Selena, ‘I Changed Everything For A Boy..’

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Selena Gomez confessed to J-14 that she’s only kissed three boys in her life, and for one of them, she got so wrapped up in who he wanted her to be that she completely lost herself: ‘I changed everything, my clothes, my hair, the way I talked, everything!’

At the time, Selly didn’t even realize it, because she had fallen so deeply in love that it just seemed natural to go along with it. She became a different person: ‘When I started changing the way I acted with my family and friends, that was the trigger. It’s the worst feeling in the world.’

Then she finally straightened out her priorities and can now quickly spot when her friends do the same thing: ‘I feel like girls tend to change themselves for people. All the stuff I went through, I’m not apologizing for it. I’m still trying to find myself.’

  • Anonymous

    isnt taylor too old to be in these magazines just wondering

  • Anonymous

    Maybe Selena should listen to Black keys
    for Nicks side of the story..
    that song is deff about her

  • Anonymous

    has anyone else noticed demi isnt as famous as she used to be anymore

  • Anonymous

    boohooo wahwah

  • Anonymous

    Of course you would say that, milesluver…

  • Anonymous

    i need to take a shit but theres no toilet paper

  • Anonymous

    shows how confident she is.

  • Anonymous

    who is nick jonas, for 200 alex.

  • selfanxxo

    im starting to not like her shes too plain

  • Anonymous

    demi isnt as famous as she used to be because shes getting more and more famous everyday

  • Anonymous

    Selena is over it… She is single and ready to mingle ;)

  • Anonymous

    but i do all the time i want you all the time am i obssesed with you

  • Anonymous

    Maybe Selena should listen to Black keys
    for Nicks side of the story..
    that song is deff about her
    ___

    rofl, no it’s not

  • MeMeMe N

    omg i remember that she text me when she realised what had ahppened with the sweetest apology ever but now she doesn’t talk to me at all so i’m kinda like wow bit mixed up there S? lol good times

  • renee

    i noticed that people are geting sick of her and alot of people dont like her cause she screams in songs and stuff

  • Anonymous

    demi isnt as famous as she used to be because shes getting more and more famous everyday
    _______________
    no last year more peple knew who she was in camp rock now everyone knows selena but not her

  • hpaddictedx

    Stop trying to start drama oceanup…this is probably old.

  • Anonymous

    Actually no Girl really knows Demi in my class…

  • Anonymous

    i dont like selena anymore ive switched to liking miley shes more sassy

  • Delilah_Marie

    Hmm,I remember a story very similar with this from a certain other Disney peer… *cough* ;]

  • Anonymous

    boo hoo, shut up selena. nick jonas is the reason why pepeople gived a fuck about you

  • Anonymous

    no last year more peple knew who she was in camp rock now everyone knows selena but not her
    _______

    whether or not you are on the cover of j-14 does not determine how well known you are.

    this is a craptastic teeny magazine that’s always behind the times with stories.

  • Anonymous

    This is lifted, word for word, from 17. Fail, J14.

  • Anonymous

    this is old cuz it says about taylor dating a bff but they have alredy started putting shes dating taylor lautner

  • Anonymous

    This is exactly what this post needs:

    http://i39.tinypic.com/23m7tjd.jpg

  • renee

    no both selina and demi arnt that famise anymore its back to miley and jonas and also taylor

  • BGlitterBBy

    Can u expalin the song black keys meaning too me PLEASE??!

  • cheskasg

    i love selena,oceanup por que carajo? team selena

  • Anonymous

    i want my miley demi jb tour. =]

  • Anonymous

    People need to learn how to spell properly. And enough of the bashing, it’s not making you look any tougher or smarter or anything. Get over it. If you don’t like a person, don’t read posts about them. Simple enough.

  • Annonymous…

    I’M GONNA KILL THE LITTLE FUCKER THAT HAS BEEN POSTING THIS OVER AND OVER AGAIN FOR THE LAST 6 MONTHS.

    WE GET IT, SELENA AND NICK DIDN’T END UP WELL.
    HOPE YOU DIE IN PAIN.

  • renee

    why are you saying that your basicly puting miley down by saying its going to be demis year next year and i dont think that just because she has duets doesent mean anything and its not like shes dueting with paramore or anything big so i dont think so

  • Anonymous

    SB reader, Michelle sent me an interesting observation which I thought was worth a read on Selena Gomez and her breakup with Nick Jonas. Take in mind this was written a few days ago:

    Maybe I’m looking WAY too into it but one of the last Selena Gomez twitter post caught me off guard. I don’t normally pay too much attention to them because they are just random updates and whatever but this is one was pretty intense. She wrote: “so if you’re her guardian angel who’s mine? i love how easy it is for you to let me suffer but not her.”

    Now of course it’s an easy assumption to assume she’s talking about Miley and Nick but there is actually a lot of stuff that makes it seem extremely possible that she in fact is.
    Miley has reffered to Nick as her guardian angel several times and I believe it’s even in her book. In a previous Twitter Selena said she didn’t want to be a seat filler which many believe as they did throught her whole relationship with Nick that he was never really over Miley and Selena felt she could never be her, which then caused that whole rumor about the song she wrote, where she said it was about a guy that was hung up on a girlfriend that he wasnt competly over and she could never be. Now it was also rumored that through out the duration of her relashionship she felt like he wasnt really interested in her and hardly ever called or payed much attention to her. Now since they broke up, her and Nick dont really have any contact and Nick is still really good friends with Miley and it appears selena is still not over her break up and Nick isnt really to interested in her “suffering” but is still up to date on what’s going on with Miley and is still making an effort to remain friends with Miles…

    Again, I repeat I could be completly crazy and looking WAY too into it but…
    I really think that’s the case espesially since Miley has been talking about Nick since she always get’s asked in interviews.

    I think she made a valid point in the possibilities of Selena Twittering about Nick every now and then. I don’t blame her, if I was in a long relationship and I had to see my ex everywhere, It would take me awhile to get over them also. Her Twitter update today where she mentioned she was getting rid of her highlights and ‘Thank Goodness’ for it, could be one more way she is trying to get Nick out of her life and move on. Has getting close to David Henrie in pictures as well as the boys from F.T.S.K. been intensional to make Nick jealous or perhaps show that she’s moving on? What are your thoughts on the breakup? Do you think Selena is still trying to get over Nick or do you think she’s already moved on??????????????????????????????????

  • Anonymous

    so if you’re her guardian angel who’s mine? i love how easy it is for you to let me suffer but not her.
    4:12 PM Apr 8th from web
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    selenagomez ……………………

  • renee

    i mean demis not even that good so and there duet was crap so im really not worryd even though i like her

  • Anonymous
  • Anonymous

    Maybe I’m looking WAY too into it but one of the last Selena Gomez twitter post caught me off guard. I don’t normally pay too much attention to them because they are just random updates and whatever but this is one was pretty intense. She wrote: “so if you’re her guardian angel who’s mine? i love how easy it is for you to let me suffer but not her.”

    Now of course it’s an easy assumption to assume she’s talking about Miley and Nick but there is actually a lot of stuff that makes it seem extremely possible that she in fact is.
    Miley has reffered to Nick as her guardian angel several times and I believe it’s even in her book. In a previous Twitter Selena said she didn’t want to be a seat filler which many believe as they did throught her whole relationship with Nick that he was never really over Miley and Selena felt she could never be her, which then caused that whole rumor about the song she wrote, where she said it was about a guy that was hung up on a girlfriend that he wasnt competly over and she could never be. Now it was also rumored that through out the duration of her relashionship she felt like he wasnt really interested in her and hardly ever called or payed much attention to her. Now since they broke up, her and Nick dont really have any contact and Nick is still really good friends with Miley and it appears selena is still not over her break up and Nick isnt really to interested in her “suffering” but is still up to date on what’s going on with Miley and is still making an effort to remain friends with Miles…

    Again, I repeat I could be completly crazy and looking WAY too into it but…
    I really think that’s the case espesially since Miley has been talking about Nick since she always get’s asked in interviews.

    I think she made a valid point in the possibilities of Selena Twittering about Nick every now and then. I don’t blame her, if I was in a long relationship and I had to see my ex everywhere, It would take me awhile to get over them also. Her Twitter update today where she mentioned she was getting rid of her highlights and ‘Thank Goodness’ for it, could be one more way she is trying to get Nick out of her life and move on. Has getting close to David Henrie in pictures as well as the boys from F.T.S.K. been intensional to make Nick jealous or perhaps show that she’s moving on? What are your thoughts on the breakup? Do you think Selena is still trying to get over Nick or do you think she’s already moved on??????????????????????????????????

  • Anonymous

    oceanup NEVER posts bads things about demi!
    doubleyouteeEff oceanup.

  • BirthdayCake

    On the front cover of the magazine, does anyone know what it says about Justin Bieber? I can’t tell.

  • Jobrosforeverandever

    Okay. If Nick was using Selena as a rebound girl then thats really low. I am NOT saying that he is superiour or anything but honestly. They reportedly had their first date in febuary, two months after nick ended his relationship with miley which obviously meant a lot to him. Then it was released that selena had said that her song sorry was about being in love with this guy who wasnt entirely over his girlfriend and she was saying “well shes gone and you have to let me in now”. First of all Nick was obvi not over miley so maybe kissing selena two months later wasnt the smartest decision. BUT, maybe he was really in love with selena so he wanted to let her know but at the same time he wasnt over miley? So he acted stupidly because of that or Selena felt like he did and he made her feel like a seat filler, when maybe he was really just torn in two. He’s human, and it happens to tons of people. That, or he really was low. BUt it seems to me that selena tried so hard to be a good gf when she didnt realize that maybe she shouldve just been like “Lets try again when youre over her”. No. Once again i do not think of nick as superiour or anything. i can accept that they can be low. Like Joe was.

  • Anonymous

    didnt miley do that?
    miley changed her hair her style just like selena.
    Selena seriously has to stop copying miley.

  • Anonymous

    That’s good Selena realized she shouldn’t change herself for a guy. That’s a smart thing to do.

  • renee

    yeah selinas a bitch

  • Anonymous

    Selena is amazing, beautiful, and talented :)

  • renee

    yeah i know she does i noticed that to they coul be the best of friends but selina wouldent let it

  • Sarahteamdemi

    taylor swift is a piece of shit didnt she win american idol

    ——-

    Wow, you are a moron. At least get your facts right before you bash someone.

  • renee

    like and now shes doing movies like miley first she said shes gonna go to college but now sudenly she has all of these move roles its pathedick

  • Anonymous

    didnt miley do that?
    miley changed her hair her style just like selena.
    Selena seriously has to stop copying miley.

    no

  • renee

    yeah and nice try but that doesent even sound likje and insult and everyone knows dame well taylor wasnt on americcan idol she dident need it

  • renee

    the facts are mosly everyones amazing in disney exsept selina

  • Anonymous

    CRY ME A RIVER! GET OVER NICK ALREADY!

  • Amazing

    Selena thought she was “woman” enough for Nick. He found out she’s just an immature disney girl, video girl material. She’s going to be fine in her world and Nick in his but they don’t fit together at all.

  • renee

    and also selina wears the same short stuff that miley does and nobudy sais anything and so does boys but its like britney the bigest stars allways get the most hate and i think its rong double standards

  • Anonymous

    SORRY SELENA NICK NEVER LOVED YOU!! muhahaha

  • Anonymous

    reminds me of the song nick jonas wrote ….do’t loose yourself…suspicious

  • alison

    if miley didnt have so many haters she could actually make it out of disney but selena and demi are hilary duffs as soon as they try to do other movies no one will know who they are

  • Anonymous

    selena is getting on my nerves

  • renee

    but anyways this is old

  • Anonymous

    you changed every thing but your messed up teeth and you missing personality?

  • Anonymous

    you changed every thing but your messed up teeth and your missing personality?

  • Anonymous

    i think ou loves selena more than demi but that just me opinion

  • YouBelongWithMe

    taylor swift is a piece of shit didnt she win american idol
    —-
    Um no, I don’t know what planet your living in

  • Anonymous

    I hate when girls try to blame that on the guy.
    If he held a gun up to you and told you to change the way you dress and the color of your hair, then yeah, I understand.
    But you have control of what you do otherwise.
    No one’s fault but your own.

  • Anonymous

    Girl, can’t make up her mind. She says she’s never been in love but then says she was “so in love” that she couldn’t see what she was doing. lol Make up your mind sister.

  • Anonymous

    i cant wait for the day miley demi and nick leave disney. then what would disney have

  • renee

    shes geting on my nurves to honey i know how you feel

  • Anonymous

    Wow JB didn’t even make the cover, that’s kinda shocking.

  • Anonymous

    Umm this is old

    Why do teen magazines recyle old quotes from last year?

  • Anonymous

    i love mileys concerts but she dresses like a stripper

  • YouBelongWithMe

    No! Taylor Swift should not be on this stupid shit magazine.

  • Anonymous

    i love mileys concerts but she dresses like a stripper
    ____________________
    true her concert was great but miley dresses so inapropiate with her bra and butt cheeks showing

  • Anonymous

    Selena is over it… That’s why JUstin B likes her :)… Lol to the hater that keeps repeating hate comments

  • Anonymous

    Oceanup likes to stear drama
    and put stupid shit about Selena or Miley

    but they never posted anything bad about Demi.

    Hmmm I wonder why?

  • Anonymous

    taylor swift is a piece of shit didnt she win american idol

  • Anonymous

    because shanna is in love with demi and wants to fuck her chinbutt

  • Twilightsucks

    Didn’t she mention this like a gazillion time already?

  • Twilightsucks

    Didn’t she mention this like a gazillion time already?

  • selenabobina

    this is old i like just jared better

  • renee

    i know right and selina is just pathedick for cintinuing her carrer and not geting anywhere for so many years

  • hlvhvlgk

    I hate when girls try to blame that on the guy.
    If he held a gun up to you and told you to change the way you dress and the color of your hair, then yeah, I understand.
    But you have control of what you do otherwise.
    No one’s fault but your own.

    ===========

    I’m guessing you’ve never been in love before.

  • Anonymous

    why isnt jb on the cover but taylor swift is

  • Anonymous

    what is with all the novel writers posting no one reads those stupid long reply posts

  • Anonymous

    was I wrong for refusing to be a seat-filler? I was just tired of trying to be someone I clearly wasn’t. I’m sorry. writing.. studio time
    7:56 AM Mar 31st from web
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    selenagomez …………………………….

  • Anonymous

    i LOVE SELENA SO MUCH <3

  • Anonymous

    demi is more famous than selena

    and thats the truth

  • Anonymous

    Selena, SHUT UP. It takes two to tango. Nick didn’t change you, YOU changed you.
    You didnt have to change shit.

  • Anonymous

    she fixed every thing but her teeth her big head her tiny boobs and boy like body

  • Anonymous

    no one can change you, but who hasn’t changed for someone? but i don’t know if this is about Nick…why would demi be friends with nick still?…and i remember when she went through some skater look with the bangs and whatnot…

    “traumatized by her ex”?? drama much J-14…and this interview is a few months old

  • Emilicious

    Selena, in the words of your best friend

    When you’re fifteen and somebody tells you they love you
    You’re gonna believe them.
    And when you’re fifteen feeling like you’ve got nothing to figure out…

    and…..

    I swore I was gonna marry him someday
    But i realized some bigger dreams of mine
    Abigail gave everything she had to a boy
    who changed his mind….

  • Anonymous

    she obviously hasn’t only kissed 3 boys. she’s kissed two on WOWP itself, and i’m pretty sure she’s kissed nick, taylor l., and some previous boyfriend. which makes at least 5, and i’m pretty sure she’s probably kissed more. idk why she said that :P

  • Giovanna_JonasGomezLovatoCyrus

    Definitely what she wrote in “I Won’t Apologize”.

  • Anonymous

    Guess that also means that she never kissed Taylor Lautner?

  • Anonymous928

    Number 1, this interview was probably given to this magazine about 9 months ago. They are always late and like to reuse stories.

    Sorry, I am a girl and have been through that phase. She was an insecure girl who, in her own words, was so in love that she would have done anything. The guy rarely even says do this or do that. It is the girl who is so desperate that she makes changes thinking that’s what the guy wants. That makes it her problem. And then of course when she becomes a person she isn’t, the guy isn’t interested.

    She has already been quoted as saying she always dressed up for him. Why? If it’s true, let’s look at the past. Did Miley always dress up? No.

    She’s just taking a page from Taylor’s book. If I pretend to be the innocent victim who never makes mistakes and it is always some guy’s fault, they will feel sorry for me.

    Yes, this article is supposed to imply it was Nick. Was he perfect? No. But they were two 16 year olds. That’s how it is to be a teenager.

    Morale, be who you really are and don’t buy this type of magazine.

  • Anonymous

    Did she??
    This just shows a LACK OF PERSONALITY!

  • Anonymous

    OMg i was teh first!

  • ME!

    I LOVE SELENA SO MUCH <3

  • Anonymous

    taylor sucksdick why is she on the cver

  • fdsdf

    ha he changed everything she would let me fuck her in a minute since she is so easy

  • renee

    i like them both its just not is mich as miley taylor or the jonas brothers there the real stars

  • Anonymous

    why is miley next to selena
    enemies

  • Steph82

    Selena please get over it!!

  • milesfan

    dumb loser thats why nick dumped her

  • Anonymous

    HAHA YOU HAD ME TO GET HER! SELENA IS A WHORE! JUST LIKE HER MOM!

  • saam

    she´s a miley´s copy

  • Anonymous

    Demi is not even in the cover

  • Anonymous

    why do boys dump selena?because shes boring
    why do people dump taylor?because she is a brat

  • Anonymous

    I don’t think Nick asked her to be anybody but herself. She’s just stupid, and tries to hard

  • Anonymous

    Maybe Selena should listen to Black keys
    for Nicks side of the story..
    that song is deff about her
    —-

    I agree.

    BTW I don’t think is exactly what she said in 17, the wording is different.

  • purplekoolaid

    Why does everyone hate Selena?? Seriously she has done NOTHING to anyone. She seems to be quiet and nice…people want to call her “Fake” just because she’s a nice person?

    News flash” Being “real” doesn’t mean being crazy, starting fights, or dressing like a whore. It’s sad that nice people are thought of as “boring” nowadays.

    I admit I used to think Selena was too good to be true but I actually met her and she was one of the most genuine celebs I’ve ever met and I’ve met alot.

    Leave the poor girl alone. It’s one thing if you don’t like her, thats just opinion. But until she actually does something to deserve, I don’t see why people call her rude names.

  • Anonymous

    actually taylor swift and miley cyrus are more famous

    demis concerts didnt even sell out neither do selenas

  • Anonymous

    demi sold out about 4 of her shows but other than that her tour did really well. better than what most people expected

  • Anonymous

    Notice how there is only a tiny pic of Nick on the front, no Kevin and Joe? Its RIP JB!

  • Anonymous

    this is old selena got over a jobro long ago

    unlike taylor swift

  • Anonymous

    - mileycyrus This is how I know everything will be okay. The LORD has brought me hope, and I am not alone. I always have my guardian angel ______________________________________ selenagomez so if you’re her guardian angel who’s mine? i love how easy it is for you to let me suffer but not her.

  • renee

    good for you miley is sassyer

  • Anonymous

    Notice how there is only a tiny pic of Nick on the front, no Kevin and Joe? Its RIP JB!
    ________________
    sad but true there getting older and less popular some of my friends stped liking there music

  • Anonymous

    Nick Jonas
    Drew Seeley
    And one of those Sprouse Bros.

    Those are the three guys she has kissed! Ha…

  • renee

    i wish i could meet miley to

  • Anonymous

    That’s good Selena realized she shouldn’t change herself for a guy. That’s a smart thing to do.– lol she REALIZED that AFTER HE DUMPED HER!! look NICE GUY!….. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XXsMQIJSmBg

  • Anonymous

    i love selena dont change sel

  • renee

    yeah she is its good somebudy stoped hating miley and fokised on the real whore

  • renee

    want to be friends

  • Anonymous

    2010 will be demis year. she has a duet with we the kings and arvil lavigne. possibly even kelly clarkson. cant wait to see her expolde next year