On Demi & Bieber’s ‘Hater Obsession’

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Fan: ‘Why are Demi Lovato and Justin Bieber always lashing out at their haters? Harvard psychiatrist John Sharp, author of The Emotional Calendar, told E! ‘Most of the time, stars can just choose what to concern themselves with, what to care about, what to dismiss or ignore. I see insulation that often borders on isolation,

..alternating with great sensitivity and a strong, sometimes narcissistic desire to be loved. When this balance is struck in a healthy way, celebs can protect themselves from every possible critique. However, when this balance is off,

..celebs may become either out of touch on the one hand, or overly touchy on the other. The latter is probably what we are seeing here. Lashing out at a hater isn’t typical of stars. Something is likely going on in their lives that’s making them feel more vulnerable, and they’re feeling the need to fight back.

Media psychiatrist Carole Lieberman: ‘Justin is having a tough time these days with his on-again, off-again relationship with Selena Gomez. He’s admitted to being confused, so haters are getting to him more at this time of self-doubt.’

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  • anons

    i love jsutin

  • Anonymous

    Clauber said:
    Better explanation: they’re annoying, insecure, and need to shut the fuck up and disappear.

    THIS! (:

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    totally agree

  • Anonymous

    How are they even aware of their haters in the first place? Do people yell at them on the street? The people they usually see in person are their adoring fans, right? Isn’t most of the hate from the Internet? Personally, that’s the reason I never search for my own name on the Internet. I really don’t need to waste time worrying about every person who disagrees with me. Maybe Demi and Justin are so obsessed with themselves that they constantly search for their own names on the Internet and are SURPRISED to find that not everyone loves them.

  • Anonymous

    People who don’t want hate might start by getting off Twitter and devoting their time to their career and their real friends. Do you know what fans did before the Internet? They simply listened to the music!!! Your fans don’t need a daily update, Demi and Justin, you narcissists.

  • Anonymous

    Not gonna lie, more people hate Justin than love him and you can’t deny that. That’s why I began to like him a bit because I saw that for every 10 tweet about him, 2 were positive. He has the most hated video on YouTube and the comments on there are horrible, so of course he can see the hate. But I don’t feel that he lashes out at them, more like jokes about the hate or does his converting the haters movement.

  • Anonymous

    Most hated video on YouTube? People spend time on that? There aren’t any people who I actively “hate”. If I don’t like some music, I change the radio station.

  • Anonymous

    I don’t understand the concept of a hater. When I criticize something, it’s usually very specific, because I can find good and bad things in just about anyone. The idea of hating a whole person makes no sense.

  • Anonymous

    when was that picture taken? demi looks beautiful there

  • Anonymous

    you like him because others dislike him…

  • Anonymous

    You are all some basic BITCHES stfu !!!

  • Anonymous

    You are all some basic BITCHES stfu !!!

    This whole comment is basic which makes the person that typed it even more basic than basic can get. So how about you take some of your own words and STFU yourself. :)

  • Anonymous

    I started paying more attention to him when I saw all the hate he got. I saw that he was talented and didn’t see why most people disliked him. He does a lot for charity at his age compared to other young people and adult celebs, he’s nice to his fans and has a nice bond with them on twitter. He’s a family guy. I just don’t get why people hate him for stuff like he looks feminine/ gay or he can’t dress. Saying he’s a douche because he dresses stupid is like calling Martin Luther King a douche if he dressed like Justin. Let the kid be young and make mistakes and just have fun.

  • Anonymous

    he’s really no more talented than 50% of the population, and he uses enough sly tactics to offset any talent he has. the charity thing is a business tactic from scooter braun, and he has said in an interview that it makes people more comfortable so he can earn more money. he’s not really a family guy…

    many people see through all his marketing and manipulative ways, and resent him

    and precisely, King didn’t dress like that, and if he did then he wouldn’t have had respect. I guess King was just being realistic, and maybe focusing on more important things than his looks

  • Speaking Hypothetically

    he’s really no more talented than 50% of the population, and he uses enough sly tactics to offset any talent he has. the charity thing is a business tactic from scooter braun, and he has said in an interview that it makes people more comfortable so he can earn more money. he’s not really a family guy…

    many people see through all his marketing and manipulative ways, and resent him

    and precisely, King didn’t dress like that, and if he did then he wouldn’t have had respect. I guess King was just being realistic, and maybe focusing on more important things than his looks

    Oh dear, Lord there is someone else on this site that is smart. This though.^^

  • Speaking Hypothetically

    I might believe most of the shit Justin does is for publicity BUT I do believe he cares about people and doing charity. That’s the ONLY thing I will give credit to.

  • Anonymous

    again, it’s no more than most other people would care about people. it seems more than most because he blends it with his marketing

  • Anonymous

    All I’m saying is what has the kid done that has affected your life? It’s alright to find him annoying or not like his music but I would never make fun or judge a persons appearance. That’s just bullying and he gets a lot of judgement base on his appearance. Saying he looks like a lesbian isn’t an opinion, it’s just hate. Saying he’s a fag is not an opinion, it’s hate. Saying he’s untalented is hate cause you all know he worked hard. Everyone forgets he’s a teenager and was receiving all these negative comments since he was 14. If he murdered someone or was racist then I wouldn’t care about the hate he receives but he hasn’t done anything to offend me so I will let him be. Also with the King comment, are you trying to say that if he still fought for civil rights for black people but dressed like JB then no one would respect him? I think people would very much still respect him as he was one of the main influences for the success of the civil rights movement, and whatever he wore wouldn’t have changed people’s opinions of his involvement I’m black people’s civil rights.

  • Anonymous

    keep thinking about it

  • Anonymous

    Just a thought. Maybe Demi and Justin care about their haters because they’re influenced by their fans, who are obsessed with defending them.

  • Anonymous

    “He does a lot for charity at his age compared to other young people and adult celebs, he’s nice to his fans and has a nice bond with them on twitter. He’s a family guy.”

    He’s also Canadian, and Canadians are generally humble and nice people (more than Americans anyway).

  • Anonymous

    “he’s really no more talented than 50% of the population, and he uses enough sly tactics to offset any talent he has”

    The main thing I always hated about Justin was that gimmicky haircut he had when he was younger that made him look like a giant toy doll, which distracted from the music. I’m glad his appearance is more natural now.

  • Anonymous

    “Saying he looks like a lesbian isn’t an opinion, it’s just hate. Saying he’s a fag is not an opinion, it’s hate.”

    I think Justin proved the haters wrong when he started dating Selena Gomez. I wouldn’t mind looking like Justin if it would get me a beauty like Selena Gomez.

  • Anonymous

    Wow Justin was so tiny. Plot twist: he is tall

  • Anonymous

    Plot twist: Justin grew

  • Luke Skywalker

    Why don’t they get that if they ignore them, they will eventually get fed up and decrease? They are just feeding the fire. I know that I’m not in their position and it’s easier said then done but they need to just pay no mind.

  • Anonymous

    I’m sick of people calling Demi Lovato their “inspiration”. That celebrity worship is unhealthy. She’s not special. She’s just a cautionary tale: Don’t cut yourself, don’t starve yourself, don’t make yourself vomit, and don’t use cocaine. Other than that, live your own life.

  • Anonymous

    Define hater? Demi is a cute, sensitive girl with a reasonably-sized body for a woman who occasionally dabbles in hypocrisy when she dresses or dances in a sexy way and then preaches about religion, or when she says she’s against bullying and then becomes a judge on a reality-TV show that humiliates people for the sake of entertainment. Demi’s not a wholly bad person. She’s just not as great as some people pretend she is.

  • Anonymous

    ICARLY ENDED:
    CARLY GOES TO ITALY WITH HER DAD AND THE SHOW ENDS.
    The End.

  • Anonymous

    publications and comments on this blog each time I go doing more shit … Where was their credibility?

  • Anonymous

    why are they complaining about haters when they got all the MONEY,FAME,LOOKS and everything any one could ask for.. god. they make me sick sometimes like yo there r ppl out there dying stop complaining just cuz someone called u “ugly or fat”. get a thicker skin ur in the lime light. GET THE FUCK OVER IT

  • Live.Love.Learn.

    Better explanation: they’re annoying, insecure, and need to shut the fuck up and disappear.

  • Anonymous

    They need to understand that NOT everyone is going to like them, they need to suck it up and get the fuck over it, and learn to accept it.

  • Clauber

    Better explanation: they’re annoying, insecure, and need to shut the fuck up and disappear.

    THIS! (:

  • Anonymous

    you’ve been brainwashed.

  • Anonymous

    Haters are disgusting. They have the right to complain. We have some of those nasty ass haters here too…

  • Anonymous

    I hate seeing old pictures of Demi. It reminds me how she used to cut herself.

  • Anonymous

    “Saying he looks like a lesbian isn’t an opinion, it’s just hate. Saying he’s a fag is not an opinion, it’s hate.”

    I think Justin proved the haters wrong when he started dating Selena Gomez. I wouldn’t mind looking like Justin if it would get me a beauty like Selena Gomez.

    “Heh Heh i didn’t knew you were a man. Ugh. Fucking perv.”

    You’re an idiot who understands very little about society.

  • Anonymous

    “Saying he looks like a lesbian isn’t an opinion, it’s just hate. Saying he’s a fag is not an opinion, it’s hate.”

    I think Justin proved the haters wrong when he started dating Selena Gomez. I wouldn’t mind looking like Justin if it would get me a beauty like Selena Gomez.

    “Heh Heh i didn’t knew you were a man. Ugh. Fucking perv.”

    Which part don’t you understand, idiot? You need to be attractive in order to get attractive people to date you. I’m just giving Justin the respect he deserves.

  • Anonymous

    “Saying he looks like a lesbian isn’t an opinion, it’s just hate. Saying he’s a fag is not an opinion, it’s hate.”

    I think Justin proved the haters wrong when he started dating Selena Gomez. I wouldn’t mind looking like Justin if it would get me a beauty like Selena Gomez.

    “Heh Heh i didn’t knew you were a man. Ugh. Fucking perv.”

    I came here for Demi. This page was put in her category too. But then there was all this talk about Justin, so I joined in. To be honest, if I could be a different guy, I think I’d want to be Wilmer Valderrama, so that I could get Demi. :-)

  • Anonymous

    Anonymous said:

    “Saying he looks like a lesbian isn’t an opinion, it’s just hate. Saying he’s a fag is not an opinion, it’s hate.”

    I think Justin proved the haters wrong when he started dating Selena Gomez. I wouldn’t mind looking like Justin if it would get me a beauty like Selena Gomez.

    Heh Heh i didn’t knew you were a man. Ugh. Fucking perv.

  • Anonymous

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    This whole comment is basic which makes the person that typed it even more basic than basic can get. So how about you take some of your own words

    and STFU yourself.

    _____

    Annnnnnnnd your a basic bitch aswell,sit down;)

  • Anonymous

    Annnnnnnnd your a basic bitch aswell,sit down;)
    _____

    BORING. LOL. :)

  • Fixed it.

    *Annnnnnnnd I’m a basic bitch aswell, so I’ll sit down;)

    Fixed it for you.

  • barbiescunt

    OR they’re just defending themselves. We ALL have the ability to block out the bullshit, not just celebs. Justin and Demi have every right to defend themselves, it’s got nothing to do with being loved. It’s just teaching bitches respect.

  • Anonymous

    hail the king

  • mouse

    You’re going to have hate in your life period at least celebrities have money and the support from millions of people that regular people sometimes don’t have. I think with all the “love” they get from fans they’ll be a little more appreciative and alot less whiney. But I guess “they’re people too” applies to this.

  • Anonymous

    fuck demi lovato. she’s a conceited ass bitch

  • Anonymous

    demi and taylor swift have THE BIGGEST EGO out of all the teen stars ugh can’t stand them anymore

  • Anonymous

    ew demi…… loser needs all the attention she gets so she has to call out her haters. HA whatta pathetic loser. go cut urself again

  • Anonymous

    ew demi…… loser needs all the attention she gets so she has to call out her haters. HA whatta pathetic loser. go cut urself again

  • Anonymous

    ew demi…… loser needs all the attention she gets so she has to call out her haters. HA whatta pathetic loser. go cut urself again

  • Anonymous

    ew demi…… loser needs all the attention she gets so she has to call out her haters. HA whatta pathetic loser. go cut urself again

  • Anonymous

    Aguggu gaga