Swift ‘If Guy Plays Game You Must Win’

taylor-swift-no-regreats (4)Taylor Swift chatted with GLAMOUR about her dating rules including a ‘freeze-out. You don’t respond to any of his texts or calls until he does something desperate [like] shows up. Or he calls and leaves a voice mail. Something that makes it very clear to you that he’s interested.’

I think everyone should approach relationships from the perspective of playing it straight and giving someone the benefit of the doubt. Until he establishes that this is a game. And if it’s a game, you need to win. The best thing to do is just walk away from the table.’

It’s more of a screening process to see how much the guy likes you, adding that she wins if they come back, but ‘if they don’t, then they didn’t care enough to begin with. Guarding your heart and protecting your dignity are a little bit more important than clarifying the emotions of someone who’s only texting you back three words.

I’ve learned that from trying to figure out people who don’t deserve to be figured out. When someone seems mysterious, we like to romanticize that he’s ‘deep’ or ‘complicated.’ But a lot of the time, things are exactly as they seem. For a long time I was drawn to, and still am drawn to, people I find very interesting.

Tonight’s surprise guest at the O2: Danny O’Donoghue from The Script singing ‘Breakeven’. The crowd went absolutely insane!! #redtourlondon: Taylor Swift. Watch video under!

[But] someone who sits and talks about themselves for an hour, you start to maybe wonder if, rather than trying so hard to be interesting, they could be a little bit more interested.. Silence speaks so much louder than screaming tantrums. Never give anyone an excuse to say that you’re crazy.’

  • boystan

    drag them bitch

  • blah

    taylor swift giving you relationship advice based on her failed relationships with 18 year olds

    brought to you by meredith

  • kdfkld

    She is the last person I’d take relationship advice from. Every guy she’s been with has gotten fed up and ditched her.

    • AlarTruve

      She dumped Harry according to his friend. Good for her.

  • heather

    But why would you ever take relationship advice from taylor swift?

    • HolyGround

      Because I like her a lot and would use that as an excuse to get close to her and stare at her face

  • vanessa

    i just want to say that she is really beautiful and……..
    she got a point there

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  • xo

    She doesn’t really win games, she loses. Because all the guys she seems to date dump her.. or at least every song on every album she has seems to make if feel like they dumped her.

    • HolyGround

      Falseee. She has way more songs about happy love than she has about breakups. And I will name you at least 12 songs that have nothing to do with love at all. Thats more than any other big artist out there, and she writes them herself too. Don’t even try it.

      • xo

        Yeahhh.. about that. I can’t really think of one song about a guy that she had a long lasting relationship with (more than 2 months) …..so

        • HolyGround

          That literally means nothing? You claimed that “every song on every album she has seems to make it feel like they dumped her.” Which is very false because I can name you at least 12 songs from every album she has that have nothing to do with boys at all. (By the way her and Taylor L dated for like 6 months and Back to December is about him you’re wrong again sorry) …..so

        • Anon

          you do know that her relationship with jake was 9 months long.

    • kat

      Hmmm no. If you actually listen to the songs she leaves them most of the time. She left John Mayer in “Dear John”, she ended it with Taylor Lautner, hence “Back to December”, and she was the last one to end it with Jake Gylenhaal, in “We are never…”

      • xo

        that requires me to actually listen to her songs though.. so hmmm no.

        • HolyGround

          (then don’t comment about her songs in the first place you look very stupid)

  • Draggin The Bitches

    Dear xo, kdfkld, and ‘blah’
    SHE dumped Taylor
    SHE dumped John
    SHE dumped Jake
    SHE dumped Harry
    The only guy who dumped HER was Joe.
    Conor and her agreed to break up so it was mutual.
    Jake kept coming back to her so basically..
    She wins.
    The end.

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