Demi Would Have Died W/O Fan Support

Demi Would Have Died W/O Fan Support

Fans supporting Demi Lovato saved her from dying.

Demi Would Have Died W/O Fan Support




113 comments:

Speaking Hypothetically said:

"Demi Would Have Died W/O Fan Support"

Dramatic much or..

Anonymous said:

That's kinda sad, and not in the way that most people think. She's basically saying that she would've died if she didn't become famous. She wouldn't have fans if she didn't become famous.

Anonymous said:

Fans are not friends. They're worshipers, and Demi is their false god. Demi imagined herself through her own recovery, because she loves to be the center of attention. She's a nice girl, but this whole celebrity thing is a little unhealthy for everyone involved.

Anonymous said:

Wow. I used to think Demi was inspirational, but she's kind of an unrealistic example of how to deal with problems in your life, because most people (in real life) don't have thousands of dollars to spend on rehab and 10 million people to encourage them through the tough times.

Anonymous said:

Wait. Wasn't the pressure of fame part of what caused her breakdown in the first place? She would never have had fans without that fame. So, basically her fans almost killed her, but then they saved her. What confusing irony that is.

Anonymous said:

Oceanup, she did NOT say that. The tittle is nor clever or humorous, it's sick.

Anonymous said:

Another ironic thing about Demi is that she's beautiful, she's young, she has a natural singing talent, and she is personable and has lots of friends. With all that going for her, you'd think she would have been happier about herself a long time ago. There are unattractive girls out there with no talent and no friends who also feel really bad about themselves.

andy said:

I love the relationship she has with her fans... you can say whatever you want,but I honestly think it is so sweet how she's always thinking of her fans (: same with bieber

Anonymous said:

I like her. But girl chill the fuck out.

skittlesqueen11 said:

stop hating. Demetria is amazing and i will forever love her. I've been a lovatic since 2008 and i'll never leave her. <3 and the eyebrow comment...LAWL

Anonymous said:

So, her overcoming her issues has nothing to do with the hard-working people at the treatment center? Of course not, cause they aren't the ones buying her records. She's been trained very well to milk this shit for all it's worth. Rihanna was brutalized & she didn't freaking milk it for 2 years. Geez.

Anonymous said:

I think Demi's real friends and family should be hurt, insulted, and offended by the suggestion that millions of strangers are more important to her than they are. Dallas and Maddie (your sisters) wouldn't have been enough to convince you to live, Demi?

Anonymous said:

Why did her fans save her!!! LOL

Demileaks.tumblr.com

Anonymous said:

Not gonna lie, Demi is really starting to get annoying. She is definitely milking this whole thing. It seems like she's getting worse though. Maybe relapsing. She's acting like a stuck up bitch.

Anonymous said:

Exactly. Demi is a genuinely sweet person, but fame seems to have negative effects on the famous. It turns them into robotic, unrealistic people. Then again...you can't say that happens to all celebrities, because some people just know how to stay themselves, even with all the attention they're getting. You know Adam Lambert? Well, I'm a fan of his because he has remained true to himself, even with all of the fans he has.

Anonymous said:

I would've died w/o that SUALM leak tbqh

anons said:

alright

anons said:

im bored

Anonymous said:

I love Demi but this is starting to get old.

Anonymous said:

She's just become very repetitive. She doesn't have original things to say anymore.

Anonymous said:

"Oceanup, she did NOT say that. The tittle is nor clever or humorous, it's sick."

It DOES say that. Read her Tweets: "I can honestly say I wouldn't be alive today had I not..had the support that you all gave me the past 2 years."

"wouldn't be alive" means "would have died"

Anonymous said:

"I love the relationship she has with her fans"

You can't have a "relationship" with 10 million people.

Anonymous said:

What does "Lovatic" mean again? Is it "Lovato addict" or "Lovato lunatic" ?

Anonymous said:

"Not gonna lie, Demi is really starting to get annoying. She is definitely milking this whole thing. It seems like she's getting worse though. Maybe relapsing. She's acting like a stuck up bitch."

Her breakdown was caused by the pressure to be thin. She may be getting a little full of herself lately, but she also has now accepted her beautiful round body, so she should be more stable now.

anons said:

k

PlasticLovato said:

how nice for her to say.

Anonymous said:

Oh please. Demi is obnoxious. There are millions of girls out there who cannot afford to get treatment at rehab or have a legion of obsessive fans. I hate how Demi keeps milking this because there are many people worse off than she is/was, but she acts like she's been through the worst. What a joke. I'm tired of hearing about her personal problems. She needs to deal with them privately. If she had the talent to survive in this industry then she wouldn't need to talk about her "bullying" 24-7. Anyways, she needs to be fired from the X Factor. She's the worst judge/mentor in talent show history, a complete disgrace.

Anonymous said:

I think when Demi goes home at night she gets lonely and depressed -- remember, she's admitted to having bipolar disorder -- and she gets on Twitter as a way of dealing with it.

PlasticLovato said:

Anonymous said: Oh please. Demi is obnoxious. There are millions of girls out there who cannot afford to get treatment at rehab or have a legion of obsessive fans. I hate how Demi keeps milking this because there are many people worse off than she is/was, but she acts like she's been through the worst. What a joke. I'm tired of hearing about her personal problems. She needs to deal with them privately. If she had the talent to survive in this industry then she wouldn't need to talk about her "bullying" 24-7. Anyways, she needs to be fired from the X Factor. She's the worst judge/mentor in talent show history, a complete disgrace.
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but many of people would love to hear her story i'm sure , many say they have been better because of Demi , she's honestly a fablous rolemodel , i don't know any other celeb like her. There's no other celeb to share their story to fans , though she may talk about it a lot it's still great to know she's healthy because she is a very young girl still.

Anonymous said:

This is coming from a person who suffered from depression. When her story first came out about Rehab, the cocaine usage, the alcohol... she became a phony in my eyes. I don't like celebrities who put out holy false images of themselves. It's wrong. I used to look up to her when she was still that rocker chick who stood out from the pack. Many celebrities share stories with their fans. I honestly don't think its their job to do so. I'm more affected by films and music that show glimmers of hope for society rather than a drug addicted celebrity. She's not perfect and chances are it could happen again.

Anonymous said:

If Demi is such a role model, she should stop dancing around like a slut on stage and singing about being a slut in her songs, which encourages girls to go out and have sex. Being a slut may be fun and all, I'll admit, but eventually it will get you Herpes, a baby, and low self-esteem which aren't so much fun. "Who's that boy? Who's that boy?"

Anonymous said:

Demi was inspirational in many interviews she's done over the past 2 years, which anyone can look up on YouTube. You can also still find her "Stay Strong" special on MTV's Web site.

Anonymous said:

"When her story first came out about Rehab, the cocaine usage, the alcohol... she became a phony in my eyes."

But she was a phony in her own eyes too. She explained that's why she used to cut herself, because she hated herself so much.

Anonymous said:

I get why people here are saying that she's craving attention and stuff, because she is. I've even said it. What I don't get is why some people are calling her a slut. That is the one thing that there's no proof for. Her songs may be a little...echm...riskee...but there's no proof that she's a sex addict in real life.

Anonymous said:

a low self esteem doesnt come from being a slut but it leads to becoming one sometimes.

a glimmer of hope is exactly what's the point of her story. giving others the hope to get better too.

to those who say "not everyone can afford to get treatment" well blame your government. in the EU the medical system cares for getting you into rehab for free and the same will happen in the USA thanks to obama. a great thing.

that she thanks her fans doesnt mean that her friends and family are not important to her. she just won't thank them on twitter but in private.

if she's annoying you so much, why read it to begin with?

Anonymous said:

She's the worst judge/mentor in talent show history, a complete disgrace.
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Britney tho

Anonymous said:

(replying to this) - Nov 20, 2012 @ 06:24 pm
Anonymous said:
If Demi is such a role model, she should stop dancing around like a slut on stage and singing about being a slut in her songs, which encourages girls to go out and have sex. Being a slut may be fun and all, I'll admit, but eventually it will get you Herpes, a baby, and low self-esteem which aren't so much fun. "Who's that boy? Who's that boy?"

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This comment made me lol and the who's that boy part made me fall on the floor and die of a laugh attack

Anonymous said:

Nah, Britney is much better. She's a more reserved judge, but she actually mentors her contestants behind the scenes. The first week was bad, but she listened and made necessary changes.

Anonymous said:

Hi Demi, it's "they're" thankful not "their" thankful.

Anonymous said:

Cece has absolutely no control over her voice. Her voice is all over the place.

Anonymous said:

I RECOMMEND THIS

Demileaks.tumblr.com

IT REVEALS THE TRUE SIDE OF HERS

Anonymous said:

Nov 20, 2012 @ 04:14 pm
Anonymous said:
Wow. I used to think Demi was inspirational, but she's kind of an unrealistic example of how to deal with problems in your life, because most people (in real life) don't have thousands of dollars to spend on rehab and 10 million people to encourage them through the tough times.

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This. Preach, girl.

NarrySex said:

i was so sick of demi saying the same story over and over again,but this is new and is so sad.
her inner beauty makes her outer beauty show more.

NarrySex said:

Demi died for oceanup's sins

Anonymous said:

"What I don't get is why some people are calling her a slut."

Would you prefer the term "slutty"? Being slutty isn't as bad as being an outright slut, but it's still not that great. I like Demi best when she wears modest clothing and doesn't dance around provocatively, but she can't seem to make up her mind. I mean, at least with someone like Lady GaGa, you just expect her to be slutty. With Demi, it's like two different personalities.

Anonymous said:

"if she's annoying you so much, why read it to begin with?"

All the people annoyed by Demi have crushes on her and are frustrated that they can't have her because she's famous and unreachable.

Anonymous said:

I wish Demi would get married to someone stable and committed to her so she'd have someone real in her life to fill the hole she's desperately trying to fill with millions of anonymous fans, and late at night she wouldn't get lonely anymore because that guy would be there for her.

NarrySex said:

i think people think shes a slut because she dated wilmer when she was 17 and he was 30

aslo at a party in texas people said she did cocaine and had sex wth a random guy and slept around alot

Anonymous said:

"Demi died for oceanup's sins"

Does anyone else notice the parallel between Demi and Jesus? She was crucified (bullied), died (punched her friend in the face and went to rehab), but then she rose again (released her "Unbroken" album, did lots of interviews, and is now on "X Factor"). Demi is a cult leader, and her followers are her "Lovatics". I just hope they don't drink poison-laced Kool-Aid like the people of Jonestown in 1978.

Anonymous said:

Nov 20, 2012 @ 08:05 pm
Anonymous said:

"Demi died for oceanup's sins"

Does anyone else notice the parallel between Demi and Jesus? She was crucified (bullied), died (punched her friend in the face and went to rehab), but then she rose again (released her "Unbroken" album, did lots of interviews, and is now on "X Factor"). Demi is a cult leader, and her followers are her "Lovatics". I just hope they don't drink poison-laced Kool-Aid like the people of Jonestown in 1978.
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OMG RIGHT NOW. HAHAHAHHAHAHAH I CANT EVEN HANDLE.

Anonymous said:

I'm sick of people calling Demi fake. She isn't fake. She just has mood swings.

Anonymous said:

Speaking Hypothetically said: "Demi Would Have Died W/O Fan Support"

Dramatic much or..

My thoughts exactly!

Anonymous said:

a low self esteem doesnt come from being a slut

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Who lied to you though.

Anonymous said:

Anonymous said:
I'm sick of people calling Demi fake. She isn't fake. She just has mood swings.

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Mood swings change your personality momentarily but you are who you are regardless. Demi is STILL off her rocker or just haven't yet found herself and that's OK but until she does maybe she should jump off the bandwagon of advice and her motivational bullshit.

Anonymous said:

Does anyone else notice the parallel between Demi and Jesus? She was crucified (bullied), died (punched her friend in the face and went to rehab), but then she rose again (released her "Unbroken" album, did lots of interviews, and is now on "X Factor"). Demi is a cult leader, and her followers are her "Lovatics". I just hope they don't drink poison-laced Kool-Aid like the people of Jonestown in 1978.
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She not even that special.

Anonymous said:

omg dramatic, much? why is she constantly bringing old shit up? i thought she wanted to move on! so stop reminding everyone how crazy you used to be demi. btw you shouldn't be relying on support from strangers, more like your friends and family!

i used to like demi and i still think shes a beautiful and talented girl but she seems so desperate for attention. just give it a break

Anonymous said:

when she got famous her condition worsened so she needed support to get through it and if she didnt get famous maybe she would have never started cutting and stuff again...

Anonymous said:

"a low self esteem doesnt come from being a slut"

Umm, yeah it does. Once the drug high of sex wears off, you realize that you just let someone use your body like a toy, but that person leaves you alone, and you feel longing and emptiness because you want something real, but it's not there. Sex is only good when there's love and commitment behind it.

Anonymous said:

"Mood swings change your personality momentarily but you are who you are regardless. Demi is STILL off her rocker or just haven't yet found herself and that's OK but until she does maybe she should jump off the bandwagon of advice and her motivational bullshit."

I know, but I feel for Demi, because I think part of dealing with her own issues is trying to have a positive impact on the world. But Twitter is a bad habit. She needs a real blog, like Wordpress.

Anonymous said:

"Does anyone else notice the parallel between Demi and Jesus?"

"She not even that special."

I've been wondering for a while why she has mentally-unbalanced fans ("Lovatics") named after her. Does anyone else find that disturbing? I mean, what other pop stars have fans named after them? It's creepy and so very arrogant.

Anonymous said:

I've been wondering for a while why she has mentally-unbalanced fans ("Lovatics") named after her. Does anyone else find that disturbing? I mean, what other pop stars have fans named after them? It's creepy and so very arrogant.

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Selenators.. Just as fucking crazy.

Anonymous said:

She said she wasn't going to date for a year so that she could find herself. I don't know if Tweeting to your obsessive fans while you imagine how much they love and adore you counts as finding yourself. Normally, when people find themselves they go off and live in relative isolation. They don't show up on national prime-time TV shows ("X Factor") either.

Anonymous said:

I still don't agree because you only let him use your body because you already had a low self esteem before and need people to confirm that you can have them.

I also don't think sex has to be connected to love but I know that's a matter of opinion. as long as both persons know that it's not about love, it can be good. not saying anyone should sleep around

oceanUP said:

im' crying narry sex and anons are cool1

PlasticLovato said:

geez everyone is making a big deal about demi's tweets , just be happy enough she's fine and she's happy that she has true fans that will always stick with her. She's not selffish and doesn't promote herself on her twitter instead of tweeting to fans.

Anonymous said:

Demi is a liar. I know for a fact!! she was never suicidal.This annoys me to no end. Why is she lying!? to get fans attention! say whattt Demi :/. don't ask me how i know.

Anonymous said:

"I still don't agree because you only let him use your body because you already had a low self esteem before and need people to confirm that you can have them.

I also don't think sex has to be connected to love but I know that's a matter of opinion. as long as both persons know that it's not about love, it can be good. not saying anyone should sleep around"

People with low self-esteem might have sex to try to make themselves feel better, but it only results in even more low self-esteem because the act is so meaningless and emotionally empty. They're eventually left feeling unsatisfied, and if they don't then they are sociopaths. Only a cold, unfeeling sociopath would think that sex has no connection to love.

Anonymous said:

"ust be happy enough she's fine and she's happy that she has true fans that will always stick with her."

Her fans won't necessarily stick with her forever. She's just a celebrity. What happens when her popularity fades? Besides, it's pretty pathetic when someone needs 10 million people to prop up her self-esteem. Her song, "Skyscraper", is beginning to sound weak now that we know she really wasn't able to overcome her problems by herself. I want people like Demi to be happy but not in this artificial, inflated way.

Anonymous said:

"Demi is a liar. I know for a fact!! she was never suicidal."

It's kind of hard to interpret someone's inner emotional state. I mean, she never outright attempted suicide, obviously, but I believe she had bouts of severe depression while cutting herself.

Anonymous said:

Let's get to the heart of the sex thing. Would you want your girlfriend, sister, or mother doing sexy dances on stage? No. Well, Demi is someone's sister and could eventually be someone's girlfriend or mother. It's disrespectful to treat women as public sex objects. The world as we know it is corrupt and spiritually bankrupt.

Anonymous said:

"only let him use your body"

Were you raped or molested at some point? Because that sounds like a rationalization for rape or molestation, like you feel so offended that you try to disassociate your body from yourself. No, it's NOT okay when someone USES your body for sex!

Anonymous said:

^^Damn straight, it's called low self esteem. Your esteem isn't high enough for you to see your self worth to not allow someone to just use your body. You should be more than that.

Anonymous said:

I also don't think sex has to be connected to love

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That's so sad, I think it should be though but some if not alot of people don't believe in that. Sex is just sex with a lot of people and being in love or even married they'll tell you it doesnt change the way it feels, smh, they will tell you that though.

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Anonymous said:

Let's get to the heart of the sex thing. Would you want your girlfriend, sister, or mother doing sexy dances on stage? No. Well, Demi is someone's sister and could eventually be someone's girlfriend or mother. It's disrespectful to treat women as public sex objects. The world as we know it is corrupt and spiritually bankrupt.
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She's dating Wilmer and he doesn't seem to mind! Besides who cares if she dances 'sexily' this is 2012, not the 15th century!

Anonymous said:

I've been wondering for a while why she has mentally-unbalanced fans ("Lovatics") named after her. Does anyone else find that disturbing? I mean, what other pop stars have fans named after them? It's creepy and so very arrogant.
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Living under a rock much? Other than Selenators, you got Beliebers, Niallers Jonatics, Swifties, etc. Just sayin.

Anonymous said:

Demi is not a liar, but she has been consumed by fame. What's been annoying me to no end is her retweeting of people tweeting, "vote for Paige!" "Vote for Cece!" Even Lovatics are getting sick of it. Some of them are starting to think that Demi uses them, which I can kind of get. Especially now that she is a "judge".

Max said:

This is kind of sad actually because fans are the only ones who can help her go through her past struggles. Not family and friends.

Anonymous said:

What the hell? How can people honestly say that she is getting annoying, she went through complete hell 2 years ago and she is thanking her fans for being supportive. Do you guys not get what it is like to be bullied? It follows you for the rest of your life. Of course she is going to bring it up every once in a while, she has the right too. Why can't people just support her? All you guys are doing is tearing her down for bringing up a very serious topic. Saying she wants attention! Wow, seriously sick people on here. Grow up!

Anonymous said:

Who cares!?! She is so full of herself like she is the only one with stuff like this. And everyone else with issues like she has made it with out fan support this is just annoying.

Jack said:

I was bullied for being gay and you don't see me trying to get attention for it. It is just sick how Demi tries to get attention like she does. She is the messed up one not us!

Anonymous said:

She is nothing like Jesus and as a Catholic I am extremely offended by this.

Anonymous said:

Demi 'Must Suck To Be Born W/O A Heart'

How can someone be born without a heart? Wouldn't they die or something?

Katie said:

Why the fuck should we care about what she went through? Stop worshiping Demi like a god already!

Katie said:

Why the fuck should we care about what she went through? Stop worshiping Demi like a god already!

Anonymous said:

eplying to this) - Nov 21, 2012 @ 09:00 am
Anonymous said:

She is nothing like Jesus and as a Catholic I am extremely offended by this.
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How do you know she's not? It's the end of times and they said Jesus would resurrect.

Anonymous said:

LMAO

Anonymous said:

OMG You guys really are judgmental and have a poor spirit. Let her be. She is thanking her fans because she thought no one would take her seriously again after rehab and her fans showed her that it didn't matter and that they loved her for who she is not who she wanted to be. She's a great role model.

PlasticLovato said:

Anonymous said: OMG You guys really are judgmental and have a poor spirit. Let her be. She is thanking her fans because she thought no one would take her seriously again after rehab and her fans showed her that it didn't matter and that they loved her for who she is not who she wanted to be. She's a great role model.
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Preach it girl preach it!

Luke Skywalker said:

For the love of.. SHUT UP DEMI!

AcidPinkLemonade said:

Tired of her preaching, tbh. There is no way she's having epiphanies everyday.

Molly. said:

^ Your last sentence caught my eye.
"With Demi, it's like two different personalities." I see what you mean, but I always thought I was just making up things about her.
IMO, I think she has multiple personality disorder.
I believe she once tweeted, "I hate you, don't leave me." which is the title of a book that helps you understand borderline personality.
I don't know, or maybe I'm just reading too much into this.

Anonymous said:

I don't think she's talking about literally being suicidal. I think what she's saying is that she would have become very very sick by either starving herself or potentially overdosing on drugs, the latter of which has actually killed some celebrities.

Anonymous said:

Does Demi know that every few Tweets she sends out end up being posted on this site so that people can talk about her behind her back? Wait. She can see this. It's on the friggin Internet. Hi, Demi!

Anonymous said:

You can tell Demi is an attention whore because she's one of those girls who has like 20 different friends. I knew a girl like that in high school. They spread themselves too thin, and it's really annoying to try to have any significant interaction with them. Loners make better friends.

Anonymous said:

What's this stuff about unconditional love? She's a cute girl with a good singing voice. Who wouldn't love her? I don't think she knows what "unconditional" means. Let her stop singing and doing interviews and see if her fans are still there for her.

Anonymous said:

I'm boycotting (not watching) "X Factor" tonight. I don't want to see CeCe howl like a dog anymore, the arguments between Demi and Simon are getting old, and it's annoying to constantly see Carly Rose (who should win the whole show right now) in second place.

Anonymous said:

Loners make better friends.
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True that.

Anonymous said:

Forgive me, but all I see here is her being really thankful for her fans and meaning it. These tweets here don't look like she's begging for attention at all they're just to thank her fans for being supportive and that she loves them.Her past has been brought up a bit too much, but it can't be entirely her fault and she wanted to take advantage of her fame to help others going through the same things. It has also been brought up less but thats all people seem to see with her. And just because her fans helped her and she is thankful for that doesen't mean that she isen't thankful for friends and family as well.

Anonymous said:

Um She kind of did stop singing and doing interviews for a while. For 3 whole months in 2010. And she still had support from her fans. A lot of it!

Anonymous said:

Demi had sex with Selena.
http://thetruthaboutdemetria.tumblr.com/post/36145285066/so-demi-and-sel...

Anonymous said:

you're ignoring all the other arguments and just saying what you think

Anonymous said:

Forgive me, but all I see here is her being really thankful for her fans and meaning it.
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That's also true. I think she was being real but we all rolled our eyes cuz she was milking this rehab thing wayyy to much to believe her in all honesty. Sorry, i had to say it. Otherwise, we all would say "aww".

Anonymous said:

This pic of Demetria leaked :/
http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mdgbs1MMPV1rhy87mo1_500.jpg

Anonymous said:

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mdey6mEWGv1rhy87mo1_500.jpg
Demi’s old MySpace comments.

Anonymous said:

she's hanging out with friends...

Anonymous said:

Anonymous said:

she's hanging out with friends...
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I know. And it's ok. I just think it's odd they would leak it. http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mbj9g2ukGL1rhy87mo1_500.jpg

Anonymous said:

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mbj6ko8mmX1rhy87mo1_500.jpg
According to tumblr this pic is from Demi's sextape

Anonymous said:

this is completely off-topic. she was posting more sexual pictures while she was on tour before she went to the treatment center, and I think this is one of them

NarrySex said:

Nov 20, 2012 @ 11:30 pm
oceanUP said:
im' crying narry sex and anons are cool1
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LIFE MADE.thanks OU!

Anonymous said:

She really does love praise and worship from a crowd of people. Isn't it enough for her to just be an artist and create good music? She's way too into her fans.

Anonymous said:

never said it doesnt make things worse, but if someone has a low self esteem before, sex won't change that.
also I didnt say it has no connection to love, I said it doesn't have to be connected to love. and it doesnt feel cold and emotionally empty, the emotion involved just isnt love but passion

Anonymous said:

I never said it feels the same. it's a different kind of sex and feels completly different. it just isn't a bad feeling without love aswell. as long as you really want it and he's not the 79th guy you feel that way about(you should get help if it is) why not go for it. of course only if both people involved are single!