think you are making some profound statement when all you are doing is clearly missing the point she is making.

Anonymous said:

Love Selena

Anonymous said:

i fuckin love her.
hey you guys are stupid!!
uhm miley has a reason to
complain cause she is way
more famous than selena??
that seriously did not make
sense. just cause your
more famous don't mean shit.
if their is rumors yeah you
should fuckin complain.

when i was in middle school
there was a rumor about mee
im just not gonna let them
control me thinking that.
hell nahhh.

SELENA IS SO AWESOME :]

Anonymous said:

No, Miley's just stronger than her. You don't see her fucking complain about stuff like " rumours about me and my cousin dating almost destroyed me". She just don't give a fuck, and live her life. So shut the fuck up and join selena and eat some fucking pickles.

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miley has had her fair share of complaints about rumors too. that rumor about her being pregnant, that really upset her and i remember oceanup posting about her complaint towards how mean people can be. miley has commented loads of times about haters dissing her, saying how "they're so mean", "why do they want to hurt someone so bad" etc. etc. but those were back in 07-08 when she began to get popular. now miley doesnt let it bother her. because she's use to it by now, she's been in the limelight longer than selena so of course she's going to be "stronger" about it.

and fyi the whole dating brandon rumor was last year, that doesn't phase selena anymore now. read the darn post, selena is saying she doesn't let haters get to her anymore

Anonymous said:

Miley has a reason to complain. She is waaaay more famous then Selena and I still hear Selena talk about how hard it is more than Miley.

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since when does amount fame constitute how much things are allowed to effect you? and after this past promotion of mileys book, all i have heard is miley 'complain.' dont even try to pull that card out.

Jane said:

you go girl!! ha

Anonymous said:

eh. i kind of love the girl. seems like she has gotten to that point where she can say what she wants and really not a damn. pretty sweet place to be at. good for her.

Anonymous said:

maybe if she wasn't all creepy, lovey dovey with her cousin, the rumor never would have started. i'm close with all my cousins and NONE of us are like that. plus, i would die laughing if that rumor came out about me and one of my cousins.

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hanging out with your cousin is not creepy. being close with your cousins is not creepy. sleeping on your cousin's lap is not "lovey dovey" in any shape or form, its actually a form of affection. and affection does not automatically equal love. affection can be used towards family members, animals, what have you. selena's family is spanish, most spanish cultures encourage close family bonds, "its all about the family". im not even spanish and i will let my younger brother sleep on my lap during long car rides, and i used to sleep on my older brother's. does that make it lovely dovey?? hell no. my two cousins who are in their 30s will sit extremely close together on the couch, does that make it incest? hell no.

btw, selena is not you. selena's family is not like your family. you can't expect her or her family's actions to equal to yours. its not selena's fault if your ignorant of other culture's or family's lifestyles.

Anonymous said:

I LOVE HER <3

Anny93 said:

HATERS R NOT PATHIC, U R PATHIC... -.- no, jk...
well, i think nobody should care about things like thatt or her "problems" she has a better live than many of us... what would she do if somebody judged her all day long, or her parents r drunk when she comes home from school (just for example). oh wait, she mustn´t go to a public school... -.-
(she had a hot boyfriend)& she has money.many boys find her cute and """love""" her. actually, she shouldn´t care about all this stuff... it´s a show. yeah, "cry me a river poor girl"... i liked her, but thats really annoying...

(sry for my bad english)

cry me a river. said:

And you don't have to spam about it, stupid.

emily ford said:

maybe if she wasn't all creepy, lovey dovey with her cousin, the rumor never would have started. i'm close with all my cousins and NONE of us are like that. plus, i would die laughing if that rumor came out about me and one of my cousins.

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hanging out with your cousin is not creepy. being close with your cousins is not creepy. sleeping on your cousin's lap is not "lovey dovey" in any shape or form, its actually a form of affection. and affection does not automatically equal love. affection can be used towards family members, animals, what have you. selena's family is spanish, most spanish cultures encourage close family bonds, "its all about the family". im not even spanish and i will let my younger brother sleep on my lap during long car rides, and i used to sleep on my older brother's. does that make it lovely dovey?? hell no. my two cousins who are in their 30s will sit extremely close together on the couch, does that make it incest? hell no.

btw, selena is not you. selena's family is not like your family. you can't expect her or her family's actions to equal to yours. its not selena's fault if your ignorant of other culture's or family's lifestyles.

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ok. i'm pretty sure that sleeping on your cousin's crotch is a bit creepy. stop defending her. i would think it was creepy on anyone else too, not just her.

Anonymous said:

oh please. and there you go. overexagerating. was she on his crotch? no. she was on a pillow which was on his lap. i understand you want it to look worse then it was but, but statements like 'she was sleepin on his crotch' doesnt exactly get that point across.

Anonymous said:

Are you kidding?! It effects everything. More people know Miley so of course it's going to affect how much hate she gets. Miley is talking about her book. It is obviously going to have her struggles in it and she is going to talk about it. You are very hipocritical.

Anonymous said:

Oh boo hoo. I'm not a fan of her OR Miley, but Miley's gone through a hell of a lot more and has actually been under scrutiny by parents and stuff. Selena needs to STFU.

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and even when selena has managed to keep her private life private, haters still try to insult her relentlessly.
"she has a big head!"
"what a pig nose!"
"ugly!!"
"slut/whore/skank!"
"wannabe!"
"fake!"
and the list goes on.
the fact that selena even gets these types of hate comments should be enough to upset ANYONE. imagine yourself in her shoes, having people at school call you names or accuse you of doing or being something that you're not. why should selena "STFU" about it when its completely normal to react?? she can comment on them, just like miley can comment on them. and miley has commented on rumors and haters loads of times before. just because selena hasn't had a photo scandal that put her against parents doesn't mean she can't complain about the hate comments she gets. think about it.

heather said:

if u were a real fan you wouldn't say those pics were slutty.

and miley is gonna deal with more because she is 9x more famous than selena

god selena grow up.

ive never heard miley complain and u and jennifer havent even gone through half the stuff she has

and about papparzzi, u asked that guy to take pics of you so dont start complaining

(the guy said he was asked by them)

Anonymous said:

Stop trying to act so intelligent and noble.

emily ford said:

oh please. and there you go. overexagerating. was she on his crotch? no. she was on a pillow which was on his lap. i understand you want it to look worse then it was but, but statements like 'she was sleepin on his crotch' doesnt exactly get that point across.

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dood, that's how you like cuddle with a boyfriend or something. even her fans thought it was like a boyfriend. from first glance you WOULD NOT think that was her cousin.

cdk said:

LOL @ the stupid haters. good thing she doesn't take u guys seriously anymore. becuz she shouldn't. haters are just people who's lives are uninteresting so the feel need to hate on people they don't know. basically they just like being assholes. they cant help it tho cuz they have nothing else to do with their time.

keep ya head up Selena!

Team Semi Bitchez! haters to the left!

Anonymous said:

maybe if she wasn't all creepy, lovey dovey with her cousin, the rumor never would have started. i'm close with all my cousins and NONE of us are like that. plus, i would die laughing if that rumor came out about me and one of my cousins.

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hanging out with your cousin is not creepy. being close with your cousins is not creepy. sleeping on your cousin's lap is not "lovey dovey" in any shape or form, its actually a form of affection. and affection does not automatically equal love. affection can be used towards family members, animals, what have you. selena's family is spanish, most spanish cultures encourage close family bonds, "its all about the family". im not even spanish and i will let my younger brother sleep on my lap during long car rides, and i used to sleep on my older brother's. does that make it lovely dovey?? hell no. my two cousins who are in their 30s will sit extremely close together on the couch, does that make it incest? hell no.

btw, selena is not you. selena's family is not like your family. you can't expect her or her family's actions to equal to yours. its not selena's fault if your ignorant of other culture's or family's lifestyles.

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ok. i'm pretty sure that sleeping on your cousin's crotch is a bit creepy. stop defending her. i would think it was creepy on anyone else too, not just her.

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i believe selena was on a PILLOW: http://www.oceanup.com/2008/11/selena-gomez-rumor-control.html#comments

and sometimes i didnt even use a pillow with my brothers. its not mine, selena's, or anyone's fault (other than god) if the guy's crotch is near his two thighs, which is where you usually lie your head on when you lay on someone's lap.

Amanda said:

she acts as if she's been around for a long time. like "i used to look at all these blah blah blah" Selena,just not too long ago you STARTED to appear on sites.
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SOOO? she has the rite 2 say w.e u want like every1 else does. and shes been around since 2007 thats 2years, and thats a lot.

emily ford said:

i fucking understand that people. it's still weird NO MATTER WHAT. when Miley was laying on her dead for the photoshoot that was weird, but this isn't?

mimi said:

"she's not even that famous...
seriously, look at the hell miley's been through."
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Are you kidding me?! Here on Oceanup, Selena is getting way more hate than Miley does now. Just look at all the comments from Selena's posts...most of them are haters.
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Dont compare Miley to selena please. She has been thru nothing compare to what miley has been thru. She gets hate here but not out in the real world like the media,gossip sites like perez or made fun off like tabloids or comedy shows. Miley has been on newspapers critizing her,magazines,serious news has talked about miley and critized and made huge about things that if it wasnt because miley was such a huge popstar nobody would care. it just show the popularity of miley everyone cares. Let's see what rumors had made serious news of selena other than with miley feud!
Please selena has not been thru nothing compare to miley dont compare each other is absolutly ridiculous!
and there is only a few people on this sites compare to millions of people critizing miley!

i think if selena feel this way and there is not so much that she has been thru and she feeling down for that then she is definately not as strong as miley.

but then that means she is super sensitive just as miley but we need to spare her feeling too. and we should not bash her either. she reaching out and people respected her. i feel sorry for her she just beginning and she feel like this poor thing. i feel bad for her!

Maddie said:

Yeah, i really don't think shes complaining. i think she's saying she's just not letting it get to her!

Anonymous said:

Dont compare Miley to selena please. She has been thru nothing compare to what miley has been thru. She gets hate here but not out in the real world like the media,gossip sites like perez or made fun off like tabloids or comedy shows. Miley has been on newspapers critizing her,magazines,serious news has talked about miley and critized and made huge about things that if it wasnt because miley was such a huge popstar nobody would care. it just show the popularity of miley everyone cares. Let's see what rumors had made serious news of selena other than with miley feud!
Please selena has not been thru nothing compare to miley dont compare each other is absolutly ridiculous!
and there is only a few people on this sites compare to millions of people critizing miley!

i think if selena feel this way and there is not so much that she has been thru and she feeling down for that then she is definately not as strong as miley.

but then that means she is super sensitive just as miley but we need to spare her feeling too. and we should not bash her either. she reaching out and people respected her. i feel sorry for her she just beginning and she feel like this poor thing. i feel bad for her!

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so are you saying that selena can't complain just cause her criticisms and rumors don't amount to miley's?? normal people like middle/high schoolers are "nobodies" compared to selena and yet im sure they get upset or angry if a rumor goes around about them that's not true. being called a "bitch", "fake", "ugly", "whore" etc. etc is no fun and of course you're going to react to it. selena may not have undergone the same criticisms as miley but that doesn't mean she doesn't get criticized at all. she obviously does, haters here are proof of it. and the hate comments that she get can be very hurtful. i'd like to see haters here go through school having people make up rumors about you and calling you names, let's see if you don't react.

i do agree, miley and selena shouldn't be compared, they BOTH should have the right to respond to hate publicity and comments.

Anonymous said:

dood, that's how you like cuddle with a boyfriend or something. even her fans thought it was like a boyfriend. from first glance you WOULD NOT think that was her cousin.
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except there was no cuddling. my younger brother use to sleep on my lap all the time. if you only see it 'that' way then i am concerned for the state of your mind.

Anonymous said:

Are you kidding?! It effects everything. More people know Miley so of course it's going to affect how much hate she gets. Miley is talking about her book. It is obviously going to have her struggles in it and she is going to talk about it. You are very hipocritical.
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you are clearly missing the point. the amount of fame a person has does change how much any type of 'hate' effects them. yes there more be more or less, but regardless it is still what it is, and it still going to effect people. i am no being hypocritical at all. someone said miley does not 'complain' about her struggles like selena does. but if you call this complaining, then miley does the same thing. and i used her book and the promoting of her book as examples. granted i dont think either one of the girls are 'complainging,' but if you ARE going to accuse one then you have to accuse the other. if not, then THAT would be hypocritical.

Anonymous said:

i fucking understand that people. it's still weird NO MATTER WHAT. when Miley was laying on her dead for the photoshoot that was weird, but this isn't?
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was selena posing for a photoshoot? i could care less about miley but you are comparing to completely different things.

Tru said:

I think ya'll are all pathetic! Selena Haterz! Selena Fans! Miley Haterz! Miley Fans! JB Haterz! JB Fans! Demi Haterz! Demi Fans! Taylor Haterz! Taylor Fans! Whether your a hater or a lover ya'll all say cruel things! Who the hell are you to judge anybody! Please grow up!

Anonymous said:

LOL @ the people like, "MILEY HAS LOTS OF HATE. SELENA MUST GET HATE TOO. SIRHNGTLSEKNTGSTUPIDIOSOLEKNTFSWHOREUIJKSNGSKJSLUT"

Corinne said:

Poor little girl.
hahahahaha

Anonymous said:

she acts as if she's been around for a long time. like "i used to look at all these blah blah blah" Selena, just not too long ago you STARTED to appear on sites.
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amen to that girl Smile

bitchlena needs to shut the fuck up

Juliana said:

ah well you know that saying:

Haters make me famous

Melrose said:

Psh, You guys don't know how hard it is for them.
YOU ARE PRESSURED ALL THE TIME.
I mean, not like I know, but its really hard for them.
It may be harder for some than others. Such as for Miley..
But that's what comes with the package
You guys shouldn't be hatin

Anonymous said:

love selena Smile
haters have no life

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We have no life for having an opinion?
Okay, i guess you don't have a life either.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE A FAN OF EVERYBODY, BITCH.

Anonymous said:

shut the fuck up
she wasn't only talking about rumors, she was also talking about people criticizing her and stuff
and she IS constantly followed by paps, have you been living under a rock?

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lmfao, are you kidding me?
Selena is constantly followed by the paps?
HAH! That's a good one...
oh God, i'm seriously laughing hysterically right now.
selena is not followed by the paps constantly.
SOME TIMES... but barely.
notice how the most recent time (and one of the few times) she had paps was when she was with MILEY.
They were there for Miley.

Anonymous said:

Miley has a reason to complain. She is waaaay more famous then Selena and I still hear Selena talk about how hard it is more than Miley.

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since when does amount fame constitute how much things are allowed to effect you? and after this past promotion of mileys book, all i have heard is miley 'complain.' dont even try to pull that card out.

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"since when does amount fame constitute how much things are allowed to effect you? "

OH PLEASE. You know that the more famous you are, the more tabloids/rumors there will be. It does make an impact.

"after this past promotion of mileys book, all i have heard is miley 'complain.' dont even try to pull that card out."

Miley didn't complain once. She spoke about her life.
Those were the things that went on in her life.
She wasn't complaining about it.

emily ford said:

dood, that's how you like cuddle with a boyfriend or something. even her fans thought it was like a boyfriend. from first glance you WOULD NOT think that was her cousin.
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except there was no cuddling. my younger brother use to sleep on my lap all the time. if you only see it 'that' way then i am concerned for the state of your mind.

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what, when he was like 4? they're the same age and they do act like they're dating. it is kind of weird.