Taylor Swift chatted with GLAMOUR about her dating rules including a ‘freeze-out. You don’t respond to any of his texts or calls until he does something desperate [like] shows up. Or he calls and leaves a voice mail. Something that makes it very clear to you that he’s interested.’
I think everyone should approach relationships from the perspective of playing it straight and giving someone the benefit of the doubt. Until he establishes that this is a game. And if it’s a game, you need to win. The best thing to do is just walk away from the table.’
It’s more of a screening process to see how much the guy likes you, adding that she wins if they come back, but ‘if they don’t, then they didn’t care enough to begin with. Guarding your heart and protecting your dignity are a little bit more important than clarifying the emotions of someone who’s only texting you back three words.
I’ve learned that from trying to figure out people who don’t deserve to be figured out. When someone seems mysterious, we like to romanticize that he’s ‘deep’ or ‘complicated.’ But a lot of the time, things are exactly as they seem. For a long time I was drawn to, and still am drawn to, people I find very interesting.
Tonight’s surprise guest at the O2: Danny O’Donoghue from The Script singing ‘Breakeven’. The crowd went absolutely insane!! #redtourlondon: Taylor Swift. Watch video under!
[But] someone who sits and talks about themselves for an hour, you start to maybe wonder if, rather than trying so hard to be interesting, they could be a little bit more interested.. Silence speaks so much louder than screaming tantrums. Never give anyone an excuse to say that you’re crazy.’