Selena Gomez Perfect Teen Role Model

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Yahoo! thinks Selena Gomez is perfect teen role model: She’s a Jill of all trades. At just 18 years old, Gomez has shown her fans that anything is possible. From her starring role in ‘Wizards of Waverly Place’ to career as a singer/songwriter to her Dream Out Loud clothing line, the young star shows that if you can dream it, you can do it. Oh, and even with all of her projects, she still manages to fit in..

..school and charity work. Gomez has even said that she plans to take some time off from her career to attend college, with Northwestern University at the top of her list… Her family hasn’t come out of the woodwork. In a tabloid world full of Dina Lohans, Lynne Spears, and Billy Rays, Gomez’s family doesn’t find the..

..need to speak out on her behalf. In fact, we rarely hear from her family. And that’s probably because she doesn’t do anything that they need to explain or defend. Indeed, with Gomez, all is quiet on the family front. She wears a purity ring. Gomez’s mother is young, she was only 16 when she had Selena.

That may be the reason why Gomez wears a purity ring. Back when she was dating Nick Jonas, People reported that both teen stars wore promise rings as a symbol of chastity. Gomez seems to have appreciated the struggles her mom went though as a teen mom, thus the vow to save herself for marriage.

In an interview with J-14, the teen said her stance on sex is ‘a promise to myself, to my family, and to God… People say, ‘She’s trying too hard.’ I’m not trying to be anybody but myself.’ Nick Jonas and Selena Gomez are about as wholesome as it gets in Hollywood.

She knows when to be polite. After hearing ‘Jersey Shore’s’ Vinny Guadagnino wanted to meet her ‘if she’s 18,’ Gomez said on MTV VMAs red carpet, ‘Tonight I’m not 18! My mom would kill me!’ But, careful not to hurt the his feelings, she quickly went on to add that she’s a ‘Jersey Shore’ fan.

She hasn’t dissed her Disney fans. Although she’s a big girl now, Gomez’s most recent big screen venture was ‘Ramona and Beezus,’ perfect fare for her Disney-lovin’ fans. She didn’t leave her young followers in the dust like Miley did when she graduated from Disney and made that controversial ‘Can’t Be Tamed’ video.

  • myheartbeatsforlove

    She didn’t leave her young followers in the dust like Miley did when she graduated from Disney and made that controversial ‘Can’t Be Tamed’ video.

    nice one OU.

  • StarStruck33

    Even though I dislike Selena
    I have to give it her this time she is a good role model and even though yes 99.9% of the time she is FAKE she is making Latinos proud :)

  • Destiny Hope

    Okay bad article (it is Yahoo) but Selena did not say anything bad, hate Yahoo not Selena over this. JS.

  • Bells

    Love her!! But she said several times– SHE ISN’T PERFECT. Nobody is. :)

  • Anonymous

    so sad,she cant sing for shit, she dresses like and old granny, someone needs to show her “THE BRA” and she seriously needs to get ova nick jonas its just pathetic, the only gud thing about her is that she can act

  • xdolshhex

    She didn’t leave her young followers in the dust like Miley did when she graduated from Disney and made that controversial ‘Can’t Be Tamed’ video.

    seriously OU no need to bold the miley part ;)

  • Anonymous

    im not even gunna comment its a total joke

  • FahionFlip

    She can be the perfect Role Model cause she is But she is just not mine cause she is so perfect

  • OMJitsMiley

    i love Selena but in my opinion Miley is the best role model, because she is real. Selena is trying so hard to be “perfect”… Btw i dont know why Miley is in this post…
    Miley is growing up. Get over it.

  • disneyxo

    i love selena.

  • idkMyBFFjill

    I will be incredibly pissed if she gets into Northwestern and I don’t.

  • MileyIsBestest

    well then… Selena… Miss Perfect… why don’t you go and feed the ducks with your perfect fanily and have perfect sex with your perfect boyfriend. And then soak up eachother’s perfectness…

  • Anonymous

    SELENA DOESNT WEAR A PURITY RING ANYMORE!

  • SmileForStevi

    because Miley went to OLDER fans didnt mean she left her YOUNG fans in the dust! Selena is 18 she should try to move to a older fanbase. i think i might like her if she did. i want her to breakout!

  • idkMyBFFjill

    She and Nick could make a p0rn0 and it’d still be family-friendly.

  • mileynileylove

    Miley Is the prefect role model for me ! :)

  • suckit

    i don’t have a role model.to me it’s kinda stupid.

  • Anonymous

    MY LEFT TOE IS MY ROLE MODEL!

  • idkMyBFFjill

    Anonymous said:

    MY LEFT TOE IS MY ROLE MODEL!
    ==========
    PREACH IT ANON

  • Anonymous

    bahaha that was funny.
    we obviously know the author isnt a cyrus fan

  • PrettyYoungThing

    idkMyBFFjill said:
    I will be incredibly pissed if she gets into Northwestern and I don’t.

    My best friend goes to Northwestern and loves it. :] Good luck with admissions!

  • suckit

    why is miley being bought into this??i didn’t mind it at first but now it’s getting annoying-__-

  • Anonymous

    Anonymous said:

    i hate it when they put miley in the same sentence as selena, miley will always be number1 compared to selena no matter how much she wants to promote herself by obsessin over nick jonas in every song she wont come even close to be as good as miley

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    FAIL of a comment

  • Gabriella

    I wouldn’t say she’s perfect…

    Check out my blog: Principessa Gabriella New post/review! :)

  • idkMyBFFjill

    PrettyYoungThing said:

    idkMyBFFjill said:
    I will be incredibly pissed if she gets into Northwestern and I don’t.

    My best friend goes to Northwestern and loves it. :] Good luck with admissions!
    —–
    Aww, cool to know. And thanks! I think I could get in…maybe… but idk if I qualify for any good scholarships.

  • xdolshhex

    Anonymous said:

    i hate it when they put miley in the same sentence as selena, miley will always be number1 compared to selena no matter how much she wants to promote herself by obsessin over nick jonas in every song she wont come even close to be as good as miley

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    FAIL of a comment
    ____

    FAIL of an anon.

  • thousandreasons

    she isnt making latinos proud, trust me

  • Anonymous

    AMEN

  • Anonymous

    AMEN AMEN AMEN omj i love you…..

  • Anonymous

    holy crap that made my day XD

  • Anonymous

    Yeah it’s a big conspiracy lol

  • MileyIsBestest

    Because you have different values to them, you are obviously wrong and pathetic.

    What? Can you please expand?

    People tend to justify their values and actions by criticizing people who choose differently, an in group / out group scenario if you will. In this case the person sees people who wait till marriage to have sex as “pathetic”, not accepting that there may be valid reasons why someone might choose to wait and it could be the correct decision for them. See Social Identity Theory for more info.

    Okay… I know all about this stuff… why are you going on about it?

  • Anonymous

    She didn’t leave her young followers in the dust like Miley did when she graduated from Disney and made that controversial ‘Can’t Be Tamed’ video

    WTF?

  • Anonymous

    She is afraid to show her fans who she really is because she doest want to lose them. She told that. I used to be a BIG fan of her, but then i realized she is so fake.

  • PullTheTrigger

    Being a good role model isn’t about trying to save the fucking world, selling records, having a clothing line or a TV show. It’s about showing the younger generations that it’s okay to make mistakes, that nobody is perfect. IMO Selena just tries to act so perfect 24/7, which puts pressure on people, well she’s definitely not my role model anyway. but whatever.

  • SoRawSUgAr

    nahh miss ‘perfect’ aint my role model, she is like a robot to me, sure she’s done all this cool stuff but in truth she’s never made any mistakes like real people should, you can’t have a role model who doesn’t make mistakes, it pressures you to be JUST like her, skinny and sh.t. Demi’s my role model and I don’t really care if people disagree

  • heartinvasion?

    Miley isn’t the HBIC. Selena is a great rolemodel, and Miley lost fans for doing what she really wanted. Oh well. Life goes on. Her real fans stood behind. Can we end this Selena/Miley crap now?

  • heartinvasion?

    And Selena isn’t fake, you don’t know her to say that. Bitch, stfu.

  • realistgangsta

    why in the hell is they keep on name dropping miley name first they bring her up in the glamour magainze with the swift girl now this miley own all those bitches

  • Starlinette

    I think Selena is a great Role model!

    Miley doesn’t suck like lot of people say, it’s just that she’ve changed but isn’t a teen role model anymore. If Lady GaGa did what Miley did, you wouldent say anything, right?
    Demi and Taylor are good role models too but i personally prefere Selena. Why do you all fight to see who’s the best role model? Everybody has his OWN role model.

    My role model is Sel’ but i’m just trying to be myself.
    Actually, i’m only 12 , i’m french but i speak english and chinese.

    I hope you guys agree with me!

  • SellyismygirlCrush

    (replying to this) – Oct 5, 2010 @ 06:08 pm
    thousandreasons said:
    her last name is GOMEZ for crying out loud she should know how to speak spanish!

    racist, why should a Gomez raised by an italian american know how to speak spanish. My name is Scottish I don’t speak Gaelic
    —-
    her dad is mexican you genius. well my grandmother is from england and i speak english, but where do i live? south america
    you stick to your roots or at least try to.

    _____
    You mean British right?
    so you have an “english” accent.
    You prob speak english.. like americans and Canadians do.
    you realize how stupid you sound?

  • Anonymous

    A lot of you guys are hyprocrits, miley fans get upset and call Selena fake and boring, and Selena fans call Miley trashy, and growing up to fast, how about stop critizing them both and let them lives how they wanna!!

  • SellyismygirlCrush

    krystinajonas said:
    i hate when ppl are like “she tries hard to be perfect.” like no stfu. everybody makes mistakes im sure she has but doesn’t show it. that’s why it is called PRIVATE LIFE. -.-

    _

    wow a sane person.
    I love how people say shes fake just cause of the way she is.
    its like theyve never seen someone like that before its like where the hell do you live?
    And how mileys real cause shes made mistake.. well i dont have “scandalous” pics.. and a controvercial video.. i guess im fake to then.

  • _liesyoutold

    I agree with Yahoo! (:

  • Destiny Hope

    SellyismygirlCrush said:

    krystinajonas said:
    i hate when ppl are like “she tries hard to be perfect.” like no stfu. everybody makes mistakes im sure she has but doesn’t show it. that’s why it is called PRIVATE LIFE. -.-

    _

    wow a sane person.
    I love how people say shes fake just cause of the way she is.
    its like theyve never seen someone like that before its like where the hell do you live?
    And how mileys real cause shes made mistake.. well i dont have “scandalous” pics.. and a controvercial video.. i guess im fake to then.
    —-
    SellyismygirlCrush is so fake, she tries too hard and everything about her is superficial.

  • Sensationalism

    Sensationalism is what sells. This article is written so that it will cause controversy. I guess the writer has done a good job. If you all just sit back and think about what you are arguing about, you’ll realize that you are just feeding into the controversy.
    Now is Selena a good role model? Hmm let’s see, she tries to be friendly and helpful, she goes out of her way to make others feel good, she lives her life to the fullest and doesn’t let haters pull her down. Sounds like what a role model should be like to me. The thing is that Miley does these things also. So at the end of the day, they are both good role models it just comes down to which one does more of what you personally look up to.

    Why fight over nothing?

  • Anonymous

    I’m a fan of Miley and selena but because how completely different they are from eachother haha

  • oooooooooo

    FACT:
    When people stop fighting over Selena and Miley been better than the other is the day money will fall from the sky.

    …but bitches keep making it impossible.

  • Anonymous

    I think Selena and the Jonas Brothers still believe in not having premarital sex, they just don’t wear the rings anymore. I’m thinking maybe Disney made them keep it on to seem more “wholesome”. And yes, I know they both wore them before Disney.

  • Hilary

    Oh this article. This whole argument is such old news.
    It’s supposedly cool to bash someone you don’t like to make your favorite celebrity look good? SMH.

    Ps. Being a virgin doesn’t make you a good or a bad person (or rolemodel).

  • Anonymous

    I agree, Selena Gomez is a good teen role model. But I’m not saying Miley is not. They both taught different things. Selena taught to live your dream and Miley taught to never give up. So it’s your choice to think which is the better one. Honestly, for me, I think Selena is better. And Selena is not perfect, neither is Miley. So stfu. Just accept that both are the best, okay.

  • krystinajonas

    I didn’t know that OU and Yahoo had a sense of humor. That was the funniest thing I have ever read. She doesn’t want to loose her tween fans because she has no adult fans, and she couldn’t handle the kind of attention from the tabloids that other teens who are YOUNGER than she is have. Good luck believing your own press Selena, we all know that you have OU in your back pocket and that the folks at Yahoo are on your side too.

    lmfao okay dude chill. i know it’s your opinion, but its not like she wrote this fucking novel about herself. if people title her as a role model, let them be.

  • Love_JaJ_2

    i dont really like selena…shes cute, but..sh just dosnt appeal to me.

  • thousandreasons

    I have to give it her this time she is a good role model and even though yes 99.9% of the time she is FAKE she is making Latinos proud :)

    on top of the comments ;)
    ____________

    What I’m lost here!! hahahah

    & she should make Latinos proud because that is her heritage and i wouldn’t mind but she is always saying how proud she is to be a Latina so.. that is why…
    ____

    well, shes not that known around here, so we cant be proud of what we dont know. shes kinda popular, but not HUGE. and besides her last name is GOMEZ for crying out loud she should know how to speak spanish!

  • areyouonDOPE…

    areyouonDOPE… said:

    I look up to little kids who have cancer …. not some celebrity !! except for fernando torrres :P
    ——-
    your icon… mwah <3
    ------
    love yours too <3

  • xdolshhex

    thousandreasons said:

    she isnt making latinos proud, trust me
    —–
    why would she have to make latinos proud ??
    _____

    Even though I dislike Selena
    I have to give it her this time she is a good role model and even though yes 99.9% of the time she is FAKE she is making Latinos proud :)

    on top of the comments ;)

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  • xdolshhex

    i don’t have a role model.to me it’s kinda stupid.
    ____

    *virtual high five*

    —–

    :D *high five*
    ____

    :D :D

  • idkMyBFFjill

    I hate these kinds of articles. Rather than simply glorifying Selena, they go on to criticize the “mistakes” Miley’s made, which are already blown out of proportion. Like honestly, if you’re sick of Miley, you’re supposed to STOP talking about her.

  • c

    Sometimes I wonder the image Selena presents is truly what she wants. :/ She stuck up her middle finger at the pap once (photo), and she wore a dress with a high slit to one of those awards shows. Ooooooh. She has her moments. Funny, though. If Miley did that, she’d get labelled “slut” automatically. *Ignorant people: learn the definition of slut.
    -_____-
    Everyone has to grow up. Everyone breaks off of Disney eventually. Lindsay and Britney may not have done it the best way, but they pulled through. Miley grew up; Can’t Be Tamed is her polite was of explaining stuff. Unfortunately, some are shallow-minded and blinded by hate and jealous to see it. They all grew up; matured. Maybe it’s time that the rest of the world does, too. As for the younger fans, go to youtube.com/itskingsleybich and watch “MILEY ISN’T A SLUT AND CAN’T TAME YOUR CHILD!”. Learn something.

    … And notice how no one mentioned Demi? Is it cause she’s best friends with Miley? People these days; beyond disappointing.

  • hottiegirl

    agree selena ‘s good and every thing but not that much , most of the things in the article r already known long time ago and in some lines the writer is over reacting !!
    and why mention miley!! what’s wrong with her , its unfair to compare her to britney or lindsay , she doesnt drink , do drugs or take naked photos really ppl !!
    she just different , she is not selena !! is it wrong ?!

  • MileyIsBestest

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    Lmao

  • areyouonDOPE…

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    why would she have to make latinos proud ??
    —–
    ooh, well someone said that se is making latinos proud and im just saying tht its not really like that
    —–
    oh wow that is kinda lame ….

  • MileyIsBestest

    Sometimes I wonder the image Selena presents is truly what she wants. :/ She stuck up her middle finger at the pap once (photo), and she wore a dress with a high slit to one of those awards shows. Ooooooh. She has her moments. Funny, though. If Miley did that, she’d get labelled “slut” automatically. *Ignorant people: learn the definition of slut.
    -_____-
    Everyone has to grow up. Everyone breaks off of Disney eventually. Lindsay and Britney may not have done it the best way, but they pulled through. Miley grew up; Can’t Be Tamed is her polite was of explaining stuff. Unfortunately, some are shallow-minded and blinded by hate and jealous to see it. They all grew up; matured. Maybe it’s time that the rest of the world does, too. As for the younger fans, go to youtube.com/itskingsleybich and watch “MILEY ISN’T A SLUT AND CAN’T TAME YOUR CHILD!”. Learn something.

    … And notice how no one mentioned Demi? Is it cause she’s best friends with Miley? People these days; beyond disappointing.

    Bless you anon.

  • StarStruck33

    xdolshhex said:
    thousandreasons said:

    she isnt making latinos proud, trust me
    —–
    why would she have to make latinos proud ??
    _____

    ven though I dislike Selena
    I have to give it her this time she is a good role model and even though yes 99.9% of the time she is FAKE she is making Latinos proud :)

    on top of the comments ;)
    ____________

    What I’m lost here!! hahahah

    & she should make Latinos proud because that is her heritage and i wouldn’t mind but she is always saying how proud she is to be a Latina so.. that is why…

  • Anonymous

    Lmao

    What’s so funny?

  • Trainups

    I would like someone who has fallen and picked herself/himself back up to be a role model. Someone who admits to mistakes. Don’t have to go into detail about the mistakes but states the truth.
    Not scared about being real.

  • areyouonDOPE…

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  • Anonymous

    xdolshhex said:

    Anonymous said:

    SELENA DOESNT WEAR A PURITY RING ANYMORE!

    —————

    She hasn’t worn it in ages! These mags are always late on everything!
    ____

    and what? i honestly see this thing ‘not have sex til marriage’ pathetic.

    —————

    Nothing, the article was talking about Selena having a ring that she no longer wears, so I just mentioned the fact that she doesn’t wear it. I personally don’t care if she is or isn’t a virgin, it’s her life and a ring is just a ring anyways. I other news, I find your comment offensive, there are other people who want to wait till marriage and it’s their choice, waiting till marriage or not is your choice and it’s not bad if you do or you don’t.

  • MileyIsBestest

    What’s so funny?

    You

  • MileyIsBestest

    and what? i honestly see this thing ‘not have sex til marriage’ pathetic.

    How is not having sex till marriage pathetic?

  • StarStruck33

    *Singing*
    Don’t live a lie….
    this is your one chance!!
    Just waaaalk! It’s a liberty walk!!

    Don’t listen to all the people who hate….
    allright yeah yeah

    hahahah i love that song!!

  • Anonymous

    MileyIsBestest said:

    and what? i honestly see this thing ‘not have sex til marriage’ pathetic.

    How is not having sex till marriage pathetic?
    —-
    Because you have different values to them, you are obviously wrong and pathetic.

  • xdolshhex

    xdolshhex said:
    thousandreasons said:

    she isnt making latinos proud, trust me
    —–
    why would she have to make latinos proud ??
    _____

    ven though I dislike Selena
    I have to give it her this time she is a good role model and even though yes 99.9% of the time she is FAKE she is making Latinos proud :)

    on top of the comments ;)
    ____________

    What I’m lost here!! hahahah

    & she should make Latinos proud because that is her heritage and i wouldn’t mind but she is always saying how proud she is to be a Latina so.. that is why…
    ____

    hahaha. i quoted ur comment to explain her why the other said that. kinda confusing but.. yea :D

  • m

    That’s a great opinion

  • MileyIsBestest

    Because you have different values to them, you are obviously wrong and pathetic.

    What? Can you please expand?

  • idkMyBFFjill

    and what? i honestly see this thing ‘not have sex til marriage’ pathetic.
    ——-
    Some people, religious or not, think the act of sex is a sacred thing, meant to be done for the first time with a spouse. There’s nothing wrong with that. There’s also nothing wrong with meaningful, premarital sex. IMO.

  • xdolshhex

    xdolshhex said:

    Anonymous said:

    SELENA DOESNT WEAR A PURITY RING ANYMORE!

    —————

    She hasn’t worn it in ages! These mags are always late on everything!
    ____

    and what? i honestly see this thing ‘not have sex til marriage’ pathetic.

    —————

    Nothing, the article was talking about Selena having a ring that she no longer wears, so I just mentioned the fact that she doesn’t wear it. I personally don’t care if she is or isn’t a virgin, it’s her life and a ring is just a ring anyways. I other news, I find your comment offensive, there are other people who want to wait till marriage and it’s their choice, waiting till marriage or not is your choice and it’s not bad if you do or you don’t.
    ____

    sorry. but i’m not into those religious things, it’s just weird. because i feel if they don’t do that, they think they’re going to the so-called ‘hell’
    no offense :)

  • StarStruck33

    xdolshhex said:
    hahaha. i quoted ur comment to explain her why the other said that. kinda confusing but.. yea :D
    __________

    Hahahahah I got lost again hahah JK hahah
    thankss!

  • Anonymous

    Abstinence= Never having to worry about being or getting pregnant and no STDs.

  • Anonymous

    Okay… I know all about this stuff… why are you going on about it?

    i gave short comment and you said expand? just being nice.

  • xdolshhex

    MileyIsBestest said:

    Because you have different values to them, you are obviously wrong and pathetic.

    What? Can you please expand?

    People tend to justify their values and actions by criticizing people who choose differently, an in group / out group scenario if you will. In this case the person sees people who wait till marriage to have sex as “pathetic”, not accepting that there may be valid reasons why someone might choose to wait and it could be the correct decision for them. See Social Identity Theory for more info.
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    wowwowow. i do believe we have different opinions on things. i didn’t say i see the person pathetic. actually i see those types of people really nice, ii isn’t a bad thing to wait… but i’ve been listening to these things w/miley, jonas, britney… everywhere.
    i think that the really religious people think they have to do everything the bible says to go to ‘paradise’. for me, FOR ME, paadise doesn’t exists.
    i’m budhist, we have different statements, and i respect everything u say

  • Destiny Hope

    Anonymous said:

    Miley role model lol, please Miley teach us about your struggles being raised rich with parents in the music/tv business already. How does one find an agent and get work under those tough circumstances. All the other rich celeb kids need to know. Life was so tough.
    ______________________

    Miley overcoming being a rich celeb kid must have been a tough struggle. We can all learn from our role model.

  • Anonymous

    i think selena is a superficial role model all the things that makes her a ‘role model’ are superficial.

  • Anonymous

    OMFG, people. Just leave the girl alone! Just because she can’t please you or act a fucking certain way doesn’t mean you should bash on her so fucking much. She is only human. Not everyone is comfortable showing their mistakes. She is just scared of the world. People are so cruel and full of hate now at days she doesn’t want to be the one who ever constantly talks shit about. Call me a stan or whatever, but in my opinion I think people need to get off her tail and BTFO. If you hate her, GET OFF THIS POST.

  • Anonymous

    her last name is GOMEZ for crying out loud she should know how to speak spanish!

    racist, why should a Gomez raised by an italian american know how to speak spanish. My name is Scottish I don’t speak Gaelic.

  • thousandreasons

    her last name is GOMEZ for crying out loud she should know how to speak spanish!

    racist, why should a Gomez raised by an italian american know how to speak spanish. My name is Scottish I don’t speak Gaelic
    —-
    her dad is mexican you genius. well my grandmother is from england and i speak english, but where do i live? south america
    you stick to your roots or at least try to.

  • Destiny Hope

    Anonymous said:

    i think selena is a superficial role model all the things that makes her a ‘role model’ are superficial.
    —-
    Like earning everything you have by your own hard work, starting from nothing and working hard with nothing given to you. Yeah so superficial.

  • Anonymous

    Miley role model lol, please Miley teach us about your struggles being raised rich with parents in the music/tv business already. How does one find an agent and get work under those tough circumstances. All the other rich celeb kids need to know. Life was so tough

    You are either on crack or you obviosly don’t know what miley has been throught. Miley got her stuff stolen by a psycho, her friend turn her back on her when she needed them the most,selena backstabbed her and used her name to get notice,miley got sue,perez keep on bashing miley and calling her a slut because she not mexican like him and selena,friend turn betray miley, the media picks on her constantly even when all she doing is doing her job. Are you like insane when selena goes thru all that let me know. oh wait selena only knows how to be a coatail rider name dropping the biggest name at the moment.

  • Destiny Hope

    Anonymous said:

    Miley role model lol, please Miley teach us about your struggles being raised rich with parents in the music/tv business already. How does one find an agent and get work under those tough circumstances. All the other rich celeb kids need to know. Life was so tough

    You are either on crack or you obviosly don’t know what miley has been throught. Miley got her stuff stolen by a psycho, her friend turn her back on her when she needed them the most,selena backstabbed her and used her name to get notice,miley got sue,perez keep on bashing miley and calling her a slut because she not mexican like him and selena,friend turn betray miley, the media picks on her constantly even when all she doing is doing her job. Are you like insane when selena goes thru all that let me know. oh wait selena only knows how to be a coatail rider name dropping the biggest name at the moment.

    lmao fail fail fail.

  • MileyIsBestest

    i gave short comment and you said expand? just being nice.

    Someone said that saving theirself till marriage is pathetic so I asked how… I don’t even know why we are having this conversation…

  • Anonymous

    xdolshhex said:

    MileyIsBestest said:

    Because you have different values to them, you are obviously wrong and pathetic.

    What? Can you please expand?

    People tend to justify their values and actions by criticizing people who choose differently, an in group / out group scenario if you will. In this case the person sees people who wait till marriage to have sex as “pathetic”, not accepting that there may be valid reasons why someone might choose to wait and it could be the correct decision for them. See Social Identity Theory for more info.
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    wowwowow. i do believe we have different opinions on things. i didn’t say i see the person pathetic. actually i see those types of people really nice, ii isn’t a bad thing to wait… but i’ve been listening to these things w/miley, jonas, britney… everywhere.
    i think that the really religious people think they have to do everything the bible says to go to ‘paradise’. for me, FOR ME, paadise doesn’t exists.
    i’m budhist, we have different statements, and i respect everything u say
    —-
    Cool that was phrased and expressed much better than previously, maybe I took what you said wrong the first time. I’m Atheist and plan to wait, not for any religious meaning myself.

  • xdolshhex

    xdolshhex said:

    MileyIsBestest said:

    Because you have different values to them, you are obviously wrong and pathetic.

    What? Can you please expand?

    People tend to justify their values and actions by criticizing people who choose differently, an in group / out group scenario if you will. In this case the person sees people who wait till marriage to have sex as “pathetic”, not accepting that there may be valid reasons why someone might choose to wait and it could be the correct decision for them. See Social Identity Theory for more info.
    _____

    wowwowow. i do believe we have different opinions on things. i didn’t say i see the person pathetic. actually i see those types of people really nice, ii isn’t a bad thing to wait… but i’ve been listening to these things w/miley, jonas, britney… everywhere.
    i think that the really religious people think they have to do everything the bible says to go to ‘paradise’. for me, FOR ME, paadise doesn’t exists.
    i’m budhist, we have different statements, and i respect everything u say
    —-
    Cool that was phrased and expressed much better than previously, maybe I took what you said wrong the first time. I’m Atheist and plan to wait, not for any religious meaning myself.
    ____

    k. so.. we’re cool? :D

  • Anonymous

    MileyIsBestest said:

    i gave short comment and you said expand? just being nice.

    Someone said that saving theirself till marriage is pathetic so I asked how… I don’t even know why we are having this conversation…

    I’m not fighting with you, I just replied when you responded to my comment. Done then. Nothing personal.

  • Love_JaJ_2

    :)

  • xdolshhex

    her last name is GOMEZ for crying out loud she should know how to speak spanish!

    racist, why should a Gomez raised by an italian american know how to speak spanish. My name is Scottish I don’t speak Gaelic
    —-
    her dad is mexican you genius. well my grandmother is from england and i speak english, but where do i live? south america
    you stick to your roots or at least try to.
    ____

    where do you live? i live in south america too! :D
    btw my family’s british so i kinda feel the need to know how to speak english.

  • MileyIsBestest

    I’m not fighting with you, I just replied when you responded to my comment. Done then. Nothing personal.

    I’m not fighting with you either… I was just really cunfused. We cool>?

  • Anonymous

    her dad is mexican you genius. well my grandmother is from england and i speak english, but where do i live? south america
    you stick to your roots or at least try to.

    she didn’t live with her dad.

  • Anonymous

    I’m not fighting with you either… I was just really cunfused. We cool>?

    always.

  • thousandreasons

    where do you live? i live in south america too! :D
    btw my family’s british so i kinda feel the need to know how to speak english.
    _______

    i live in paraguay, its kind of in the MIDDLE hahaha you? your family is british? haha cool!

  • FrancyJonasGomez

    I mean the fact that people are taking this to the ass is pathetic, THESE idiots are calling the girl “perfect”, she’s not calling herself “perfect”, i’m a huge fan and i don’t find her “perfect” i honestly believe both her and Miley are good role models in there own way. I just love how people LOVE to start drama, it’s sad.

  • Anonymous

    FrancyJonasGomez said:

    I mean the fact that people are taking this to the ass is pathetic, THESE idiots are calling the girl “perfect”, she’s not calling herself “perfect”, i’m a huge fan and i don’t find her “perfect” i honestly believe both her and Miley are good role models in there own way. I just love how people LOVE to start drama, it’s sad.
    —–
    Wise words break through the forest of idiocy.

  • xdolshhex

    where do you live? i live in south america too! :D
    btw my family’s british so i kinda feel the need to know how to speak english.
    _______

    i live in paraguay, its kind of in the MIDDLE hahaha you? your family is british? haha cool!
    ____

    yep yep, my dad’s family. i live in argentina, pretty in the souuuuth ;)

  • FrancyJonasGomez

    well, shes not that known around here, so we cant be proud of what we dont know. shes kinda popular, but not HUGE. and besides her last name is GOMEZ for crying out loud she should know how to speak spanish!

    —-

    This is a fucking disgrace to Hispanics.. You’re fucking ignorant let me just tell you, just cause her last name is GOMEZ she has to know how to speak spanish…. STFU!

  • Anonymous

    FrancyJonasGomez said:

    I mean the fact that people are taking this to the ass is pathetic, THESE idiots are calling the girl “perfect”, she’s not calling herself “perfect”, i’m a huge fan and i don’t find her “perfect” i honestly believe both her and Miley are good role models in there own way. I just love how people LOVE to start drama, it’s sad.

    ==========
    AMEN! PREACH IT SISTAH ;)

  • Gearsarealwaysturning

    true. I love miley anyways i m not a 10 year old

  • Anonymous

    OMJitsMiley said:

    i love Selena but in my opinion Miley is the best role model, because she is real. Selena is trying so hard to be “perfect”… Btw i dont know why Miley is in this post…
    Miley is growing up. Get over it.

    =========

    Selena is trying to hard to be perfect???? oh im sorry i didn’t know you personally knew her!!

  • Anonymous

    THIS!!

  • Anonymous

    i prefer have a real role model than a fake one :)

  • Anonymous

    you have to be freaking joking me!!! im NEVER getting on oceanup or yahoo! bye! this is truly pathetic

  • krystinajonas

    i hate when ppl are like “she tries hard to be perfect.” like no stfu. everybody makes mistakes im sure she has but doesn’t show it. that’s why it is called PRIVATE LIFE. -.-

  • Anonymous

    the media can say what they waNT to say because miley diss them they have in for her because she stood up for herself, but miley is such a better role model than selena. what has selena gone thru for her to be a role model oh yeah that’s right NOTHING. Miley is so much better than selena is not even funny. selena hasn’t been through shit for her to be a role model. miley is and will always be better than her.

  • Anonymous

    hate when ppl are like “she tries hard to be perfect.” like no stfu. everybody makes mistakes im sure she has but doesn’t show it. that’s why it is called PRIVATE LIFE.

    That’s why she definately not a role model a role model suppose to show how they over came their mistake and how they over came them that is why miley is a better role model. Miley show the world how to get up from things people done to her and blame her as calling those mistake as her when it was done to her. miley will always be better even selena have learn from miley. miley is even selena role model because she sees what they done to miley so she tries to avoid those things. so even selena has learn from miley.

  • Anonymous

    Miley is a better role model miley teach girl what not to do including selena.

    miley has taught to never give up. what has selena showing oh yea nothing but acting like disney wants her to act and she gets paid for her acting.

  • Anonymous

    I guess making it on your own while being raised by a single mother is nothing. Some actually consider that an accomplishment. sigh. Wish we all had family in the business to help us get an agent, have everything given to you raised in an upper class family. Lets all cheer for the struggles of the poor rich girl.

  • Anonymous

    She is afraid to show her fas who she really is because she dont wanna lose them. She told that. I used to be a BIG fan of her, but then i realized she is so fake.

  • krystinajonas

    Anonymous said:

    hate when ppl are like “she tries hard to be perfect.” like no stfu. everybody makes mistakes im sure she has but doesn’t show it. that’s why it is called PRIVATE LIFE.

    That’s why she definately not a role model a role model suppose to show how they over came their mistake and how they over came them that is why miley is a better role model. Miley show the world how to get up from things people done to her and blame her as calling those mistake as her when it was done to her. miley will always be better even selena have learn from miley. miley is even selena role model because she sees what they done to miley so she tries to avoid those things. so even selena has learn from miley.

    imo, she’s just afraid that people will judge her. she just needs to crack out of her shell. and i never mentioned miley … -.-

  • Anonymous

    Miley role model lol, please Miley teach us about your struggles being raised rich with parents in the music/tv business already. How does one find an agent and get work under those tough circumstances. All the other rich celeb kids need to know. Life was so tough.

  • Anonymous

    1st!!!!

  • Microsoft Office 2010

    thanks a lot good

  • Anonymous

    Oh God this is gonna get ugly.

  • Anonymous

    follow me @Jasmine10NJ

  • Anonymous

    aww

  • PrettyYoungThing

    Well, I guess she is. :]

  • Anonymous

    what a load of shit

  • sophieee

    SMH….
    this is pathetic.

  • PrettyYoungThing

    Love that OU just had to bold the part at the bottom regarding Miley.

  • Anonymous

    i hate it when they put miley in the same sentence as selena, miley will always be number1 compared to selena no matter how much she wants to promote herself by obsessin over nick jonas in every song she wont come even close to be as good as miley

  • PrettyYoungThing

    suckit said:
    i don’t have a role model.to me it’s kinda stupid.

    I know, I don’t have one either. There really isn’t anyone I admire enough to call my “role model.”

  • Anonymous

    Anonymous said:

    SELENA DOESNT WEAR A PURITY RING ANYMORE!

    —————

    She hasn’t worn it in ages! These mags are always late on everything!

  • xdolshhex

    i don’t have a role model.to me it’s kinda stupid.
    ____

    *virtual high five*

  • suckit

    i don’t have a role model.to me it’s kinda stupid.

    I know, I don’t have one either. There really isn’t anyone I admire enough to call my “role model.”

    —–

    mmmmhhhh.and if i did it wouldn’t be anyone famous

  • areyouonDOPE…

    I look up to little kids who have cancer …. not some celebrity !! except for fernando torrres :P

  • areyouonDOPE…

    thousandreasons said:

    she isnt making latinos proud, trust me
    —–
    why would she have to make latinos proud ??

  • thousandreasons

    she isnt making latinos proud, trust me
    —–
    why would she have to make latinos proud ??
    —–
    ooh, well someone said that se is making latinos proud and im just saying tht its not really like that.

  • suckit

    i don’t have a role model.to me it’s kinda stupid.
    ____

    *virtual high five*

    —–

    :D *high five*

  • Suk

    SMH….
    this is pathetic.

    ——–
    Totally agree. I think she’s good, but not against Miley or “other” Disney Stars.
    So, I think this article is not trying to show a good perspective of Selena, it’s trying to say: “Miley is a whore and Selena is a virginal, naive girl”
    As Nick Jonas sing: “She was young but not naive…”

  • xdolshhex

    Anonymous said:

    SELENA DOESNT WEAR A PURITY RING ANYMORE!

    —————

    She hasn’t worn it in ages! These mags are always late on everything!
    ____

    and what? i honestly see this thing ‘not have sex til marriage’ pathetic.

  • idkMyBFFjill

    areyouonDOPE… said:

    I look up to little kids who have cancer …. not some celebrity !! except for fernando torrres :P
    ——-
    your icon… mwah <3

  • Camz.

    I’ve always loved Selena Gomez, and right now is no different. I’m dying at the fact that Northwestern’s at the top of her college list. It’s my dream school. Ugh, I just can’t love this girl any more.

  • Anonymous

    i think its true she is a role model .

  • Anonymous
  • Anonymous

    MileyIsBestest said:

    Because you have different values to them, you are obviously wrong and pathetic.

    What? Can you please expand?

    People tend to justify their values and actions by criticizing people who choose differently, an in group / out group scenario if you will. In this case the person sees people who wait till marriage to have sex as “pathetic”, not accepting that there may be valid reasons why someone might choose to wait and it could be the correct decision for them. See Social Identity Theory for more info.

  • Anonymous

    I didn’t know that OU and Yahoo had a sense of humor. That was the funniest thing I have ever read. She doesn’t want to loose her tween fans because she has no adult fans, and she couldn’t handle the kind of attention from the tabloids that other teens who are YOUNGER than she is have. Good luck believing your own press Selena, we all know that you have OU in your back pocket and that the folks at Yahoo are on your side too.