John Mayer, ‘Taylor Swift Humiliated Me’

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John Mayer told Rolling Stone that he was ‘humiliated” by Taylor Swift’s song ‘Dear John': ‘It made me feel terrible. Because I didn’t deserve it. I’m pretty good at taking accountability now, and I never did anything to deserve that. It was a really lousy thing for her to do.’

‘Dear John, I see it all, now it was wrong / Don’t you think 19 is too young to be played by your dark twisted games, when I loved you so?’ Swift and Mayer were romantically linked before the song’s release: ‘There are things that were little nuances of the relationship, little hints. Everyone will know, so I don’t really have to send out emails on this one.’

John said that he found out about Taylor’s feelings directly from her song: ‘I never got an e-mail. I never got a phone call. I was really caught off-guard, and it really humiliated me at a time when I’d already been dressed down. I mean, how would you feel if, at the lowest you’ve ever been, someone kicked you even lower?’ When asked about the song’s line, ‘Don’t you think I was too young to be messed with?’ He said: ‘I don’t want to go into that.’

John attacked the song: ‘I will say as a songwriter that I think it’s kind of cheap songwriting. I know she’s the biggest thing in the world, and I’m not trying to sink anybody’s ship, but I think it’s abusing your talent to rub your hands together and go, ‘Wait till he gets a load of this!’ That’s bullshit.’

  • Anonymous

    I’m going to give my personal opinion and I hope I don’t offend anyone with this, Taylor swift is basically a grown ass woman who needs to stop acting like she’s superior for behaving like a child. She’s a privileged girl who likes to act like she’s had it so hard because she was a little awkward when she was younger (EVERYONE IS AWKWARD IN HIGH SCHOOL) and pretend that she’s some kind of deep, earnest songwriter when really she’s just a pretty face cashing in on the same inane, sexist, slut-shaming fairytale bullshit in practically everything she does. She wants you to think she’s a badass for talking about all the people who’ve done her wrong, but she also wants you to see her as this poor, innocent victim if anyone ever tries to do the same to her. She’s overexposed, she’s boring and I’m personally afraid that she’s teaching a huge amount of young girls the wrong things about being a woman.

  • Anonymous

    Oh Johnnnn John John you gotta know a girl at 19 if the break up went off bad in her opinion it is a million worst than it really is.

    sincerely a 19 year old girl whos ex also name John broke up with

  • Anonymous

    When asked about the song’s line, ‘Don’t you think I was too young to be messed with?’ He said: ‘I don’t want to go into that.’

    sex :crown:

  • Anonymous

    i love dear john btw <3

  • SubwayToVenus

    John is a wanker and Taylor is a nutcase.
    I love Taylor though.

  • Anonymous

    She’s an adult. Also it’s her fault, she took the risk. I’m On John Mayer’s side. One of the best musicians. Ha the song was just a big f you

  • Anonymous

    It was her fault. She should have seen the warning signs… as for bashing boys? That’s her signature.. and everyone knows John Mayer’s a player.. however, I’m sick of her. Shes boring, has little talent, and pulls out the same thing every time. From being a huge fan in her early days, I am sad to say that she annoys the hell out of me now. She needs to grow up!

  • Anonymous

    Last Kiss was her apology to Joe for being such a bitch to him. SHe probably realised that there are worse guys out there like John after dating him!

  • BrokenArrow

    You have to understand her John, she’s a spiteful girl :)

  • Anonymous

    Oh, suck it up John. If you didn’t want this song, you should have treated her right.

  • SubwayToVenus

    Last Kiss was her apology to Joe for being such a bitch to him. SHe probably realised that there are worse guys out there like John after dating him!

    True, she was so immature with the whole Joe thing, but I think Last kiss is her best song, he really left a good impresion on her tbh, that song is flawless.

  • Anonymous

    I think that lyrically, the song is one of the best on the album. That’s not what he’s talking about, but, I mean, I do agree that Taylor’s intentions may be as John stated occasionally, ya know, the whole “Wait ’til he gets a load of this.” thing. Because she doesn’t have any shame is publicly humiliating boys, and seems quite satisfied when her fans trash the boys that she’s dated directly, I think that some of his statements in this interview, however, are somewhat immature, and possibly false.

  • Anonymous

    the only thing she’s getting is everyone look at her as a stupid bitch you shouldn’t date because she’ll tell the world everything if you ever split… Taylor, please, keep your mouth shut!

  • Ijustneedyounow

    she has a thing for bashing her ex’s in interviews and songs and making it seem like she’s that poor broken hearted innocent angel -.-
    also i like her voice but her songs are all the same shit: either it’s about how her life is such a perfect fairy tale or it’s about how some guy dared to do the poor little angle wrong :/
    seriously girl! you’re like 20 (okay i have no clue how old she is) not 12! grow up!

  • Anonymous

    I’m going to give my personal opinion and I hope I don’t offend anyone with this, Taylor swift is basically a grown ass woman who needs to stop acting like she’s superior for behaving like a child. She’s a privileged girl who likes to act like she’s had it so hard because she was a little awkward when she was younger (EVERYONE IS AWKWARD IN HIGH SCHOOL) and pretend that she’s some kind of deep, earnest songwriter when really she’s just a pretty face cashing in on the same inane, sexist, slut-shaming fairytale bullshit in practically everything she does. She wants you to think she’s a badass for talking about all the people who’ve done her wrong, but she also wants you to see her as this poor, innocent victim if anyone ever tries to do the same to her. She’s overexposed, she’s boring and I’m personally afraid that she’s teaching a huge amount of young girls the wrong things about being a woman.
    ——
    I couldn’t agree more !

  • Anonymous

    I lost all respect for John when he chose Taylor to be his first duet.. I thought he was better then that.. Don’t get me wrong, Taylor’s an okay artist, but John, I looked up to him… and he chose, out of everyone, to pick Taylor? There are so many TALENTED musicians out there, so many…

    I say it was to build his fan base..that’s all he was thinking about.

  • SubwayToVenus

    Anonymous said:
    the only thing she’s getting is everyone look at her as a stupid bitch you shouldn’t date because she’ll tell the world everything if you ever split… Taylor, please, keep your mouth shut!

    Lmfao

  • Anonymous

    she has a thing for bashing her ex’s in interviews and songs and making it seem like she’s that poor broken hearted innocent angel -.-
    also i like her voice but her songs are all the same shit: either it’s about how her life is such a perfect fairy tale or it’s about how some guy dared to do the poor little angle wrong :/
    seriously girl! you’re like 20 (okay i have no clue how old she is) not 12! grow up!

    —–

    I couldn’t agree with you more about the whole, Taylor’s always the innocent little angel, and the victim. That’s why I found it refreshing when she put out “Back To December”, because she was the bad guy, but then she all of a sudden adds in “Apologize” and “You’re Not Sorry” making it seem like he rejected her apology and was a jerk and blah blah blah. Guys can’t win with her. Ever.

  • Anonymous

    that bitch i got ya back john

  • Anonymous

    Anonymous said:

    I’m going to give my personal opinion and I hope I don’t offend anyone with this, Taylor swift is basically a grown ass woman who needs to stop acting like she’s superior for behaving like a child. She’s a privileged girl who likes to act like she’s had it so hard because she was a little awkward when she was younger (EVERYONE IS AWKWARD IN HIGH SCHOOL) and pretend that she’s some kind of deep, earnest songwriter when really she’s just a pretty face cashing in on the same inane, sexist, slut-shaming fairytale bullshit in practically everything she does. She wants you to think she’s a badass for talking about all the people who’ve done her wrong, but she also wants you to see her as this poor, innocent victim if anyone ever tries to do the same to her. She’s overexposed, she’s boring and I’m personally afraid that she’s teaching a huge amount of young girls the wrong things about being a woman.
    ——
    I couldn’t agree more !
    ——

    Thank you! It’s nice to know that there are people out there that can see past this bullshit. I think she needs to stop being the damsel in distress and stop living in this make believe world of sparkly dresses and prince charming. Yes, love is real but it takes hard work and commitment. You don’t just quit when times get hard or when you simply lose the “sparks”, and its more then a guy sweeping you off you feet, it goes both ways.

    Her songs are the same old same old, her first album was great, after that I feel like she just sold out.

  • Anonymous

    John, you were “down” because your stupid ass made a racist remark to a magazine and everyone called you out on your shit. You’re just mad cuz all the young girls probably want nothing to do with you anymore. Go Taylor!! <3

  • Anonymous

    i fucken love Taylor swift. She is insane.

  • Anonymous

    i fucken love Taylor swift. She is insane.

  • joejonassmile

    That’s why I found it refreshing when she put out “Back To December”, because she was the bad guy, but then she all of a sudden adds in “Apologize” and “You’re Not Sorry” making it seem like he rejected her apology and was a jerk and blah blah blah. Guys can’t win with her. Ever.

    OMG EXACTLYYYYY!!!
    I felt the same
    Im so agree with all of you guys …
    Im tired of her dramas
    she is talented she is beautiful but please taylor use it in better way with better topics than bashing your exs…

  • Anonymous

    Jun 6, 2012 @ 11:27 am
    Anonymous said:

    Anonymous said:

    I’m going to give my personal opinion and I hope I don’t offend anyone with this, Taylor swift is basically a grown ass woman who needs to stop acting like she’s superior for behaving like a child. She’s a privileged girl who likes to act like she’s had it so hard because she was a little awkward when she was younger (EVERYONE IS AWKWARD IN HIGH SCHOOL) and pretend that she’s some kind of deep, earnest songwriter when really she’s just a pretty face cashing in on the same inane, sexist, slut-shaming fairytale bullshit in practically everything she does. She wants you to think she’s a badass for talking about all the people who’ve done her wrong, but she also wants you to see her as this poor, innocent victim if anyone ever tries to do the same to her. She’s overexposed, she’s boring and I’m personally afraid that she’s teaching a huge amount of young girls the wrong things about being a woman.
    ——
    I couldn’t agree more !
    ——

    Thank you! It’s nice to know that there are people out there that can see past this bullshit. I think she needs to stop being the damsel in distress and stop living in this make believe world of sparkly dresses and prince charming. Yes, love is real but it takes hard work and commitment. You don’t just quit when times get hard or when you simply lose the “sparks”, and its more then a guy sweeping you off you feet, it goes both ways.

    Her songs are the same old same old, her first album was great, after that I feel like she just sold out.
    —–
    So true ! Plus she makes it right to spread the idea that if a man doesn’t act like you want him to, you can just go and humiliate him publicly ! No, that’s not what I call a mature way to get over someone. Love is not the perfect thing that I think she thinks it is, it’s beautiful but BOTH have to work on it. Men aren’t born to satisfy the little princess she seems to think she is.

  • Anonymous

    you’re not sorry was released before back to december f you’re referring to the song from fearless.

  • Anonymous

    they weren’t really dating it was all in crazy swift head when he ask her do songs on his album and she invited him to perform with her at her concerts she developed a crush i know she was crazy from start john dont want her boy body cry baby ass

  • Anonymous

    THANK YOU. totally agree!

  • Anonymous

    ^THIS. I was starting to think that I was the only one who thinks Taylor Swift is a spoiled brat who thinks she is special because she was “awkward” in High School. Who isn’t? I get so tired of hearing people say “oh her music changed my life” her lyrics are terrible, and she should not be seen as some music legend.

  • Anonymous

    A-fucken-men!

    tswift is an immature little girl who writes terrible things about guys that at one point she was really into… she acts like she’s perfect and that it is all the male’s fault for their relationship problems NEWS FLASH TAYLOR if you can write multiple records all about exes then MAYBE just MAYBE you’re the problem? whats the common denominator in all of these “bad relationships?” hmmm OH YEAH the common denominator is swift herself. It honestly surprises me that she can still even get guys cuz in the end she’s just going to bash them. She thinks all relationships are shitty because she doesn’t see fucken rainbows and white horses all the time, but that’s not what you wanna look for in a guy. You wanna find someone to be a life partner. So here’s some advice to tswift, don’t think you’re a perfect girlfriend, don’t go as low as to publicly humiliate every man you date, and quit singing about fruity things. mmmk bitch?

  • Anonymous

    well, most songs are about past experiences both good and bad. it just happens that TAYLOR writes ALL OF HER OWN SONGS. those are all her honest feeling. is it childish? YES but it is sincere. something that can’t be said to a lot of musicians these days. was she at fault for being put in these situations, for being heartbroken? YES she is definitely part of that but it is from these situations she can write songs AND earn her living. everyone who goes through a heartbreak, whines and finds an outlet to release emotions. we do it with our friends, on twitter, with drinking. SHE does it by writing a SONG. it’s her prerogative. you can’t blame her all for that. AM I A FAN Of taylor? YES. do i like all of her songs? def not. do i think she’s innocent? HELL NO> . but if you’ll gonna call her a bitch for turning her feelings into a song, then i guess, ALL of US are a bitch for even expressing our feeling regarding this issue.

  • Anonymous

    pretty sure she can write a song and get out her feelings without putting it on an album for the world to hear. She’s making millions for embarrassing guys that she previously dated. Then when asked if songs are about certain guys, she gives some smart ass answer. So for these reasons, i believe she is a bitch

  • Anonymous

    She wrote Dear John when she was nineteen.

  • Anonymous

    she’s not as innocent as everybody thinks she is

  • Anonymous

    Well I say good on you Taylor. John Mayer has been using and abusing young women with his power of celebrity for ever. Taylor was just the first to really call him on his BS. All Taylor did was express that what he does to young women is FUCKING wrong. John Mayer, learn from your evil ways and remember women are to be treated with the same respect you feel you are entitled to. Taylor rocks.

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  • LOGANHENDERSONSLITTLEBITCH

    You go glen coco

  • LMFAO

    Not gonna comment on the whole “John vs Taylor” thing. While I think they are both extremely talented musicians, I have always thought he was a douche bag.

    But for those saying Taylor is a bitch, you need to base your reasons on other things besides song lyrics. When my friend Layne’s brother, Sgt. Wade Wilson died in Afghanistan, Taylor called his mom and sister and gave her condolences. She also sent flowers and wants to wear his dog tags in her next video. She was going to sing at the funeral but didn’t want to take away from the family. Doesn’t sound like a bitch to me.

  • Anonymous

    I don’t think she’s a bitch. She hasn’t had good experiences with relationships, and that shows in her songs. But she doesn’t actually attack anyone (except Camille Belle lol). Guys don’t seem to treat her very well. OF COURSE when John Mayer was asked about that line that talks about what HE did wrong, he says “I don’t wanna talk about it.” Don’t be an asshole to her and she won’t write a song about it. Like how it was with Taylor Lautner — he treated her so well and she actually wrote a song saying super sweet things about him.

  • Anonymous

    who the hell cares about you, Meyer?

  • taylorsromeo

    it’s one of my favorite songs on the album so

  • Anonymous

    Taylor’s a dumb bitch… sorry to say. I’m a guy, and yes, I admit Taylor is a beautiful woman, but I assume she’s a bitch too. All girls want a guy to treat them right and love them, but a girl has to deserve it too. There’s a reason why all the guys she’s been with have broken up with her. She always wants to seem like the innocent one by putting the guys on blast but she never says what she does to all the guys for them to be like this with her. GO JOHN MAYER!

  • Anonymous

    NOVELL CITTTYYY

  • Lorenb

    Everyone wants a perfect person. However, that is not easy.

  • Anonymous

    John Mayer is a jerk. Everyone knows that. Plus that song is almost 2 years old. He’s talking about it now because his new album is coming out. He wasn’t that upset about it if he was he would of said something when Speak Now released. He’s not one for keeping his mouth shut so I know one way or another he would have said something. Whether it was Tweet or a radio interview. Something. He’s using it now for promotion.

    I adore Taylor. I’m one of her biggest fans, but even I know that the bashing of guys is an act. It worked for her the first time around and now she will continue to use that act until people can’t deal with it anymore. I’m sure she was hurt by the guys she writes about but she obviously embellishes the lyrics a little to make it more interesting. Plus I’m pretty sure the guys she writes about don’t mind it either because celebs are always looking for ways to get themselves in the news. Celebrities love publicity whether it bad or good. I just hope for Taylor’s sake she doesn’t keep pushing guys away because she’s a classy, smart, talented girl and deserves a nice guy. But if she keeps pushing them away for the sake of a good song it will hurt her in the end. As much as I love her; She also seems like the clingy type. That is definitely the vibe I get from. Someone very clingy and jealous. She probably falls in love way too easily.

  • Anonymous

    Most definitely.
    I think naming names make the songs less relatable as well. When I listen to Last Kiss, I’m not listening to Last Kiss, I’m listening to Joe Jonas Is Great (which is fine , but I don’t feel connected to it. It’s like Her and Joe and that’s it. I liked that her first record had real messages instead of name&shames (ie. you are beautiful, date nice guys, etc) instead we get ‘JOHN’ and ‘TEXAS’ and ‘HAHAHA BITCH’

    _________

    Lol same everytime I listen to it, I picture Joe doing all those things Taylor says he does to her.

  • Anonymous

    Taylor doesn’t just write about love. She has a song called Mean!

  • Anonymous

    I think that she’s lucky and talented. I love her, I think this song is too personal. Maybe she should have hidden some details.
    But I like the song, she isn’t the baby girl in all her songs!

  • Anonymous

    John Mayer looks like a bum now.

  • Anonymous

    Jun 6, 2012 @ 02:52 pm
    Anonymous said:
    John Mayer is a jerk. Everyone knows that. Plus that song is almost 2 years old. He’s talking about it now because his new album is coming out. He wasn’t that upset about it if he was he would of said something when Speak Now released.
    ===

    Again, he’s a progress. I doubt he means to be asshole.
    The publicity card is almost funny. 1) he did address Dear John when SN released. He said it was badly written during a seminar greet. 2) The interviewer of this obviously wanted a follow up, deeper response. HE didn’t bring it up. He doesn’t even answer the “JUICY” question: the sex question is what’d get him publicity, don’t you think? Besides, his record came out weeks ago. Sales are already in. Why would he be “promoting it” NOW using his 19 year old ex? The whole album is about not dwelling on sex and partying anymore. It would HINDER his image/sales, not help them.

  • Anonymous

    He thinks Dear John is badly written. I think it’s her best written sing off of the album. So I wonder what he thinks of her other songs!

  • taylorsromeo

    lol that’s how we do it gorl

  • Anonymous

    Jun 6, 2012 @ 03:06 pm
    Anonymous said:
    He thinks Dear John is badly written. I think it’s her best written sing off of the album. So I wonder what he thinks of her other songs!

    He liked Love Story, Enchanted and Ours (obviously lol). But yeah, Dear John is pretty dry. Production/composition-wise it is BEAUTIFUL but the lyrics are just as he said: cheap. The Dear John metaphor is really corny, and every overused love metaphor in the book is there. The “paint the sky”, the “rain”, the “games”, the “blurry lines”, the “fireworks”…it’s all been sung before and mock riffs are just a gag. I can’t take Dear John seriously. It’s all drabble, lyric wise.

  • Anonymous

    We can’t judge either of them.

    We don’t know what really happened and they won’t explain, so there’s no use.

    You can’t hold against Taylor what she did when she was still a teenager and you can’t hold against John what he did when he was a jerk. If you had listened to Born and Raised, you’ll realize that guy is trying his best to change.

    None of them are perfect, so don’t expect them to be.

  • Anonymous

    told yall this bitch was crazy! shes a crazy stalker ex girlfriend from a lifetime movie. all her songs are about guys and how they broke her heart and i knew the problem was either them or her …HER! And shes lying about it! TOLD YA TOLD YA Wheres Kanye?

  • Anonymous

    You can’t hold against Taylor what she did when she was still a teenager and you can’t hold against John what he did when he was a jerk. If you had listened to Born and Raised, you’ll realize that guy is trying his best to change.
    _________
    yep because 20 is def. a teenager!

  • Anonymous

    You go girlfriend! Chump!

  • Anonymous

    You go girlfriend! Chump!

  • Anonymous

    Taylor is a paid assasin of toyboys.

  • ParaMonster

    I agree with him on some level. While it is her schtick for writing about things she experiences and relationships that don’t work out I feel like she’s seen as the innocent one while she’s the one putting others on blast. She knew what she was getting herself into by even being linked with the guy, she was nineteen, she made her own decisions, but, as always, she turns around and makes the guy seem like the bad guy.

  • Anonymous

    john and taylor, two douchebags that deserve eachother.

  • Anonymous

    She’s not fucking perfect. If she messed up, she did. If she didn’t, she didn’t. To be honest, she needs to stop embarassing people. It’s awful what she did to Joe. She acts like she’s perfect and only finds faults in other people. She has faults that other people don’t know about because nobody is writing bad songs about her that are well known. Karma’s a bitch and will get her one day.

  • Anonymous

    Seriously sad that girls worship a woman like Taylor swift. I am afraid she’s sending the wrong message to so many young girls out there, Taylor swift is a fucking bitch.

  • Anonymous

    damn fucking right! i couldn’t agree with you more! she puts on such a “sweet good girl who will never do anything bad “act and she definitely isnt when you see what she has done. I mean come on how blind can you be. She isnt as nice as people think and she seems like such an immature person writing about middle/high school love…you’re in your twenties-GROW UP …her writing did not mature and neither did she as a person.

  • Anonymous

    oh shut up john mayer. we all know you are a fame whore and a jerk. Can’t stand him and if Taylor didn’t feel like you did anything wrong, she would have written “Dear John, thanks for being so fantastic and not playing games.” so stfu!

  • BoyscoutsGirl

    John’s right and honestly I don’t think Taylor has ever writen a song that wasn’t about a realstionship. I can’t stand it when she writes like 5 love songs about one guy then they break up and writes 50 songs about he was a jerk but it takes two to tango in a relationship so its not just him. She has no class when it comes to her song writing. Thats why I love Joe Jonas’ comeback to one of her songs. 2 second phone call yeah right you hung up… If she stopped dating she would have no more songs to write.+

  • Anonymous

    I agree w/ John.. I mean Taylor has impressive writing skills & all, but it’s all the same crap “My life is magicaalllll” “I’m falling deep in love w/ you(even if all u did was wink at me)” “U LIEDD!! U don’t love me!! I thought that one wink was special!!!!!” ….not being a hater, she’s pretty and her guitar skills aren’t rubbish, but she’s reallyyy overrated.

  • joejonassmile

    all the same crap “My life is magicaalllll” “I’m falling deep in love w/ you(even if all u did was wink at me)” “U LIEDD!! U don’t love me!! I thought that one wink was special!!!!!” ….
    —-
    Lmfao =)) :-D OMG LOL I cant…cant stop laughing…I cant …
    THIS” I thought that one wink was special ”
    good one hahahaha

  • Anonymous

    I think they both were wrong is this relationship. He had no business dating an immature girl who bashes her exes. And she had no business dating a grown man with a rep for being a douche. Don’t think either of them should really be surprised at the way things played out. LOL.
    That being said, I adore both :) Hopefully they both learned/took from this relationship what they were meant to. I hope they both learned/grew from it.

  • AcidPinkLemonade

    Jun 6, 2012 @ 12:05 pm
    barbiescunt said:

    Taylor makes me angry because she always pretends she was perfect and everyone else screws her over. Logically, if every guy you date dumps you or treats you badly, obviously there’s something wrong with you. It’s not immaturity either, lame excuse. Someone should put her on blast the same way she does everyone else.
    ========================
    I like her songs, but I have to agree. It’s getting old and so is that “shocked” face she makes when she gets an award she knows she’s going to win.

  • Anonymous

    well now he knows how the black community and jessica simpson felt when he did the playboy interview
    I cant feel no sympothy for him, taylor didnt ride him out she just wrote a song about how she felt within their relationship and put it through a song he must’ve known what he was getting himself into when he began dating her, but because it’s him who’s on the end of a bad song from her he doesnt like it.

    for me this interview is highly hypocritical on his part. Plus taylor songwriting in dear john isnt cheap, the lyrics within that song are very good and i dont even like her speak now album but that and last kiss are the only songs i like. If you cant stand the heat get out the kitchen john mayer

  • Anonymous

    I think it’s obvious Shadow Days was for her.
    In his defense (and I know Swifties don’t wanna hear this) he was dealing with a lot…BEFORE the PlayBoy crap, which really wasn’t all that racist and I say that as a black person. If he isn’t attracted to black women, he isn’t attracted to black women.

    But yeah, go listen to Born & Raised, actually see his POV. He dealt his anxiety, his parents spliting up, he was mixed drugs alcohol and anti-depressants for years. He had a meltdown and ‘Dear John’ rubbed it in his face. “I’m shining like fireworks over your Sad empty town”. Not cool. There was nothing clever about it. Saying you’re now Above him because he’s sick is disgusting. and you’re gonna shine and make paper off this track while he crashes all alone in a BATHROOM.

    And then (what gets me purple) she has the fucking AUDACITY to write a song like ‘Story of Us’ shaming him for not dropping to her feet at the CMA’s and apologizing for the fallout.
    Hello? You DUMPED, DITCHED AND HUMILIATED THE GUY! Did you really expect him to come talk to you and beg for another chance? He’s not Joe, honey.

    Annnnnddddddd, done

  • joejonassmile

    Anonymoussaid:you’re not sorry was released before back to december f you’re referring to the song from fearless.

    we know !! we meant she changed lyrics while performing live and adding you are not sorry to the song …

  • joejonassmile

    He dealt his anxiety, his parents spliting up, he was mixed drugs alcohol and anti-depressants for years. He had a meltdown and ‘Dear John’ rubbed it in his face. “I’m shining like fireworks over your Sad empty town”. Not cool.
    —–
    :( ughhh….I really feel bad for John…if John is a monster Taylor turned to another Monster even worst …I hope she stop becoming like those who hurt her…whats the point?they hurt you…you hurt them?at the end you are as bad as them!!!!!

  • Anonymous

    ooh come on! we all get one day to fall in love with the wrong boy ! John didn’t even justify he’s action while he is critisazing!!!
    I say go Taylor!!!!

  • Anonymous

    Anonymoussaid:you’re not sorry was released before back to december f you’re referring to the song from fearless.
    ===

    No. On Speak Now she changed the lyrics. “This is me swallowing my pride standing in front’a you saying I’m sorry[...] He said you’re not sorry, no no/It’s too late”

    The concept is completely flipped. First he was sad (mind you Taylor did in fact cheat on Lautner) and it’s flipped to be as though she was being tricked/hurt to greater extent.

  • Anonymous

    Why does people say John is racist?

    —–

    He made some “racist” comment a while ago. I don’t really know the details of it, I don’t even know if it was actually racist or just taken that way. I’m not sure of the comment, I just know that he said something that was seen as racist.

  • SubwayToVenus

    He made some “racist” comment a while ago. I don’t really know the details of it, I don’t even know if it was actually racist or just taken that way. I’m not sure of the comment, I just know that he said something that was seen as racist.

    Lol, what a fucking douche.

  • Anonymous

    Woops. Didn’t mean to post that twice.

  • Sunshine n Lolipops

    He is not racist he just has no filter and was acting all self important, he was a douche… what he is saying is that he fell on his douchie face and was humbled and then she kicked him in the face. Hey Taylor, why ya be so mean?

  • Anonymous

    She ripped off the civil wars.. :(

  • joejonassmile

    I LOVE this part”I mean, how would you feel if, at the lowest you’ve ever been, someone kicked you even lower?’ ”
    thats why he is a great song writer he knows how to describe things that you can totally feel it
    I even think some times in Song Writing he is so much better than taylor but I dont like his music style but I love reading his lyrics . Am I werid? :D :lol:

  • SubwayToVenus

    This is the only thing I will ever hate Taylor for
    http://bumpshack.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/taylor-swift-nazi-symbol-scandal-photos.jpg
    Horrible.

  • Anonymous

    I went to her concert so excited.. went home disappointed. She’s a brain washed barbie.

    She literally stood on the stage for 5 minutes just asking the fans cheer for her!
    Her moves across the stage are all choreographed, including her classic “flipped hair” move.

    The only good part was her drum solo that she did.. Seriously, she really not talented. She just got lucky. I agree with the previous posts, her first album has potential…

    I went home so upset – Bad move on my part.

  • joejonassmile

    But seriously Joe had seen more than John … Taylor really Act terrible in the whole joe jonas broke up
    This is just one single song about John and he is mad
    and there is like lots of joe jonas songs interviews videos and ….And joe is NOT like “Taylor is cheap song writer”
    why is that boy this much poor?:( :crying:he still gets hate because of taylor and he never really defend himself NOT like the way John did this time!!!!!!!!! :o
    any way I think Joe is over taylor years ago :)

  • parathereal

    i think she exaggerates it and she leans on the succes of bringing them down but on the other hand her songs are her part and her way to deal with break ups saying her music is cheap is bullshit, and OU really you are really not the fastest with your news godd

  • barbiescunt

    Taylor makes me angry because she always pretends she was perfect and everyone else screws her over. Logically, if every guy you date dumps you or treats you badly, obviously there’s something wrong with you. It’s not immaturity either, lame excuse. Someone should put her on blast the same way she does everyone else.

  • joejonassmile

    Anonymoussaid:I went to her concert so excited.. went home disappointed. She’s a brain washed barbie.She literally stood on the stage for 5 minutes just asking the fans cheer for her!Her moves across the stage are all choreographed, including her classic “flipped hair” move.The only good part was her drum solo that she did.. Seriously,she really not talented. She just got lucky. I agree with the previous posts, her first album has potential…I went home so upset – Bad move on my part.

    Yeah I noticed that when I saw her DVD concert my mom slept in the middle of it . she said its boring!!!!!!!! I was supprised but at the end I was like she is right!
    because the only reason I followed her was knowing more about her interesting relationships but after that it gets boring the only song I remain listen is sparks fly because thank God I dont know who is it about so I can relate to it and enjoy

  • Anonymous

    Taylor makes me angry because she always pretends she was perfect and everyone else screws her over. Logically, if every guy you date dumps you or treats you badly, obviously there’s something wrong with you. It’s not immaturity either, lame excuse. Someone should put her on blast the same way she does everyone else.

    —–

    Well said. Bravo. In Taylor’s world, it’s always everyone else’s fault as to why something doesn’t work out.

  • joejonassmile

    Anonymoussaid:Taylor makes me angry because she always pretendsshe was perfect and everyone else screws her over. Logically, if every guy you date dumps you or treats you badly, obviously there’s something wrong with you . It’s not immaturity either, lame excuse. Someone should put her on blast the same way she does everyone else.

    OMG good point thats so true …I think she knows that too thats why she stopped dating for a while
    its a good decision for her :) I hope she change her look so we can see more of her talent in better light

  • yepyepschwag

    John, you should of known.

  • Anonymous

    Uhm, Dear John, what business did you at your age have for going out with a sweet 19 year old angel like Taylor Swift. Oh, that’s right, you wanted to tap that fresh piece of meat. Don’t speak when you have egg already on your face.

  • Anonymous

    I think he basically admitted they had sex. ;)

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  • Anonymous

    Its a fucking great song, critically acclaimed one as well. Stop complaining and be lucky she did not write some shit like “Mean” about you.

  • NirvanaSmells

    I’m taking John’s side on this one. I like Taylor but I think John’s right. She’s written a lot of songs based on her relationships and I think she should think of the other party as well. I know she gets hurt, I’m a girl too but somethings should remain private. I always thought that her songs gave away too much. stuff that needs to be kept under cover especially when you’re a star. Taylor can write amazing but sometimes it is very direct and humiliating. It makes the other party seem so evil. I remember everyone started hating joe cuz of of the 27-second call thing.

  • JoeHoe15

    You go JOHN MAYER!!! :D

  • joejonassmile

    NirvanaSmells said:

    I’m taking John’s side on this one. I like Taylor but I think John’s right. She’s written a lot of songs based on her relationships and I think she should think of the other party as well. I know she gets hurt, I’m a girl too but somethings should remain private. I always thought that her songs gave away too much. stuff that needs to be kept under cover especially when you’re a star. Taylor can write amazing but sometimes it is very direct and humiliating. It makes the other party seem so evil. I remember everyone started hating joe cuz of of the 27-second call thing.
    —-
    yeah I remember that too Im so happy the truth is coming into the light now :)
    there are still lots of people who hate Joe because of that . and thats funny now they are telling me “Taylor was just a teenager when she wrote it”
    so Joe was not a teenager when he made a little mistake!? you hated Joe when he was not completely innocent because he tried to call her she was the one who didnt pick up the phone
    for once taylor fans need to see the truth at least for once!

  • joejonassmile

    un 6, 2012 @ 11:27 amAnonymoussaid:Anonymous said:I’m going to give my personal opinion and I hope I don’t offend anyone with this, Taylor swift is basically a grown ass woman who needs to stop acting like she’s superior for behaving like a child. She’s a privileged girl who likes to act like she’s had it so hard becauseshe was a little awkward when she was younger (EVERYONE IS AWKWARD IN HIGH SCHOOL) and pretend that she’s some kind of deep, earnest songwriter when reallyshe’s just a pretty face cashing in on the same inane, sexist, slut-shaming fairytale bullshit in practically everything she does. She wants you to think she’s a badass for talking about all the people who’ve done her wrong, but she also wants you to see her as this poor, innocent victim if anyone ever tries to do the same to her. She’s overexposed, she’s boring and I’m personally afraid that she’s teaching a huge amount of young girls the wrong things about being a woman.
    —-
    Honestly Im suprised that I found people like you here
    I thought I ll find out lots of blind taylor fans who really believe taylor is thay innocent perfect girl
    So happy to see others are finding out the fact :)
    BTW I still love taylor but she is not my role model I want her to be better than this because I know she can

  • laceyxox

    John, you need to grow up. She was 19, she has time to mature. You, however, are dwelling on a song that came out almost 2 years ago!
    Quit crying about it and move on!

  • Anonymous

    Why are people still bringing up the Joe-Taylor thing, though? It’s more than obvious they got over it, so you all should too.

  • Anonymous

    Thank you! It’s nice to know that there are people out there that can see past this bullshit. I think she needs to stop being the damsel in distress and stop living in this make believe world of sparkly dresses and prince charming. Yes, love is real but it takes hard work and commitment. You don’t just quit when times get hard or when you simply lose the “sparks”, and its more then a guy sweeping you off you feet, it goes both ways.

    Her songs are the same old same old, her first album was great, after that I feel like she just sold out.

    —–

    While I think it’s nice that she has her own idea of what love should be like, these days, it’s just not realistic. And when it doesn’t happen the way she wants it to, she gets upset about it, and bashes the boy because it was “all his fault”. It’s ridiculous. For now it’s working for her career, but when she’s 30, I don’t think it will. And it does go both ways, like you said. She expects the guy to be perfect, while she can act however she wants, and it won’t mess anything up. Really? Goodness.

  • Sunshine n Lolipops

    they weren’t really dating it was all in crazy swift head when he ask her do songs on his album and she invited him to perform with her at her concerts she developed a crush i know she was crazy from start john dont want her boy body cry baby ass

    :) ha ha… and John… MTE, but you should of not even bothered with her.

  • Anonymous

    I see lots of Joe d1ckriders in this post…must be where all the hate is coming from.

    -her songs are not ALL about love and relationships
    -john needs to stfu with this humiliation talk….like he is not guilty of this. plus its incredibly CHEAP to talk about this now 2 years later after his new album is out
    -speak now>born and raised (metacritic agrees)

    Over and out.

  • SubwayToVenus

    I think Taylor’s a great songwriter and she’s real, I love her, but sometimes she takes things too far, however that doesn’t change the fact that John is a jerk.

  • Anonymous

    That’s why I found it refreshing when she put out “Back To December”, because she was the bad guy, but then she all of a sudden adds in “Apologize” and “You’re Not Sorry” making it seem like he rejected her apology and was a jerk and blah blah blah. Guys can’t win with her. Ever.

    OMG EXACTLYYYYY!!!
    I felt the same
    Im so agree with all of you guys …
    Im tired of her dramas
    she is talented she is beautiful but please taylor use it in better way with better topics than bashing your exs…

    —–

    And she does have so much potential with writing about other topics! Like “Eyes Open” from The Hunger Games? She wrote that by herself. I’d be PUMPED if she wrote an album with a variety of material, and songs like “Eyes Open”, that kind of subject material. That’d be wonderful. She’s a gifted songwriter, but, it’s like, she doesn’t expand it enough.

  • Anonymous

    taylor need some good dick to calm her down

  • joejonassmile

    Anonymoussaid:Last Kiss was her apology to Joe for being such a bitch to him. SHe probably realised that there are worse guys out there like John after dating him!
    ___
    LOL you read mind?you just wrote my whole opinion :D
    poor joe tried to tell every one he never cheated on her …but no one believed him ofcourse he was into camilla but he didnt cheat …he tried to broke up classy and taylor ruined it with jelouisy !!!
    I still cant get over the fact she announced their broke up in ellen show while she wasnt answering joe s phone calls to clear things up technically she broke up herself she didnt let joe talk about it more!

  • Anonymous

    Seriously. Taylor IS in fact talented but is just so BORING. I feel like all she ever writes about are her love life, her exes and her enemies. WHAT A BASIC BITCH.

  • SubwayToVenus

    Why does people say John is racist?

  • Anonymous

    Jun 6, 2012 @ 02:00 pm
    joejonassmile said:
    He dealt his anxiety, his parents spliting up, he was mixed drugs alcohol and anti-depressants for years. He had a meltdown and ‘Dear John’ rubbed it in his face. “I’m shining like fireworks over your Sad empty town”. Not cool.
    —–
    ughhh….I really feel bad for John…if John is a monster Taylor turned to another Monster even worst …I hope she stop becoming like those who hurt her…whats the point?they hurt you…you hurt them?at the end you are as bad as them!!!!!
    ====

    I think when it boils to it, it’s sexism. If TAYLOR was the one dealing with depression and substance abuse (a la Demi) and JOHN wrote a song about it making her a bad person, the media would DESTROY him! No doubt. He’d be “insensitive” “a monster” yada yada. Taylor says whatever she wants about whoever she wants because she’s a sensative, intouch, feminine creature.

  • Anonymous

    Why does people say John is racist?

    —–

    He made some “racist” comment a while ago. I don’t really know the details of it, I don’t even know if it was actually racist or just taken that way. I’m not sure of the comment, I just know that he said something that was seen as racist.

  • joejonassmile

    ===I think when it boils to it, it’s sexism. If TAYLOR was the one dealing with depression and substance abuse (a la Demi) andJOHN wrote a song about it making her a bad person, the media would DESTROY him! No doubt. He’d be “insensitive” “amonster” yada yada. Taylor says whatever she wants about whoever she wants because she’s a sensative, intouch, feminine creature.

    my point is getting revenge wont bring peace for every one just look how many years past and they are still not over it !!!
    there are better ways to handle it
    I would like it if Taylor wrote songs in the way we couldnt understand who is it about…it was fine with me but she wants us to know …its not healthy…she wants us feel exactly like her while we dont know the other side of story …so we just gonna hate and be mad …
    I really think I explained my opinion enough in these comments so you get me or you dont
    I dont wanna force you to have my opinion Xoxo :)

  • Anonymous

    We all know John is a player and a real jerk so WHY did she have anything to do with him in the first place and did she really expect anything different from him Are we surprised?

  • Anonymous

    Yeah seriously, someone should write a shit song about her too and name it Taylor.

    I’ve always found her to being really immature for doing what she does to every ex.

    Idk why any guy would want to date her. Yeah she’s pretty and rich, but seriously you either get a huge lovey dovey awkward song written about you after you break up, or… mostly likely you get hacked to death by the words, her fans, and the media.

  • Anonymous

    Taylor Swift should grow up. John Mayer is a grown man, and bashing him isn’t going to change what happened. Humiliating your exes isn’t going to make anything better either. No one is perfect.

  • Anonymous

    She released this song at the age of 20. It was written when she was a teenager. Let her grieve in the way she feels like. Can’t you see he’s bringing this up, almost 2 years after the release of Dear John, to publicise himself for his new album? Idiots…

  • Anonymous

    this album has been out for awhile. why the heck is he all off sudden saying something about it? FAME WHORE.

  • Anonymous

    I hope they get back together. :)

  • Anonymous

    They had sex.

  • Anonymous

    my point is getting revenge wont bring peace for every one just look how many years past and they are still not over it !!!
    there are better ways to handle it
    I would like it if Taylor wrote songs in the way we couldnt understand who is it about…it was fine with me but she wants us to know …its not healthy…she wants us feel exactly like her while we dont know the other side of story …so we just gonna hate and be mad …
    I really think I explained my opinion enough in these comments so you get me or you dont
    I dont wanna force you to have my opinion Xoxo
    ====

    Most definitely.
    I think naming names make the songs less relatable as well. When I listen to Last Kiss, I’m not listening to Last Kiss, I’m listening to Joe Jonas Is Great (which is fine ;), but I don’t feel connected to it. It’s like Her and Joe and that’s it. I liked that her first record had real messages instead of name&shames (ie. you are beautiful, date nice guys, etc) instead we get ‘JOHN’ and ‘TEXAS’ and ‘HAHAHA BITCH’

  • Anonymous

    She needs to grow up!

  • Anonymous

    Is everyone forgetting that she was 19!! Plus shes a girl what else is she gonna write about.. most singers write about their love life not just her i find her songs really good and she is not boring try going to one of her concerts its far from boring! Plus this song came out like 2 years ago why talk about it now!?! AND she is the sweetest person ever so who ever is calling her a ‘bitch’ u dont know anything!