Harry Told ‘Don’t Retaliate’ Against Taylor

One Direction bandmates have warned Harry Styles not to respond to Taylor Swift’s Grammy performance taunt. Source told Radar: ‘The lads have told Harry to forget about retaliating, because it’s just not worth it. They’ve all advised him to be the bigger person and not to wash his dirty laundry in public, it’s just tacky and embarrassing.

With the media circus that surrounded Harry and Taylor when they were together, the boys were a little miffed that it distracted fans from the band and what they were all about. Of course, when it didn’t work out, there was a sense of relief because they knew that, along with Harry, they could all move on.

It’s only Taylor now that seems to clinging on to their failed relationship, and Harry has been told to keep his thoughts private. Taylor has serious trust issues, something that is being severely tested dating Harry.

Harry courts a lot of attention. He’s a big flirt and loves the ladies. Taylor doesn’t like that and finds it very difficult to trust him. She thought he was cheating on her when they were apart over the holidays so she ended it, telling him she couldn’t be in a relationship with someone like that.’

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  • Ijustneedyounow

    not to wash his dirty laundry in public, it’s just tacky and embarrassing.

    THIS! because that’s all the oh so classy taylor swift can do. I’m feeling second hand embarrassment -.-

  • BrokenArrow

    Not only did she say it with a British accent but what I hated was her saying I am busy opening for the Grammys!!! Immature and arrogant so really dont like her anymore. Besides who in their right mind would date someone like Harry and expect a committed relationship. She chooses the wrong guys every time.
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    is. It was arrogant and inmature and the only thing she got was people saying she was a whiny bitch.

  • SubwayToVenus

    So sick of this fake relationship and the retardedness that came with it.

  • Ijustneedyounow

    Where is Kanye when you need him!? *shakes head*

  • Anonymous

    Okayy Taylor, you opened the Grammys yeah yeah yeah, but One Direction (whose member is Harry aka your 19 year old British ex) closed for the Olympics. Where legit only legends can do. Still feeling arrogant ?

  • Anonymous

    ^ lol!!!!

  • duckyhoward15

    When I said she si a kid her fans started to hate on me but now everyoen knows that she is immature just like a KID ;)tbh I wish one day one of her exes will talk about her just like she talks about her exes .

  • Anonymous

    Anonymous said:

    Okayy Taylor, you opened the Grammys yeah yeah yeah, but One Direction (whose member is Harry aka your 19 year old British ex) closed for the Olympics. Where legit only legends can do. Still feeling arrogant ?

    Whoa, that’s actually a very good point.
    Haha oop, Taylor!.

  • duckyhoward15

    Good point <3

  • duckyhoward15

    Why not milk it if they can ;)

  • Anonymous

    let’s stay classy at the grammys.
    lol not.

    (love the above^ comment.

  • Anonymous

    Yeah I’d say Olympics triumphs the Grammys as far as performances goes.

  • Anonymous

    She’s so fucking immature. Didn’t they date for like a month? She herself has said that she’s never been in a long term relationship. I wonder why. The whole point of falling in love is to eventually let your guard down and take chances.

  • Anonymous

    Most of her other boyfriends haven’t aired their dirty laundry in public. Wish they did. Maybe a taste of her own medicine would get her to stop. Being 23 and all, it’s about time you act your age when it comes to ‘calling people out’.

  • Anonymous

    ever think they just let them perform for ratings? or how when they performed they weren’t shown for very long. “still feeling arrogant”

  • Anonymous

    OMFG this sht is irritating! I love how everyone is always accusing Taylor of acting like the victim…. how on earth can she act like a victim when people are jumping down her throat saying all this stuff about her. If anything the media and the Directioners are making Harry out to be the victim. Haylor is over…. Everyone please move the fck on! If you’re a Directioners focus on One Direction and leave Taylor to her business. If you’re a Swiftie, leave Harry alone and just enjoy Tay. Is it really that hard for people to understand that you are just keeping their names in the tabloids longer than is necessary, honesty…. people are pathetic.

  • Anonymous

    i hope she doesn’t try and go for ed. he’s too good of a person for her.

  • Anonymous

    It makes me laugh when people say Taylor is becoming a bad role model…. Uhm when was One Direction ever good role models? (Okay maybe not all of them are bad). They talk about drinking, they go to clubs and get lap dances and sleep with tons of women. Woah if that’s not a role model then I don’t know what is? At least all Taylor does is write songs about ex’s.

  • Anonymous

    It makes me laugh when people say Taylor is becoming a bad role model…. Uhm when was One Direction ever good role models? (Okay maybe not all of them are bad). They talk about drinking, they go to clubs and get lap dances and sleep with tons of women. Woah if that’s not a role model then I don’t know what is? At least all Taylor does is write songs about ex’s.

    Despise 1D. But also, Taylor is not being very good in the sense that she’s reflecting a catty, rude behavior to girls. Especially girls in school, I mean honestly, bullying is bad enough as it is. We don’t need call outs and other hurtful things being present in schools.

  • Anonymous

    I just honestly don’t define songs like this as real music guys. Honestly. I feel like Red has honestly been a huge step up from her previous albums. I don’t care if you guys say that she has songs that aren’t about guys.

    Red seemed like a genuine song, that’s what she should stick with. Not trashing people, and airing out laundry. That’s what deeper artists are all about. It’s not about trashing anyone… it’s REALLY about your feelings.

  • Anonymous

    When Taylor has an emotional breakdown from all the stress of what people are saying about her I hope everyone who’s ever said anything nasty about her feels awful. You people think you can tear celebrities down because they are famous? If Taylor was a normal girl she probably wouldn’t get any of the hate she does from you messed up people.

  • Anonymous

    I agree but why does everyone assume she’s being catty. I listened to her Grammy performance and all I heard was a generic guy voice. I think people hate her so much they just hear what they want to so they can hate her more

  • Anonymous

    Isn’t she like 23 or something? Lol calling exes out is something a 17 year old would do.

  • Anonymous

    I agree but how do we know she is being rude? I watched her Grammy performance and all I heard was a generic guy voice. I think people hate her so much they are just hearing what they want to hear so they can hate her more.

  • Anonymous

    When Taylor has an emotional breakdown from all the stress of what people are saying about her I hope everyone who’s ever said anything nasty about her feels awful. You people think you can tear celebrities down because they are famous? If Taylor was a normal girl she probably wouldn’t get any of the hate she does from you messed up people.

    Does she EVER feel sorry about saying bad about OTHERS? Maybe if SHE stopped first, no one would say anything.

  • Anonymous

    I agree but how do we know she is being rude? I watched her Grammy performance and all I heard was a generic guy voice. I think people hate her so much they are just hearing what they want to hear so they can hate her more.

  • Anonymous

    When you’re 23 – you’re done a bachelors in university, maybe even a Masters (graduate program). You’re probably on a job, and earning a salary, living in a place of your own. Being bitchy, commenting on other people – that is a thing that girls in junior high and high school do. It even stops in the first year of undergrad.

    Now do you guys see how Taylor Swift’s actions do not equate to her age? Just have any other 23 year old’s interview compared to Taylor’s interview. Hell some might even be in MEDICAL school at her age.

  • Anonymous

    I love taylor and am not a 1D fan, but I wish she hadn’t done that. Maybe she had a lapse in judgement, but I thought she would be above this.

  • Anonymous

    “If Taylor was a normal girl she probably wouldn’t get any of the hate she does from you messed up people.”

    Yeah… she’d get hate from the social circle of other people her age that she’d surround herself with.

  • Anonymous

    A lot of the people justifying her actions have yet to graduate from high school and see the attitude’s of people above the age of 20.

  • Anonymous

    She’s an ugly person on the inside… :/
    It’s a shame.

  • Anonymous

    I’m in college and I defended Taylor (:

  • Anonymous

    I think a lot of you teens would be shocked at how things don’t really change that much when you’re older. Relationships mean more and you fuck. Drama stays. Good luck in the world lol.

  • Anonymous

    I think a lot of you teens would be shocked at how things don’t really change that much when you’re older. Relationships mean more and you fuck. Drama stays. Good luck in the world lol.

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    debatable. I’m in college, and I do agree about the ‘relationships mean more and you fuck’, but I have seen a lot of relationships come and go. I’ve seen disputes among friends, but they get resolved quietly and maturely. At least in my experience. I have yet to hear any calling out and teaming up to corner in one person.

  • Anonymous

    She’s so immature ..

  • Anonymous

    What exactly did she say?

  • Anonymous

    POST ABOUT HOW SHE DIDN’T GAVE AN OVATION TO CARRIE UNDERWOOD LIKE THE REST, OU.
    http://img35.imageshack.us/img35/9351/vlcsnap2013021201h01m10.png

  • Anonymous

    lloll

  • Anonymous

    The 80s called, they want their lame joke back.

  • seriously

    The simple fact is she is doing exactly what she did when she started. She’s writing songs about her life but now just because people in her life are famous it makes it wrong?
    And all the talk about her, hate or not, is making her a popular topic and only helping her out.
    And she must not be doing too bad if she is getting sold out arenas on her upcoming tour.

  • Anonymous

    not really.
    It’s just like when ‘directioners’ stick up for niall.
    nobody is intimidated by children behind a computer screen, just annoyed by them

  • Ijustneedyounow

    Feb 12, 2013 @ 02:23 pm
    Anonymous said:

    When Taylor has an emotional breakdown from all the stress of what people are saying about her I hope everyone who’s ever said anything nasty about her feels awful. You people think you can tear celebrities down because they are famous? If Taylor was a normal girl she probably wouldn’t get any of the hate she does from you messed up people.
    ——
    oh please! this is not even close to the hate she caused on some of her ex’s. it’s time for her to get a taste of her own medicine, maybe that’ll make her stop

  • whatsource

    that’s such bullshit. first of all, whole relationship: still think it was a halfassed publicity stunt. Second of all, what source? that’s so not true. Harry’s bandmates don’t NEED to tell him not to retaliate because i’ve NEVER heard that boy say anything bad about ANYONE. HE WOULD NEVER DO THAT. He seems like such a genuinely sweet person. and even if taylor thinks its important for the world to know all about her problems, i don’t think he’s the type to respond. He RESPECTS his past girlfriends, ok?

  • duckyhoward15

    Sure he won’t say anything but the source said the boys told him to ignroe it probably to help him ignoring the hate cos you know how he feels about hate and things like that :/

  • duckyhoward15

    The problemw as that she did it in grammy’s this time babe, anyway she will forever stay immature little KID

  • Anonymous

    just forget the Swift bitch

  • Anonymous

    Your mother is a bitch.

  • Anonymous

    Anonymous said:

    EVERYONE TALKING SHIT ON TAYLOR IS A FUCKING PIECE OF SHIT! YOU ALL NEED TO DIE!

    omg. The ‘sweet Swifties’ gone cray O.o

  • Anonymous

    1- she is not so pretty
    2- she is whiny fake bitch
    3- she is immature due to her lack of education
    4- she is sick with mental problems due to her ugly life she had before fame and suddenly from being nothing to grammy winner
    5- she cant sing and her songs are boring as fuck
    6- she is a turn off truly a turn off and I’m a guy!!

  • Anonymous

    1- she is not so pretty
    2- she is whiny fake bitch
    3- she is immature due to her lack of education
    4- she is sick with mental problems due to her ugly life she had before fame and suddenly from being nothing to grammy winner
    5- she cant sing and her songs are boring as fuck
    6- she is a turn off truly a turn off and I’m a guy!!

  • Anonymous

    We are never….etc song is a really stupid song thank god she didnt win The song sound like smth written by disney writters and sing by Hannah montana not even miley cyrus herself What is so good about her ppl??? No beauty no talent just a whore dating and dumping guys and yes its the boy’s fault every fucking time ohhh victim taylor

  • Live.Love.Learn.

    “it’s just tacky and embarrassing.”

    Keep it classy folks.

  • Anonymous

    taylor is and HAS ALWAYS been cray cray. people just were distracted by her cute blonde curls and sparkly dresses.

  • Anonymous

    Taylor should stop being a middle schooler and grow up. If Taylor really broke up with Harry then she wouldn’t be acting like this. So harry must have broken up with her. At least it shows that Harry was raised with class and manners unlike Taylor in the country like a hillbilly. #SorryNotSorry

  • _Pink_ Poison_

    Taylor, middle school called, they want their drama back

  • Anonymous

    What a bitch. She is just fueling all of the hate about her now. Ignorant.

  • Anonymous

    I love her, but she shouldn’t have done what she did on the grammys. Luckily most people are on harry’s side because everyone sees how immature it was and how it wasn’t the time and place to say something. I just hope she realizes that this is hurting her rep more than his and dissing ex bfs on live tv is pretty messed up.
    Like I said I am a big taylor swift fan, but I also like one direction and most fans know harry isn’t the guy he is portrayed to be. Ed sheeran even said that.

  • Anonymous

    Not only did she say it with a British accent but what I hated was her saying I am busy opening for the Grammys!!! Immature and arrogant so really dont like her anymore. Besides who in their right mind would date someone like Harry and expect a committed relationship. She chooses the wrong guys every time.

  • Anonymous

    So along with Harry being more mature then her, the 4 others boys are also more mature. Not looking too good for Taylor right now.

  • Anonymous

    Taylor Swift, it’s time to take a seat – cause even your die hard fans are starting to feel second hand embarrassment for you. Grow up.

  • Anonymous

    She is honestly so immature I use to be a fan of Taylor but she needs to grow up and get over herself. She is 23 and acts like a 13 year old. They dated for barely 2 months and honestly probably weren’t that serious, except Taylor is so crazy she probably thought she was engaged. She is the only one who still obsessed over this relationship and what she did at the Grammys was SO immature! Harry is already seen by the press as this bad boy womanizer (when in reality he’s not) and for her to do something stupid like that is just low and unnecessary. It would have been one thing if it was at a concert with just her fans but she did it in front of industry peers and thats just unnecessary. She is really just bat shit crazy or soaking up for publicity or both. When really at the end of the day she looks like an obsessive fool and even her fans (like me) are getting tired of this shit. I’m 17 years old and I know how to handle a breakup better than her. Taylor. GROW. UP.

  • Anonymous

    Damn it, I wish he would. I see who the real mature one is here. I’m not a 1D fan but I can’t stand granny swift. She needs a taste of her own medicine, that bitch.

  • Anonymous

    Mainly, what I mean to say is disputes get resolved between the two people they occurred between. No one else interferes.

  • Anonymous

    oh, you’re lucky, my college is a mess then lol. So much drama, everyone’s up each other’s asses all the time. Yuck.

  • Anonymous

    i really used to love her a lot but she is now bugging me. i feel like she doesnt sing live anymore. Im 19 and i have more class than her at time
    i feel sorry for harry having to go out with her :/

  • Anonymous

    LOL as if Harry had no choice. They both used each other. Equals.

  • Anonymous

    I think she’s mad at him cause he didn’t hold up his end of the contract.

  • Anonymous

    She also shade Carrie Underwood!
    Everybody gave her a stand up ovation and she didn’t. Seems like she doesn’t get along with her indeed.
    http://img35.imageshack.us/img35/9351/vlcsnap2013021201h01m10.png

  • Anonymous

    LOL at the fact that what she said was about Jake Gyhlenhaal. he has an accent too. and you all are saying that taylor portrayed harry as the bad guy, but last I remember, there isn’t even a song written about him yet.

  • Anonymous

    TAYLOR SWIFT HATERS ARE ASSHOLES!

  • Anonymous

    SHE’S A FUCKING TWO BIT WHORE!!!

  • Anonymous

    After all Caroline Flack was right “Harry is very mature for his age”
    Taylor you are 23 get over it and buy a puppy, that’s the kind of love you need.

  • Anonymous

    EVERYONE TALKING SHIT ON TAYLOR IS A FUCKING PIECE OF SHIT! YOU ALL NEED TO DIE!