Swift Gave Virginity To Gyllenhaal

taylor-jake-virginityTaylor Swift gave her virginity to Jake Gyllenhaal and he bailed on her 21st birthday party, leaving the singer locked in a bathroom crying, reports Radar Online. Taylor had ‘saving herself for marriage’ but after three months of dating Jake, he convinced her to have sex.

Source: ‘She thought she was going to marry Jake, that’s how in love she was with him.’ Shortly after they began having sex, Taylor threw a 21st birthday party for herself in Dec. 2010 at her family’s estate in Nashville, Tenn. and Jake was supposed to come.

The day before, all was set, he was coming, no issues. But the day of, she doesn’t hear from him at all. No texts, no calls. Taylor thought maybe he was planning some sort of surprise. Nope. He didn’t show up and she locked herself in the bathroom and cried the entire night.’

Taylor penned nearly an entire album about her heartbreak over Gyllenhaal: ‘Her breakup with Jake inspired every word of RED. The song that specifically references this ‘event’ is ‘The Moment I Knew.’ They lyrics are all about her birthday party and Jake not showing up.”

Some of the lyrics for the song include, ‘You should’ve been there, Should’ve burst through the door, You said you’d be here.’ Taylo describes how she was waiting in her ‘party dress’ for him to show up and admits that when he didn’t she retreated to the bathroom.

‘What do you say, When tears are streaming down your face, In front of everyone you know? ‘Swift is still ‘stuck’ on Gyllenhaal and says the relationship left her ‘damaged goods.’


  • Guest

    When are these stupid girls going to relize that movie and music stars who have countless women throwing themselves at them aren’t going to settle down or be faithful?

    If she was so heartbroken by Jake why would she move on to a guy with an even worse reputation for womanizing with John Mayer? Did she think he was going to settle down with her?

    • Duckyhoward15

      Jake was after John babe

    • kat

      John was b4 Jake. She was single for over a year after Jake. She was 19/20 i don’t think she thought too much about them b4 she dated them other than the fact she liked them. it takes time and experience for you to learn from your mistakes and make better choices. At least in her interviews she seems to realize her intrigue with “bad boy/mysterious persona” and realizes she needs to make a change. I do think Jake manipulated her, he flew around the country with her to meet her extended family & relatives. He brought her to celebrate thanksgiving with his family. That is what people do when they’re in serious relationships. Then he practically breaks up with her on her 21st bday (by not showing up). Then he hangs out w/ Camilla Belle the girl her ex Joe left her for, and after all that he drives to Nashville and begs for her back.

      Hence the songs “the last time” and “We Are Never Ever…”

  • Teddy

    I’m pretty sure this isn’t true. I’m positive she fucked John Mayer and he was before Jake.

  • Genan

    The song ‘The Moment I knew’ is about this exact story. Well not he sex part but her party .. And he didn’t show up and she cried in the bathroom.

    • Queen Amanda Bynes

      thats probably how this mag made up the story, i believe that really happened but not the virginity part.

  • laura

    The fact that she thought he was the one she’d marry after only three months, kind of scares me..

    • Swifties 4 TayTay

      I think everyone goes into a relationship with the intention that it will be lasting. Why else would you even waste your time to be in a committed relationship if you don’t see the person as a worthwhile prospect? I think the person who wrote the article threw in the “marriage” word to portray Taylor as a crazy clingy girl.

      The media knew of their relationship for three months, they obviously spoke, met, and knew each other before that first appearance.

      • laura

        She was 21, at that age you know that the guy you are dating probably isn’t going to be the one who you’re going to marry. If you’re lucky, the relationship might last, but if you’re being realistic, you know it’s going to be a relationship that might last a few month to maybe a few years.

        • Swifties 4 TayTay

          A lot of people tend to start getting married in their mid 20’s after graduating college etc. I don’t think you get into a relationship with someone unless they have a future potential, meaning in a couple of years maybe they could potentially head in that direction. Now, if you’re casually dating, just to be in a relationship (like when you’re in middle school etc..) than I can see that as being unrealistic. People marry their high school sweethearts all of the time.

    • tbh

      my parents were married after a month…
      You being so close minded scares me

      • threelittlebirds

        are they still together? that’s pretty cool if they are.

        • tbh

          Yeah! over 20 years now :) <3

          • Vanessa

            My parents got married after seeing each other 6 times. My father was in the military and had to leave. They say they just knew. They’ve been married 34 years. Just last week I watched them have a snowball fight like two kids in love.

          • aww

            that is the cutest little story EVER ALFJADSLKFJSD

      • laura

        Good for them but I think it’s dumb. You don’t know a person after only a month and when you’re young, relationships don’t tend to last a very long time. That’s called being realistic, not close minded. Seriously, don’t ever call me close minded.

        • Jess

          I totally get what you’re saying, and I agree. But I think the person is just pointing out how in some cases (usually rare I think) falling in love quickly and getting hitched can happen, and sometimes even last. I think this def happens more often with older people (who already have established jobs, looking to settle down, etc), although its not impossible at any age. I def agree though, knowing someone for a month and knowing them for, say a year, are so different.

        • tbh

          But you are? it’s not dumb at all, you’re assuming things, they were in their 20’s when they got married and they’re still together. You’re dumb because you think EVERY 1 month old relationship/couple wouldn’t work, and that is also why i called you close minded, which again, you are. Peace.

          • laura

            I’m not assuming things, my opinion is based on psychological facts: read a book for christ’s sake. I said it was good for them that it worked out and that they’re still together but in reality most couples who start dating so young and after knowing each other for a very little time, don’t last. I didn’t say that none of them lasted, learn to read my comments before you start assuming things. In my country people just don’t get marry that soon because the majority spends at least four years at university. The ones that do get married so soon are the ones who come from underprivileged families. And can I just say that I am not looking down on those people, I am just telling you what the statistics say in my country.

          • tbh

            see, if we keep doing this it won’t end, that’s in your country, where i come from, my parents’ situation is really normal. you get married after a month or sometimes even less, and it lasts and they grow old and die together which is what i’ve seen in most cases in my life. its different in each place so i dont think a book can cover all that.

  • GG

    idk guys i think this may be true.. in all too well theres a lyric that says “..and nights when you made me your own…” and that song is about jake.

  • Queen Amanda Bynes

    Liiieess ,Listen to ‘Dear John’ and you’ll know who really took it

    • HolyGround

      Haha trueee

    • cerenagee

      haha this is everything

      • Mave

        really?? in what lyrics? jw

  • shanghai

    Sadly we all know that nearly every guy she dates is bad news. They are actors, singers, rich and famous and players. She picks the bad boys every time and then is surprised when they dont treat her well. Needs to look for a totally different sort of guy who is not famous and in the public eye but they would probably be too scared to date her.

  • Queen Amanda Bynes

    ‘The day before, all was set, he was coming, no issues. But the day of, she doesn’t hear from him at all. No texts, no calls. Taylor thought maybe he was planning some sort of surprise. Nope. He didn’t show up and she locked herself in the bathroom and cried the entire night.’

    this is fucked up, if this is true Jake is the scrum of the earth.

  • anonymous

    ‘the relationship left her ‘damaged goods.’’

    that would be true. but to be good to taylor i say this story is false

  • Mélanie

    Jake opened his eyes and decided to leave her , He realized he was a good guy and that she was a hoe , fuckin with everybody , Love Jake, he’s so talented , Taylor is pathetic .Peace

    • byhebi

      ‘a good guy’ have u seen him lately he’s been on drugs and lost so much weight and hes going down meanwhile she hasnt dated anyone in a year and he has so who’s the hoe? him. who’s the “good guy”? The one who breaks records and is happy and successful

      • Jes

        he lost weight for a movie

      • lee

        the fact that he’s willing to shed his good looks and pounds for a movie shows what a great actor he is and he’s always doing humanitarian charity. Swifties are making up all these negative points about taylor’s army of ex just so that their bitchy idol looks good in comparison.

        • um

          not really, i was just tired of people shaming the WOMAN instead of the man and i hate sexist people like you. “he’s always doing humanitarian charity” so does taylor and “making up all these negative points about taylor’s army of ex” hasnt she dated like 6 people? one of them is john mayer, i dont need to make shit about that douche, ‘my dick is a white supremacist’ nice to know you’re supporting that man.

  • HolyGround

    First of all, how the fuck would they know who she gave her virginity to? Second, since all Taylor does is go to the dance studio and hang out with her cat they gotta make up bs about a relationship from a whole 3 years ago.

    • Queen Amanda Bynes

      IKR and tay said she will never tell personal stuff like that ( only clues in songs) and she shouldnt have to.articles like this are disgusting.

      • HolyGround

        IK, like seriously I hate how they try to bring her down so much. It sucks because people really do believe this shit.

  • Diamondskyart

    How is her virginity anyone’s business?

    • anonymous

      because she’s public property?

      • threelittlebirds

        i don’t think when she signed up to be a singer, she signed up for her virginity to be exposed. that’s her own private matter.

        • anonymous

          IT WAS A JOKE

          • threelittlebirds


          • anonymous


  • Cici

    If this is true, what a piece of shit he is. But it really sounds like they took her song & dissected it for a story. But you never know about the virginity part…it is plausible..

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  • boystan
  • boystan

    who wouldn’t give him their virginity, i know i would.

  • Common sense

    I love Taylor; so I know if she did give it up to him it was because she truly loved him. Now….

    I don’t know if that’s true or not. But I do know that the song she wrote for jake “all too well” says “nights when you made me your own” so you guys guess…

    I still love ya tay tay!

  • i

    If this is true, that she gave it to him I just wanna say Im proud of her for waiting that long.

  • Zaina777

    I doubt it. She seems like the kind of girl who would wait. Jake is not the guy she would wait for neither is John…..It was someone else completely.. I highly doubt it was Joe as well.

    Actor Was Definitely Not Her First

    [Blind Gossip] We had to laugh about the reports of this pop star losing her virginity to an actor. Her first was a young former pop star. Her second was an older singer. The actor may or may not have been a very distant third.

    If this is true though then Jake is a fucking douche who just used her and didn’t deserve her.

    • um

      ‘if you want hard to get, if you want… *giggles* you just have to let me know’

      –taylor swift, your anything

    • Cici

      former pop star? hmm..Well we know it wasn’t Joe.

      • Zaina777


        The song Tim McGraw was inspired by an ex-boyfriend named Brandon Borello. Their relationship ended because he had to go to college. Taylor told USA Today, “He bought the album [Taylor Swift]
        and said he really loved it, which is sweet. His current girlfriend
        isn’t too pleased with it, though.” It was named after a musician whose
        songs she liked. He was going away to college so she wanted to write him
        something to remember her by.

        Picture to Burn was written about an unnamed ex-boyfriend, whom she calls a redneck, and says he never let her drive his pick-up truck.

        Teardrops on My Guitar
        was written about a boy she liked, whom she never actually dated. “Drew
        was a real person!” she tells. Drew was surprised when he heard his
        name in the song. “I never knew she liked me” Drew says. Taylor stated
        that two years after the song came out Drew showed up at her house and
        asked her on a date. She declined. “It was the perfect fairytale ending
        but a little too late.”

        Should’ve Said No
        was about an ex-boyfriend that cheated on her. The boyfriend’s name was
        Sam Armstrong, and, in the CD booklet, every S, A, and M was
        capitalized if it was in the correct order.

        Joe Jonas broke up with her over the phone, which is something she has complained about on Ellen DeGeneres’ Show and elsewhere. She got her record company to let her record a song about it, to add at the last minute to her album. Forever & Always is the name of that song. She also wrote Last Kiss about him and Better than Revenge is about his ex-girlfriend, Camila Belle.

        Taylor Lautner became her boyfriend after they met on set for the film Valentine’s Day.
        Their relationship was popularly known as Taylor Squared. They broke up
        in early 2010. She mentioned going to a hockey game with him during her
        October 29th 2009 appearance on The Ellen Show. According to MTV he was more into her than she was into him, he going everywhere he could to see her, but it was not working out. [1] They have apparently decided to just be friends.

        The song, Back to December
        is suspected to be about Taylor Lautner. The song is an apology to him.
        Some of the lyrics go…” Your guard is up and I know why. Because the
        last time you saw me is still burned in the back of your mind …you
        gave me roses and I left them there to die. So this is me swallowing my
        pride, standing in front of you saying I’m sorry for that night. And I
        go back to December all the time. You gave me all your love and all I
        gave you was goodbye.” At the end of the song she asks for his
        forgiveness and hints to the fact she wants to be with him again. The
        couple hasn’t reunited and at the recent American Music Awards Swift
        performed the song and at the end added “and he said..it’s too late to
        ‘pologize” from popular song “Apologize” by the band One Republic. [2] She is alluding to the parody video Taylor Lautner made for “Apologize”. [3] Time magazine listed this is one of the top apologies of 2010. [4]

        Jake Gyllenhaal reported spent $160,000 to have her flown over on a private jet for a date. [5] He later broke up with her through text. We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together, State of Grace, All Too Well, Girl at Home and The Moment I Knew are rumored to be about him.

        The songs Dear John and I Knew You Were Trouble are rumored to be about her ex-boyfriend John Mayer, whom she had a fling with at one time.

        The song Enchanted is about Adam Young of Owl City but she never dated him, although he did state his interest in her. [6]

        Harry Styles

        Conor Kennedy

        To learn about Taylor’s current boyfriend, please read Current love interest.

        Joe seems like the only logical option though.

        • Queen Amanda Bynes

          after joe broke up with taylor a magazine said she was pregnant and Tay said that’s impossible .so i think they didn’t have sex.then she said she will never talk about her virginity because people will think of you naked and that is the last she has ever mentioned it.I respect her for that.

          • Zaina777

            She and Joe were obviously having issues because of his break up phone call. So I doubt it was him.

        • Cici

          I know. But didn’t Joe say he lost his virginity to Ashley Greene? And he dated her after he dated Taylor.

          • Queen Amanda Bynes

            i legit believe it was john mayor but she will never confirm anything.
            I’m sure her and Joe fooled around, but doubt they had ‘actual sex’.lol

          • Cici

            Could be him or Jake really. Or she lost it 5 years ago! Either way she handled it well after the breakups. Most girls go crazy after a serious breakup like that…as we have all seen…..

          • Zaina777

            Yeah…so it’s obviously not him…

        • justsayin

          Brandon doesn’t exist lol :) im a stan of taylor’s and her first boyfriend’s name was drew dunlap (not the drew in teardrops)

          • Queen Amanda Bynes

            brandon is real, hes on twitter lol

          • Justsayin

            One of Tay’s friends stated that she never dated a Brandon, unless it’s the guy who was her date for the prom thing they had.

          • Queen Amanda Bynes

            some of the guys she wrote about were guys she never dated ,(only had crushes on or fantasies about dating them) so could be.

            like in ‘marys song’ on her first album she was just looking at her neighbors and imagining their life story and wrote it.

          • HolyGround

            (Just gonna insert myself into the conversation here sorry lol) I think her first boyfriend was Drew Dunlap, and I think that is also who Tim McGraw is about.

          • Zaina777

            No! haha go away your not welcome. You can’t be a Tswizzler.

            Why would she name the song Tim Mcgraw then?

          • HolyGround

            Haha suckss, I was hoping if I made her my icon I could be one.

            And the song was named Tim McGraw because that was her favorite country singer and she hoped whenever the guy listened to Tim, he would think of her.

          • Queen Amanda Bynes

            I am pretty sure your right :) and also ‘teardrops on my guitar too’, that song always makes me cry lol

          • HolyGround

            Teardrops always makes me cry omg. Her voice was seriously perfect when she sang it on the red tour in Texas <3

          • Queen Amanda Bynes

            I bet it was, I’m so jealous you got to go lol, It must have been amazing. I went to the speak now tour so my parents wouldn’t let me go to another. Tay is seriously perfection

          • HolyGround

            Haha I actually didn’t go to that one, but she played story of us at mine and it was sooo good! Aww sad that you didn’t get to go. I remember getting Fearless tickets as a gift and then having to save up for speak now and red for soo long. And yesss she totally is :)

          • Zaina777

            Oh really.? I didn’t now that.

    • Fluff

      i doubt it ‘s joe too, he said he lost it to ash and taylor said that she was a virgin back when she was 18 (it wasn’t meant to be public but it got out)

      • Queen Amanda Bynes

        i love how you know just as much about tay as I do, stans from the beginning! lol

        • Zaina777

          Go Tswizzle.

          • Queen Amanda Bynes

            lol, have you heard dear john before?

          • Zaina777

            No I haven’t why?

          • Queen Amanda Bynes

            its an amazing song and its the reason everyone belives it was john mayor who took her virginity.

            some excepts :P
            ‘It was wrong
            Don’t you think nineteen’s too young
            To be played
            By your dark, twisted games
            When I loved you so’

            ‘You’ll add my name to your long list of traitors who don’t understand
            And I’ll look back in regret I ignored what they said
            “Run as fast as you can”‘

            “And my mother accused me of losing my mind

            But I swore I was fine”

            “Dear John, I see it all now that you’re gone
            Don’t you think I was too young to be messed with?
            The girl in the dress cried the whole way home
            I should’ve known”

          • .

            ‘Don’t you think nineteen’s too youngTo be played
            By your dark, twisted games
            When I loved you so”
            When she was 19 she was with taylor lautner, around her 20th birthday they broke up i think so it might have meant that john was leading her on & so she broke up w/lautner to be with john but then he fucked her up

          • Queen Amanda Bynes

            you can be with more then one person at an age.she was 19 with john mayer and he was 32.
            they started dating in december of 2009 when she was 19 still.

            and she said taylor lautner was one of the nicest guys she dated, back to december is about him.


          • .

            oh i thought she dated lautner in december ? so did she cheat or something?

          • Queen Amanda Bynes

            no she broke up with taylor l. in december , they started dating a few months earlier

        • fluff

          *flips hair* only us queens know this stuff

      • Zaina777

        Yeah I agree.

      • Zaina777

        Exactly I don’t think he would lie about that at all.

        • fluff

          if she lied, she would’ve actually tried to make it oh so obvious but it wasnt something public so i believe her

        • fluff

          opps you said he im sorry about the other comment lmao

  • Dara

    For some reason I can’t imagine her having sex. She just seems too sweet and innocent I guess lol

    • um

      have you heard her song ‘Your anything’ there’s a lyric that’s like ‘if you want hard to get, if you want… *giggles* you just have to let me know’

  • lol

    she seems like the whiny type. always texting and asking what’s he’s doing and who he’s with. maybe he finally got the balls after 3 months and left.

  • Shailene Woodley

    You know it’s a slow news day when they need to write about her relationships that happened years ago.
    And tbh it’s none of theirs or our god damn business who she gave her virgintiy to.

  • ety

    now I know who The Moment I Knew song is about.

  • Marina And My Diamonds

    No one else’s business tbh.

  • AL

    I’m the only one who thinks Taylor lose her virginity to Joe Jonas? I mean look at “last kiss” lyrics,it says : “I watch your life in pictures like i used to watch you Sleep” -so they slept together, also holy ground : “Took off faster than a green light “Go”.
    Yeah, you skipped the conversation when you already know.
    I left a note on the door with a joke we’d made”-we all know what comes after skipping the conversation,aren’t we?

    • threelittlebirds

      yes, because joe didn’t lose it until he dated ashley. he revealed when he lost it in that tell all interview.

  • Godney

    All i see here is BULLSHIT!, one is from Radar… two why this story comes out like 2-3 years after?

  • damnthesecelebs

    You guys… we are like discussing and investigating on someone’s virginity, that’s awkward.

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